Is there a limit ?

[gentlemantoo]

You sir are the hypocrite you claim to despise, Old-T. Who are you to tell me and others what I deserve, who are you pass judgment on me? I have never called you names, passed judgment on you. I point out some flaws in your comments but never would I ever tell people what you deserve, I am not that person.

Who is fanatical now? I happen to believe the Earth is round. I have never seen it for myself from space, only pictures which of course to people living in denial would say were Photoshopped, made up, big conspiracy. I get my information from scholastic communities, scientists, NASA, astronauts. Do you believe the Earth is round? Have you been in space? Are you a retired astronaut? Where do you get information to believe the Earth is round? I know where, same place I get my information that prostitutes are in it for the money. Scholastic community, scoentists, mental health professionals, medical community, etc. But I am fanatical. It is not my truth, I have only seen maybe 30 prostitutes. I performed no experiments, no tests, I did something people in denial refuse to, I researched the subject, I read. So fanatical am I to read!? Now I understand why some people want book burning, to keep the truth out. You misread my posts or could be I do not convey myself well enough. I think you just misread. People in denial tend to do that. Looking for errors, looking for a way to hold on to their truth in spite of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. The world is not flat, it is in fact round. I am sure you will state you are a retired astronaut and you have seen first hand, typical behavior of denial. If you do not write it, you probably thought to and now I killed it.

If believing all these sources, same sources that tells me world is round, is fanatical, so be it. I disagree, and instill do not judge.

Millions of people live in denial for their entire lives. That choice is up to each individual. I try not to, at least in the hobby world. Money is her motivating factor, if not she could have the sex for free. Why she charges you my friend.

Tell us this have you ever had a session that was mediocre and she did not just want you so bad, she did not become friends with you so much. That ever happen to you? And if so how often? All we ever hear from you is the friends, they stay with me, they adore me sessions you seem to have. You admit money is at least one motivator, so ever meet a prostitute that only wanted your cash? Not such a good session?

[yitzchak]

Everybody knows that they're in it for the money. There's no other reason a person would prostitute themselves, other than for the money. All Old Bastard is saying is that, despite this fact, meaningful relationships can develop between the client and the prostitute, especially if they see each other repeatedly. It's not that hard to believe. Of course it can happen.

It's not like he's talking about being their boyfriend, or something like that. He sees older providers who probably genuinely appreciate his kindness and generosity. It's not an unbelievable story.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

You sir are the hypocrite you claim to despise, Old-T. Who are you to tell me and others what I deserve, who are you pass judgment on me?

As you often are, you are wrong.

I am not telling you how to think. You can think whatever you want to, and in the case of your negative view of essentially all women and men in this business, I suspect you are in the majority.

Where I do not give you a pass is your inability or unwillingness to comprehend what others say, and your insistence that any facts contrary to your beliefs must be lies. To the contrary I have accepted everything you say about your experiences on face value--it is only when you refuse to give others any such consideration that I call you out. That is the "fanaticism" I refer to--and you are convicted by your own posts.

Y gets it. I suspect you do also, you are just loath to admit it.

[hotindallas]

Why do some people have to fit ALL people into a single set of parameters that sums up their own limited world view?
Of course providers are in it for the money (those who run around fucking every swinging dick out there for free are called sluts, not providers).

However, not all providers do it because they HAVE to. There are a large number of providers that provide, as the OP asked, "Until the phone stops ringing". There are also some providers who actually do limit themselves to a much lower volume.

IMHO, the providers who do limit themselves to a low volume do so because of one or more of the following reasons (and I'm also sure I'm leaving out some reasons in the list below):
1) They don't HAVE to have the money.
2) They actually wish to maximize the pleasure of the hobby experience both for themselves AND for the client (yes there really are providers that actually enjoy some if not most of their sessions).
3) They have RW jobs and/or families that limit their available hobby time.

To attempt to lump every single provider into a single category based on a single-minded world view about this culture we play in is about the same as saying that everyone HAS to like vanilla ice cream just because most people do.

Good grief. Open your minds, people.

[FLReWrite]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

... who are you pass judgment on me? I have never called you names, passed judgment on you. I point out some flaws in your comments ...

You point out flaws in his comments and that's not being judgmental?

My.

[yitzchak]

Some providers live double lives and are lonely. It is hard to bridge the gap between stranger and friend, but not every genuine offer of friendship is declined or exploited, especially in a world in which finding friendship is increasingly difficult.

Escorts don't look for relationships, because that can lead to dangerous situations when jealousy and envy manifest. Most men don't look for relationships with escorts, because that's not the kind of girl you want to have a relationship with. However, it is not impossible for a relationship to develop. It is hard to gain her trust, and it's hard to trust her, but it's not impossible.

Money will always be an issue with her, unless you are chose. However, even if she likes your money, she can still like you, too. It is probably not probable, considering her job is to sell you a fantasy, but it is not impossible. Old T probably has met women who didn’t fancy him much, but stuck with those who did. I don’t doubt his testimony.

[Gucci]

I think a good “ relationship “ with a provider is a cheaper rate. As much as you would like the thought of getting an awesome blowjob every night at some point you’ll think about the 200 reviews she has and wonder if that’s all the guys she’s slept with, or if only ten percent wrote reviews ! I’ve messed around with a few strippers and I have my fun with ladies from here, but never do I let my dick convince me that the person who just sucked him really and truly loves me.