kelly asked....
is it possible to be attracted to one another and Still keep from ripping each others clothes off?
Can you be friends And be Hot for each other??
Can men and women be Just friends if there is Mutual attraction between them??
it appears that the posters below have answered Yes to a slightly different question "can men and women be friend, has sex and still be friends w/ an attraction still lingering there?"
i definitely answer Yes to that as well as i have three friends i've know for close to 30 yrs who i had a sexual relationship way back when with but no longer do. given the chance, would i do the horizontal mambo again? YES.
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Originally Posted by LuckJack
I have a friend and I trust her with my life, love her love her family. We were always affectionate but never even thought about doing anything, Then one night in Austin we were there without our spouses and we had a little to drink and well..... The rare and good news is that neither on of us every said a word about it and remain affectionate but have never gone there again..please notice I said rare so be prepared to loose a friend.
"Lovers come and go, friends are hard to make and harder still to keep. Work on it, it's worth it" - LuckJack
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luck jack - you said it!!!!
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Originally Posted by UTR4Passion
... I have had and do have many more female friends than male friends. ... I find it harder to have "close" male friends than female friends, but I still have both. Even my 1st wife, of 6 years, still considers me a friend and I consider the same way. ...
I have had sexual relationships with some of my long-term female best friends, but when I go married to my SO, those sleep-overs stopped. Those gals are still my close friends and one is even one of my current business partners.
So, somehow I have found that I could develop friendships with women, have it become sexual and senual and still be great friends outside the bedroom. Maybe they deserve the credit for maintaining the balance instead of me.
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Originally Posted by HugginMan
My best friend is a woman I knew for years and then had an affair with for months. We reached a point where we both realized it was best for everyone if we stopped the sex. Are we still hot for each other? Yep! Do we give in anymore? Nope. And we are still best friends. It's the most amazing example of unbounded love I've ever known.
["Unbounded": That's a word. right? ]
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Originally Posted by CDL1
Kelly TnT,
Great question.
Yes, it is possible and happens all the time. Life is not all about sex. We spend a vast majority of our lives out of the sexual arena.
Finding sexual partners is not hard at all. Finding and keeping a good and loyal friend is very hard to do.
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cdl, another very true statement.
but, kelly to your question, "Can men and women be Just friends if there is Mutual attraction between them??"
i would say yes, but do not have any personal life evidence to support that.
i am good friends w/ several women, one i've know 30 yrs, the other one 13 yrs. it's a one way attraction as i would like to, but neither have told me they'd like to do the horizontal mambo
with me.
we're still great friends w/ pretty good emotional intimacy, but i just keep lil delites in place and every once in a while moan 'holy mamacita!!!" and lick my lips when they cant see me :^)
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