Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Baby Dating

[tx05409]

I would not mind finding a SB that would be in line with my finances, but finding one in my area is almost impossible.

[sketchball82]

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

I was told on a SD sire that women were not obligated to have just one. What did you think?

The internet lies? ;p

Again we're doing the dance that we do all the time in the SD forums about defining a SD/SB relationship.

Is there a formal requirement by the unified board of sugar daddies (UBSD) that sugar babies only have one daddy? Fuck no. But here's the thing... whether you label it SD/SB, friends with benefits, GFE provider, UTR, or hooker on retainer, who gives a fuck if it makes you happy and its what you want?

That being said, the standard is that SBs are monogamous to the SD. Providers, strippers, and "SBs with multiple daddies" are generally not considered SBs by the SDs here at least. Married SBs and SBs with a BF may be a genuine SB. But all that doesn't mean much. It's an arbitrary definition for how we define something here, and further, there are exceptions to every rule. For example, I constantly argue in those forums that the right stripper can make an awesome SB; I constantly get shit for that point of view in the SD forums.

The real key is that SB/SD arrangements have genuine emotion, both ways. Generally speaking, if a daddy is seeing multiple babies, its because he's still selecting his final choice and the emotion hasn't developed yet. That is normal because it's a daddy's market (10 babies-ish for each daddy). Naturally, a daddy when finding the right baby will be seeing several SBs and narrowing down.

If a baby is seeing multiple daddies, generally, she's more of a hooker with a small clientele. I say that because it appears that she's not invested in the emotion, and the arrangement is not about the connection to her daddy but solely about what her daddy can do for her. But again, there are exceptions to every rule. And there are SBs so hot and desirable that even though its a daddy's market, they get to be the choosers.

PS - my avatar is my new potential SB. WOOT!

[Guest030824]

Can I have a sort of SB? Where I give her money each month in return she and I get together every once in a while with no money changing hands each time. This has been going on for several months with each of us having fun. I am not asking her to be exclusive or is she expecting that of me. We just have fun together and enjoy our times together.

[i'va biggen]

Originally Posted by sketchball82

The internet lies? ;p

Again we're doing the dance that we do all the time in the SD forums about defining a SD/SB relationship.

Is there a formal requirement by the unified board of sugar daddies (UBSD) that sugar babies only have one daddy? Fuck no. But here's the thing... whether you label it SD/SB, friends with benefits, GFE provider, UTR, or hooker on retainer, who gives a fuck if it makes you happy and its what you want?

That being said, the standard is that SBs are monogamous to the SD. Providers, strippers, and "SBs with multiple daddies" are generally not considered SBs by the SDs here at least. Married SBs and SBs with a BF may be a genuine SB. But all that doesn't mean much. It's an arbitrary definition for how we define something here, and further, there are exceptions to every rule. For example, I constantly argue in those forums that the right stripper can make an awesome SB; I constantly get shit for that point of view in the SD forums.

The real key is that SB/SD arrangements have genuine emotion, both ways. Generally speaking, if a daddy is seeing multiple babies, its because he's still selecting his final choice and the emotion hasn't developed yet. That is normal because it's a daddy's market (10 babies-ish for each daddy). Naturally, a daddy when finding the right baby will be seeing several SBs and narrowing down.

If a baby is seeing multiple daddies, generally, she's more of a hooker with a small clientele. I say that because it appears that she's not invested in the emotion, and the arrangement is not about the connection to her daddy but solely about what her daddy can do for her. But again, there are exceptions to every rule. And there are SBs so hot and desirable that even though its a daddy's market, they get to be the choosers.

PS - my avatar is my new potential SB. WOOT!

which led to my first comment wanting some feed back from women here. I have had two SB experiences.

[Gotyour6]

Women here are hookers. They will say that a sugar daddy doesn't mind them having a bunch of men.

They will also say that they want to find a sugar daddy. A sugar daddy will find them if the sugar daddy wants them. (Notice the period on the end.)

The confusion is that guys will think a hooker on retainer is a sugar baby.

They will also say that they are the same.

I do not buy a car for a hooker, I don't take them out to dinner, I don't give them advise on things and I don't expect them to call me when they want a visit because they need money.

Any sugar baby I had wouldn't call me saying "Hun, I would love to see you and it will only cost you 200 for this hour because I need to cure my kid of cancer"

My girl would ask if i wanted to come over for a movie and we would watch a movie. She would not expect anything in return but my companionship. We may fuck or we may not.

Think of a sugar baby as a friend that you help and fuck and enjoy each others company. When we are done I don't wipe my dick of, kiss her on the cheek and say thanks babe.

[Gotyour6]

Originally Posted by tucson

Can I have a sort of SB? Where I give her money each month in return she and I get together every once in a while with no money changing hands each time. This has been going on for several months with each of us having fun. I am not asking her to be exclusive or is she expecting that of me. We just have fun together and enjoy our times together.

That is a hooker on retainer.

I have one, I call him my lawyer and he fucks me every time I see him.

[SexiLexi333]

I would love to find a Sugar Daddy!

I love to travel and be spoiled!
I would love for him to buy me camera equipment!
We could have so much fun together...I could fill up my passport with all the exotic destinations that we travel to!

I would love to be his Sugar Baby!

Just sayin....

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by SexiLexi333

I would love to find a Sugar Daddy!

I ...
I ....
...I could ...

I would love to be his Sugar Baby!

Good luck.

[thebuffmantraples]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Women here are hookers. They will say that a sugar daddy doesn't mind them having a bunch of men.

They will also say that they want to find a sugar daddy. A sugar daddy will find them if the sugar daddy wants them. (Notice the period on the end.)

The confusion is that guys will think a hooker on retainer is a sugar baby.

They will also say that they are the same.

I do not buy a car for a hooker, I don't take them out to dinner, I don't give them advise on things and I don't expect them to call me when they want a visit because they need money.

Any sugar baby I had wouldn't call me saying "Hun, I would love to see you and it will only cost you 200 for this hour because I need to cure my kid of cancer"

My girl would ask if i wanted to come over for a movie and we would watch a movie. She would not expect anything in return but my companionship. We may fuck or we may not.

Think of a sugar baby as a friend that you help and fuck and enjoy each others company. When we are done I don't wipe my dick of, kiss her on the cheek and say thanks babe.

I bet all them suga babies still fuck others and for money as they so choose.(prosti whaa).

[SexiLexi333]

Moving on...

A person has to be beautiful on the inside to be beautiful on the outside.
Sad to see so many women haters on this board!
I...
I...
I...
Have a lot to offer the right person (not the haters)!
I...am also well established in my career and do this for fun!
I...
have my photos up for all to see...and they are really me! You...hide behind an avatar! Probably a large, sloven man hating women behind the protection of the impersonal internet! Sad really!
I...
I...
I...
am sure that you have an ugly retort! Unfortunately for you...I will not be reading it! Peace out!

[Austinfunandfit]

Whats the going rates you guys pay or spend on a SB in a month?

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Austinfunandfit

Whats the going rates you guys pay or spend on a SB in a month?

$600 to $800 on the low side

$1200 to $1600 on the high side but I haven't seen the high side in over 3 years...

Current GF that was a SB avg a little less than $600a month

That is only representative of money I spend to directly pay for something she needs or wants. It is not reflective of the money I spend taking her out with me, buying her dinners, show tickets etc......

Many girls are in it simply to improve the quality of the experiences they would never have the opportunity to have in other ways.....

It's amazing the quality of the sex after a nice dinner and 2 hours at a broadway show where she got all dressed up and saw something for the first time and left with a souvenier tshirt.....

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by thebuffmantraples

I bet all them suga babies still fuck others and for money as they so choose.(prosti whaa).

those that do were whores to start out with. There is no shortage of ladies that escort and also have profiles on sugar sites......

Most real babies are seeing one guy and the majority don't have personal relationships with other guys during it.

They can wrap their head around having sex with a guy that is helping them out, mentoring them and showing them a variety of new life experiences that brings them joy..... the idea of it being transactional/P4P disgusts them.

I always got a kick out of the stripper that took Tuesday off and fucked me a few times for the $250 she would have made dancing but sees a girl that is an escort and comments on what a whore she is.

There are different psychological mindsets in play.

[sand247]

[QUOTE=Gotyour6;1056105631]

Think of a sugar baby as a friend that you help and fuck and enjoy each others company.

QUOTE]

Wise man. That's about as succinct as you can get with a SB/SD description. GY6 for President.

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by SexiLexi333

... Sad to see so many women haters on this board!

Ah, Miss, you found hate where there was but love. I am sorry. And, I will make a note NOT to wish you "Good Luck" in the future.

I...
Have a lot to offer the right person (not the haters)!

And yet you're original post was about what you wanted from the ATM, er, SD. That was my point. An observation culled from your own words. A gentle prod that you might examine more closely what you had written.

I...am also well established in my career and do this for fun!

Good for you.

I...
have my photos up for all to see...and they are really me!

Good to know. Are they up to date though, or maybe a few years old?

You...hide behind an avatar!

I didn't know gents were supposed to post profile pics. If you explain how to do it, I'll get some of mine up forthwith.

p.s., That is my eye btw.

Probably a large, sloven man hating women

Lithesome and lighthearted. Ask around. They'll all agree.

behind the protection of the impersonal internet!

If there's another way to do this internet thing that is more personal, I'm all for it. Got any suggestions? If not, can we just agree to play by the rules? You know: write it, own it.

Sad really!

It need not be sad though. Feedback is the breakfast of champions! You might even embrace the fact that someone, anyone, even an anonymous no one on a SHMB, has taken a few moments from their daily allotment to respond to something you have written, whether heartfelt or silly or ignorant, or some combination therein.


I feel truly honored when someone deigns come out to play.

I...
am sure that you have an ugly retort!

The BIG question: will you find this reply to be UGLY?

Unfortunately for you...I will not be reading it! Peace out!

If that is so, I still had fun writing it.

Again: Good Luck