Fake Love

[Bruce Fassbender]

Originally Posted by jack_black81

Personal questions don't lure me, as I'm pretty adept at reading bs, but other things do

Little lesson here is, we have to check our egos at the door.

Some of us arent old, are in good shape, workout etc which is different from many clients providers see. And while in ur mind, you figure she's attracted to you based on that....just figure she's seen ppl better looking than you, better shape, funnier, more money, maybe even famous/athlete...the list goes on and on. EVERYTHING you can hang your hat on about urself, by the time these women have been with high-hundreds(some maybe a thousand) of different men, they've seen it ALL. They've practiced it all in terms of how to look you right in the eye and be fake/lie/work you, etc.


To avoid attachment, some guys will go into a session and avoid speaking much altogether, just do their thing and leave.... but then the girls complain that that's "weird/they don't like that/makes them feel cheap" . Haha...just like in real life, theres no pleasing these women, either.

So fucking true...that's why I can't continue this hobby...my ego and my self worth far outweighs what these "priced livestock" care about me...I tried to treat them as human beings, but they are not truly ...They are no different than the cashiers at McDonalds...except one has a respectable profession and is honest about her intentions and doesn't call you "babe" or "love" ...

[Bruce Fassbender]

Originally Posted by PetrusMaximus

Reminder to you about intimacy from providers.

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[PetrusMaximus]

Originally Posted by Bruce Fassbender

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You sound like Captain Ahab whining about Moby Dick who chewed off one of his leg.

Moby Dick is going to do what it wants to do. There is no way your influence will make any sense to it.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by Bruce Fassbender

Once money gets involved nothing is for certain...Your worth becomes inextricably tied to your money...Hence the terms "Mo money mo problems"..."It's lonely at the top"...Once the money is gone, the women go as well...except for the people who valued you without the knowledge of what you have...

M.C. Hammer is the living definition of this statement.

[Bruce Fassbender]

Originally Posted by TexTushHog

I don't know what happened. But some providers hate their job. Others can maintain a more positive attitude toward it. I have no idea if any really like it, though a few profess to do so. But it's hard to hide real feelings. And for those who are unhappy fucking you, of fucking anybody for a living, the illusion us going to slip at times. C'est la vie! It goes with the territory.

True, would you like fucking strangers (ok bad question)..I have never known a woman who would be an escort...that's just not how women operate...these "things" are not women..

[Bruce Fassbender]

Originally Posted by Alastair

An epiphany like that (the op story) tells me you're looking for real love, not play. Make the hard decision and get out of the hobby. It's going to drain you.

Amen, brother...I am incapable of having sex without a sense of real mutual desire ...it seems barbaric...

[Penelope Pearl]

Originally Posted by Bruce Fassbender

I recently had a god awful experience with an ATF once I realized I was nothing to her but a source of income. Now I know providers aren't truly into really any of their clients (hence the IOP) but I thought we had a genuine friendship; when in actuality she was just counting down the seconds until I left. Her laugh, her smile, her eyes...it's alllll fake. I had that epiphany during a session and my dick went limp and I just fucking left. Hobbying is obviously not for me, but I was wondering how you guys cope with that knowledge. I'd rather fuck a piece of cardboard.

You're paying for a fantasy nothing more nothing less.. Not to mention you're paying a whore its her job to make you feel as if you're the best thing since sliced bread..

Duh it's all fake if we really had feelings for you we wouldn't accept the money it takes to deal with you..

If you can't separate your feelings from reality that your just a walking atm then you're in for major dissapointment..

Exactly why I don't like long appointments because people can't accept the fact that I'm just there for you to get a nutt & that's it.. This is a job we do this to make a living & just think how many dicks were in her mouth before you got there.. How does dick taste ? Obviously you like it because you kept going back..

I'm a whore
I have what you need
Your a trick
You have what I need & it's not your dick..

If we didn't lie to you then you wouldn't keep coming back.. We tell you whatever we have to so that you feel like you're a million bucks..

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Penelope Pearl

You're paying for a fantasy nothing more nothing less.. Not to mention you're paying a whore its her job to make you feel as if you're the best thing since sliced bread..

Duh it's all fake if we really had feelings for you we wouldn't accept the money it takes to deal with you..

If you can't separate your feelings from reality that your just a walking atm then you're in for major dissapointment..

Exactly why I don't like long appointments because people can't accept the fact that I'm just there for you to get a nutt & that's it.. This is a job we do this to make a living & just think how many dicks were in her mouth before you got there.. How does dick taste ? Obviously you like it because you kept going back..

I'm a whore
I have what you need
Your a trick
You have what I need & it's not your dick..

If we didn't lie to you then you wouldn't keep coming back.. We tell you whatever we have to so that you feel like you're a million bucks..

I like this girl

[Barrymccockinner]

Originally Posted by Penelope Pearl

You're paying for a fantasy nothing more nothing less.. Not to mention you're paying a whore its her job to make you feel as if you're the best thing since sliced bread..

Duh it's all fake if we really had feelings for you we wouldn't accept the money it takes to deal with you..

If you can't separate your feelings from reality that your just a walking atm then you're in for major dissapointment..

Exactly why I don't like long appointments because people can't accept the fact that I'm just there for you to get a nutt & that's it.. This is a job we do this to make a living & just think how many dicks were in her mouth before you got there.. How does dick taste ? Obviously you like it because you kept going back..

I'm a whore
I have what you need
Your a trick
You have what I need & it's not your dick..

If we didn't lie to you then you wouldn't keep coming back.. We tell you whatever we have to so that you feel like you're a million bucks..

Why is this such a turn on? Promise me that if we ever meet you'll at least gargle with mouthwash before opening the door, though.

[Bruce Fassbender]

Originally Posted by Penelope Pearl

You're paying for a fantasy nothing more nothing less.. Not to mention you're paying a whore its her job to make you feel as if you're the best thing since sliced bread..

Duh it's all fake if we really had feelings for you we wouldn't accept the money it takes to deal with you..

If you can't separate your feelings from reality that your just a walking atm then you're in for major dissapointment..

Exactly why I don't like long appointments because people can't accept the fact that I'm just there for you to get a nutt & that's it.. This is a job we do this to make a living & just think how many dicks were in her mouth before you got there.. How does dick taste ? Obviously you like it because you kept going back..

I'm a whore
I have what you need
Your a trick
You have what I need & it's not your dick..

If we didn't lie to you then you wouldn't keep coming back.. We tell you whatever we have to so that you feel like you're a million bucks..

Beautifully stated! and I've only seen her thrice...the third time being the best because I didn't even fuck her...I just left in disgust...I gotta say the only time I felt truly satisfied after seeing a whore...

[PetrusMaximus]

This is what you want.

[biggestbubba]

So fucking true...that's why I can't continue this hobby...my ego and my self worth far outweighs what these "priced livestock" care about me...I tried
to treat them as human beings, but they are not truly ...They are no different than the cashiers at McDonalds...except one has a respectable profession

If you truly had such a strong ego and sense of self-worth, you would not make such degrading statements. And can we infer that you also talk down and degrade McDonald's cashiers? Not cool.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by biggestbubba

So fucking true...that's why I can't continue this hobby...my ego and my self worth far outweighs what these "priced livestock" care about me...I tried
to treat them as human beings, but they are not truly ...They are no different than the cashiers at McDonalds...except one has a respectable profession

If you truly had such a strong ego and sense of self-worth, you would not make such degrading statements. And can we infer that you also talk down and degrade McDonald's cashiers? Not cool.

Don't over think the hobby, find another provider that gets your lil guy excited and try again.

[PetrusMaximus]

She's a mean bad girl, bro.

Take her down to bed and give her some spanking for being such a bad girl.

[Analeese]

This a very interesting topic.... And really touched my heart...But I've always been a hopeless romantic

IOP is a mother fucker right?!?

It's hard to explain...The passion in IOP is fake and real both at the same time...Atleast for me it is...I always find things I like about pretty much everyone I meet.. Personality wise and looks...I want to know my client and I want my clients to know me. Knowing my client helps me engage in our session and also learn how to please them. All that is real...But what makes it seem fake is the money....And bad IOP lol

Sometimes as an escort...I might even say as a woman...It's difficult to be intimate with strangers sometimes.... Maybe she asked personal things about you to try and create a connection or get comfortable with you.

Don't let the fun and fantasy of this lifestyle fool you though... It'll leave you sad, heart broken and lonely...

I wouldn't give up on the hobby just yet....The right one hasn't come along yet....