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BrookeButtons · 06-27-2011, 12:08 PM

For my self, once a "connection" has been made, I would be more than willing and able to explore new terrortires. But I have to say that rough(er) sex wouldn't be on the menu for a new comer.

A little hair pulling, spank or nibbling never hurt in the heat of passion, but trust and respect also has to be in the factor to enjoy it.

Like many others have stated... it never hurts to ask what the ladies limits are if this is something your looking for, because obviously many of you could be getting this type of serivce from many women.

Crystalaries · 06-27-2011, 01:03 PM

I would have to say that it all depends on who you are with and the connection that you have with that person. Sometimes you are just in the mood for something a little shall we say...not so vanilla. Othertimes, the sweet and sensual are just what the Dr. ordered. As long as both are in agreement that if it gets too rough you can pull in the reins and tone it down a little.

guest111111 · 06-27-2011, 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Crystalaries

I would have to say that it all depends on who you are with and the connection that you have with that person. Sometimes you are just in the mood for something a little shall we say...not so vanilla. Othertimes, the sweet and sensual are just what the Dr. ordered. As long as both are in agreement that if it gets too rough you can pull in the reins and tone it down a little.

DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER!

offshoredrilling · 06-27-2011, 03:50 PM

I'm having a problem, what is to far. Her and I have pasted out cold on the other.

t2009 · 07-04-2011, 10:36 AM

Would like to go rough sex but girls get really scared when the topicis brought up. I would love to go with more rough and passionate sex but providers are afraid.

Lexxxy · 07-04-2011, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by t2009

Would like to go rough sex but girls get really scared when the topicis brought up. I would love to go with more rough and passionate sex but providers are afraid.

Every girl is different, just ask

offshoredrilling · 07-04-2011, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Every girl is different, just ask

And I think with some you have to start to become a frequent flier. And sometime if you fly one airline a lot. It may develop without asking.

Guest091813 · 07-04-2011, 02:20 PM

i look at it like this..if you open the door and its a surprise to me..then understand you have opened the door and its gonna be a surprise for you!!!(insert evil laugh)

offshoredrilling · 07-04-2011, 04:02 PM

And true some will not go for it at all!!!!!!thanks to a evil grin reminder.

yes I have to be more careful see nothing

JPE1015 · 07-04-2011, 06:22 PM

Lexxxy, love your posts. They def get the thoughts going and the juices flowing. I think this is a boundary thing and has to be tuned to the level the woman enjoys - not the man.

brinker999 · 07-04-2011, 08:38 PM

Lexxxy - you're so naughty - I LOVE IT

JohnnyCap · 11-02-2014, 05:56 AM

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Originally Posted by DDarkness

This really seems to be a PERSONAL CHOICE issue! If you want rough sex OUTFUCKINGSTANDING, that is if the provider is willing and you are BOTH communicating your desires and limits clearly .... There are TWO things to consider when sex becomes "rough" (1) it may no longer be consensual sex and (2) it borders on, or is actually assault/assaultive behavior!

And NB thanks I couldn't agree with you more. I know that I am looking for a passionate GFE, a PSE can be nice too, but I need the passion and the idea of hurting someone for pleasure is not in my PERSONAL bag of tricks!

I think people who try to emphasize words through capitalization are usually lying.