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Originally Posted by TheOriginalDannie
...I agree with ya, Emily...on everything. I was starting to wonder if the gents who have thrown in their expertise, had clits! Amazing that all the providers who have responded, say it's mostly clitoral. We must not know what we are missing  !! Hahahaha 
Motor is a sweetheart...Some men care...
...jfred...the more 'bitter' gents... |
Uh oh do I sense needless controversy here? Who has suggested that clits aren't the bomb? And who ever said motor isn't a sweetheart!?
Really all I've been trying to advocate is a broader look at how women work. Forever NO ONE knew -- men (all the scientists and researchers) were getting off okay and most nice women didn't complain. I'm serious, if you haven't kept up with the recent science then, even tho I don't have female parts, or have babies or bleed -- I know something about your (meaning all women) sexual wiring that you don't.
And guess why I'm interested in this stuff, and study it and consider the implications. "Woman's Pleasure" gets you 10 points. Expertise for its own sake is pointless. And please note that I've been talking about men and women in general, without the sticky business of time and money -- complications, but one can work around them.
Motor, a very sincere word to you: You asked a good question. If I've made fun of you it's just because I like to have fun. You've been gracious in return and I assume that's because you understand that I have zero malice toward you. Ditto "bitterness" toward ladies of the night (these we've been talking to or in general).
If you are in a position to devote a year or two (meaning cash and flexibility), try something like this. It's what I did (with lots of unpleasant details left out
. Among your scarlet women find two or three or four who have the head for helping and tell them the truth: That you want to explore, you're on a quest for wisdom, knowledge and understanding in the realms of sexual pleasure and fulfillment. If you read there are some great books that combine cutting edge science with practical application.
Select your tutors well, it's important. You will find this hard to believe in the presence of these fine ladies but there are gals who want you to cum and more out for the next guy...obviously they won't enlighten you.
So start with Dannie and Emily here. They are clued in to how they function and respond. Ask them to masturbate for you. Dannie gets verbal
ask her to talk it out for you. Jack off as she does it if you want to. Hold her hand or let her guide you. Have fun! Sex and the question of their own competency is so frightening for some guys. Lighten it up. Confess ignorance. Profess a desire to please women. Field work with a goal!
Motor, some folks are going to rag me for claiming "exertise" about women or sex. Let them, I'm talking to you here. I used to be incredibly shy and awkward. Women were amazing but utterly mysterious. A vagina was something I hesitated to get to close to
and sex had an element of hoping I didn't embarrass myself. I still fucked, of course, but it sucked, too.
A few great hookers changed my life. I don't hobby anymore. Truthfully, if I had the money I used to (pre-recession, damn those bankers!) I'd probably still buy a woman occasionally. But I don't have to --
somehow I'm able to coerce an occasional woman to have sex with me. When that happens they want to come back. I'm a great fuck. It's not rocket science. You can do it. Don't be in a hurry or get discouraged if you have a bad session.
When providers start suggesting that you could visit once a month no charge (because despite the job "I need a good fuck") and soccer mom's look at you suspiciously (but gratefully) and say, "Where did you come from and how did you do that?" your lessons are complete and your real studies begin.
If you want a couple other names PM me.
Peace.
