When a Hobbyist/Provider Outs You

[Rcoop361]

Originally Posted by mansfield

Mansfield - the girl should screen, right? If she screens she is very likely to have his real info. If he doesn't get a rental car each time he goes to an appt she can get his lic plate and trace it. If for some reason he doesn't use a hobby phone she can get his info by tracing the phone #. There are countless ways that a girl can get a guy's info.

Taxi, P411, throwaway phone. Those are pretty simple things.

Sure there are countless ways to get info, but there are countless ways to minimize that risk as well. I'm not defending her at all, don't misunderstand, I'm just saying that we have MUCH to lose and it's easy to get complacent.

Dangerous to do that and this is a reminder of that.

As for her, she should be done for in a very public way so everyone can know.

+1000000000000

DING, DING, DING "WE HAVE A WINNER" For thinking with the BIG Head rather than the small head

[anova444]

Originally Posted by Luckyl

Don't be callin' me nice. I'm on a mission to perfect asshole since I'm retired from all this sultry, stuffy, muggy, hot and stifling stuff. Now

LOL!

Originally Posted by TheBizzer

For the true definition of sultry, check out Meryl Streep in


IMO, she's never been better, or sultrier.

Sorry for the completely unrelated tangent, now i'll let ya'll get back on track.

ROTFLMAO!!!

[QueenSophie]

Originally Posted by Dannie

Essentially there is no punishment for the providers who do this to hobbyists. Hell, some of these bitches consider themselves GFE of the decade.

GFE of the fucking decade? Really?

I think they should be publicly shamed and ostracized from the community. Just my .2.

Care to clue me in on this?? I sure the hell would like to know. No, really...I mean I would really like to know because unless I was to make a statement/accusation toward anyone in public, I make damn sure I know what Im talking about, beforehand.

Im hoping the comment was just something someone said they consider themselves, and not directed toward who I think you are directing this to....so, yeah, care to clue me in????

[QueenSophie]

Originally Posted by femalehobbyist

I still believe there are so many beautiful souls in this community and that they far out number the ones that have malicious agendas. I am an optomist and always will be so let's focus on how to make this community better than it has become.

Love to all!

Kind of like someone claiming to come into a large sum of cash and an instant child of which neither exhisted to begin with, and to go as far as to have someone else lie about it and say that they have "gone to bat" for that someone and put it on paper, for who was making up the lie to cover their ass for some of the umpteen million lies befor that.

Kinda like that kind of love??

[hwygnome]

Put the names(current,past) on a list controlled by management once it appears the outing has happened for real. This place is to exchange info. If not in public than let it happen in private areas.

All this running around and reading things into posts can end up hurting people who had nothing to do with it while the real doers of evil get away with it. Once might have been a mistake or for very good reasons but once it happens more than that I would consider it normal behavior and I would really want to avoid that person.

Once the membership has the info then we can make an informed choice. One person I know of here was banned from somewhere else for outing as mentioned earlier but then most of us transplants are already aware of that episode but she evidently is not hurting for business.

I know I have a hard time reading between the lines even when they are left to read.

[guest071811-3]

If someone..either hobbyiest or provider EVER..and i mean EVER has enough info to out you..someone crossed the line that should never be crossed..SOMEWHERE..

understand women are still women..paid or not..and when crossed and let money be involved..things can get rather crazy real fast.. guys should be careful with what info they are willing to give up in the quest for pussy..

And its absolutely crazy to even think a girl could possibly ever be ignorant enough to devulge info about herself..girls have it easy in this world.. fake names, fake numbers, hotel rooms.. its pretty easy to stay unknown..

guys unfortunately have to be "screened" and should be very reluctant to give out to much info.. you play with girls with sketchy backgrounds and give up willingly employer info, full names, addresses or numerous other things girls ask for..and your asking for trouble..

guys..be smart with your info..pussy ain't worth being outted.. remember..its not uncommon to be "listed" for very small stuff that you are unaware you even did and your info pops up everywhere.. tacky to say the least..but i'm sorry..first name, some references.. a handle..some history on the boards..a hobby phone number should be good enough for some pussy to be bought..

be careful..but the day someone has enough info to out someone is the day that someone slipped up and gave to much info to someone

Originally Posted by txcwby6

I believe that discretion is what makes for a good Hobbyist/Provider relationship (financial or otherwise) work. A married man seeks out the companionship of a Provider for whatever reason to obtain some "relief." A Provider has clients that afford financial support in exchange for the aforemontioned "relief" in whatever form or quantity might be arranged beforehand.

So where does outting fit into that? I received an email from a Hobbyist alerting me to a Provider that had outted him to his wife. Despicable! Now he's undoubtedly feeling the heat from a variety of sources. If children discover the truth about "Dad" what sort of damage does that inflict upon them? Nowadays, some companies enforce a personal conduct code that can result in demotion, loss of pay or your job if its learned that you indulge in Hobbying.

And what about Providers? They're also wives and mothers, have family that may not be aware of their profession and, if they have another job, can face the same consequences (loss of job) that a Provider might.

Does the Eccie oligarch enforce some "code of conduct" when/if an outting occurs? Doe the simple "wod-of-mouth" inflict sufficient punishment upon womever perfrom the outting? Do Hobbyists impose the "black mark" on a Provider so that she suffers financial penalties? Do Providers place a similar mark on a Hobbyist foolish enough to do this? Is there someplace that such information is exchanged so that Hobbyists and Providers alike can verify the other party's sanity and good faith?

I understand that Eccie has to be careful what it does and does not allow tp be posted re Hopbbyists and Providers but does this rise to a level that it should be posted elsewhere as an alternative source?

[femalehobbyist]

Originally Posted by Sophie

Kind of like someone claiming to come into a large sum of cash and an instant child of which neither exhisted to begin with, and to go as far as to have someone else lie about it and say that they have "gone to bat" for that someone and put it on paper, for who was making up the lie to cover their ass for some of the umpteen million lies befor that.

Kinda like that kind of love??

Sophie, "GFE of the decade", if this conversation pushed you out of your comfort zone maybe you should think twice about your actions in the future.

As far as attacking me, my personal and private life into this thread and placing your malicious and twisted turn on this I am at a loss. You have never as much as met me and correct me if I am wrong mods, isn't bringing real life information into the hobby something worthy of banning?

[LazurusLong]

If someone is stupid enough to put their real life information, such as their personal FACEBOOK Page, on an escort review board, oh say, TER, who knows who might stumble upon it and take pleasure in exposing someone who fucks a provider over.

There are some guys who leave a trail of pissed off providers to the point that any number of them might just be inclined to nail their hide to the wall or better yet, drape their carcass over a fence in the middle of nowhere.

Having heard of a provider having letters sent to the school where their child attends is the lowest I've ever heard of and there is at least one person in this thread who did that asshat thing.

Posting a client's former handle from another board as they try hard to hide a very long DO NOT SEE black list is way different than sending information to their spouse. Or to their family or to their employer.

Well, unless they happened to have married a retired escort and then, all they might be doing is confirming that the hubby is a lying sack of shit.

There's a huge pot of shit about to boil over as a result of this thread and some folks really and truly best look in the mirror very very hard before they get all high and mighty because there really are some out there who know where way too many bodies are buried and might just need to step away from the keyboard or at least away from this here thread.

[anova444]

Originally Posted by femalehobbyist

Sophie, "GFE of the decade", if this conversation pushed you out of your comfort zone maybe you should think twice about your actions in the future.

You have never as much as met me and correct me if I am wrong mods, isn't bringing real life information into the hobby something worthy of banning?

I for one hope so.

[lionheart]

One growing problem I see on this board more so than the aspd days, is that no one seems to have the fucking stones to name names. I see guys and gals both starting threads all the time bitching and moaning about how somebody outed someone, or somebody NCNS'd, or somebody has a pimp who walked in the room in the middle of a session, or whatever else...but never name names. No fucking accountability these days...in my opinion if you aren't gonna step up to the plate and name names to maybe save the rest of us from having to go through what you just went through, then you lose your right to bitch. Ok, I'll get down off my soap box now. Sure would be nice if people around here would grow some stones.

[anova444]

The name is all over the place. There's a pic of a movie poster.

[guest071811-3]

AMEN BRUTHA PREACH ON

It would be so refreshing for this to happen..and make people accountable for their actions both girls and guys.. unfortunately therein lies the problem..guys typically have more to lose by growing some stones..hence the root of this thread..guys being outed..

however..i know where you are coming from..if someone outed you..you have nothing to lose..so might as well name some names..and let the public decide

Originally Posted by lionheart

One growing problem I see on this board more so than the aspd days, is that no one seems to have the fucking stones to name names. I see guys and gals both starting threads all the time bitching and moaning about how somebody outed someone, or somebody NCNS'd, or somebody has a pimp who walked in the room in the middle of a session, or whatever else...but never name names. No fucking accountability these days...in my opinion if you aren't gonna step up to the plate and name names to maybe save the rest of us from having to go through what you just went through, then you lose your right to bitch. Ok, I'll get down off my soap box now. Sure would be nice if people around here would grow some stones.

[anova444]

Originally Posted by TheBizzer

For the true definition of sultry, check out Meryl Streep in


IMO, she's never been better, or sultrier.

Sorry for the completely unrelated tangent, now i'll let ya'll get back on track.

**polite caugh**

[Luckyl]

Originally Posted by anova444

**polite caugh**

...I just wanted to slide underneath ya!

[ItalianaPrincess]

is this a new release or an older one that I missed?





PPE- Yes they should be "whupped" and beheaded in front of all the towns' ppl here on the boards. - J.k.!!

But really, there should be some sort of banning from the boards. I'm not one for retaliation (and never chose to stoop that low- even when it happened to me, BELIEVE ME I HAD ENUFF SHITSTORM to be dealing with at the time) but letting these ppl walk scott-free & continue to slander other's while still out amongst the general population. Sometimes kharma just takes too long...and as a victim it would've been nice to at least hear from others that there was some type of punishment.

But that's all water under a bridge somewhere 4 years back...



XOXO,
ItalianaPrincess