Would you see a provider that offers BBFS?

[Victoria of Houston]

Originally Posted by Houston65

Yes, exactly. You have good answers.

So if a provider says "NO" she wouldn't....then how does she know the client isn't HIV+?

Same goes for a client...he says NO he won't go with a provider that offers BBFS, but he doesn't know if she does or doesn't and he goes anyhow.

To stray a bit off the original topic and comment on this comment...

I think it was CB once who commented about the risks involved in hobbying. Even if you do everything covered there will always be risks in doing the nasty with someone who has had multiple partners. This is a risk both the hobbyist and provider take when deciding to engage in this act. Therefore, to quote an old adage, if you can't stand the heat, then get out of the kitchen.

Now as far as seeing someone who has done bb, well, again, that's a decision everyone has to make for themselves.

[Randall Creed]

A good reason, I think, to stay away from bbfs is not to spoil yourself with the feeling if you plan to stay in the hobby. At least it's the reasoning I use. If you have a SO and bb with them, that's one thing, but bed hopping and doing it is something else entirely.
If I did do any bb'ing, there won't be any pullout. Unless you're going for a pornstar finish, it defeats the purpose of going bareback, IMO. Yes, I know how great it feels from relationships in the past, but it's been a long enough while that I don't necessarily miss the extreme pleasure of an explosive creampie finish. Finishing in a condom is good enough for now...until I get married (which I don't plan to do).

Don't give in to the temptation.

[Guest030617]

Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

AND I suspect there is a LARGE percentage of providers who have a SO, or serious BFs from time to time and I would assume there is BB sex involved.

BUT I read the question differently.
I read it as, would you go see a provider for a NORMAL GFE session, kissy-face, licky-kitty, licky-dicky and of course CFS – IF you know she also offered others BBFS.

I am not picking on any provider, but BabyDollSnow and Dylan are pg and guys are seeing them

SexyMichelle, Ivory,and a few others were recently Pregnant – and they continued to provide.

SO TO ANSWER THE QUESTION:

If there is a provider I want to see and I learn that she ALSO offers BBFS, that fact alone would not dissuade me from seeing her for a CFS session

At first i took this alllll wrong, but after reading this CB again and again, i understand what you are saying....very good on they way you worded it too.

your right about the percentage of grls having So's cuz i did....i just made the mistake of having uncovered sex with the dead beat in between switching birth controls!!!!!

And i have it in my signature that i dont offer it cuz i get *donate more for bbfs* all the time, almost everyday so there are guys out there even on here that look for that.....THEY JUST WONT ADMIT IT!!!

[coefficient]

I won't judge a provider for having an abortion

[Omari]

Originally Posted by coefficient

I won't judge a provider for having an abortion

Hold on everyone this may turn ugly real quick.

[Guest030617]

Originally Posted by coefficient

I won't judge a provider for having an abortion

I dont judge anyone for what they do with their bodies.....but for me NOT AN OPTION.

he may be a dead beat daddy, but that baby is a part of me tooo.....and i love kids to much to kill one...my two cents

[St.Mateo]

Ok gang stay on topic ......abortion is a totally different subject and a very heated one as well.......

[guest071811-3]

If the question is... "would you see a provider that offers BBFS but you are not seekign to take part in it..but simply want a CFS session with her"..

then a large portion of the hobbyiest do that daily..either known or unknown..as like was said..any girl with HALF A LIFE..has gone bareback with someone in their life at sometime or another..may currently have an SO..or BF she thinks she can trust to be safe and goes bareback with..

so a guy wanting CFS from a provider that "offers" bbfs or not..its happening.. yes yoru risk are greater with someone that openly offers it.. and is fucking that many different men bareback..

but there is no promise that just cuz a girl ain't offering it for pay..that she ain't fucking strangers she thinks she is in love with bareback..and seeing hobbyiest covered..

now if the question was "would you see a provider that advertises bbfs and wanted bbfs yourself.. well that would be hobby suicide to admit


in the end.. the whole BBFS thing is completely goofy..since hobbyiest and providers alike have lives outside of this world where they most likely engage in fucking people they love or think they love without condoms.. thus fucking someone that may be fucking others bareback etc etc etc... advertising it or not.. no one knows..you won't ever know..

guys only know what girls reveal.. there is far more money to be made from a girl making guys they go bareback with think its exclusive..then to advertise it..thus leaving it unknown

[texasjohn1965]

Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

..there is far more money to be made from a girl making guys they go bareback with think its exclusive..then to advertise it..

I think I just found my new sig line

[Brooke Wilde]

Originally Posted by enderwiggin

Be a gentleman; change your condom after you put it in her butt.

Okay, now that's a bumper sticker I want to see on cars all over Houston.

[ThatManFromTexas]

Originally Posted by enderwiggin

Be a gentleman; change your condom after you put it in her butt.

I find it easier to change it after ... I TAKE IT OUT of her butt ...

[Jase41]

As someone who is single (widower) and now in this hobby, my view would be definently no. I think the fear of causing a pregnancy would certainly sour the moment, and I would have to decline if that offer was presented. The fear and worry of "am I going to be a father" would probably emotionally kill me.

There is one provider I was with, and even with a raincoat at the end it fell, but seemed "dry", as many have stated, there are always risks, so even now I fear a call here within weeks with those infamous words, "I'm pregnant", but that is a risk we all take.

If the provider offers BBBJ, you are at risk for diseases as well...saliva, but my biggest fear would have to be pregnancy, which leads to another point, but that belongs on a seperate thread, not to get off topic.

Just my thoughts...

[ratboy jam]

Come on and be realistic...we all "know" of the "rumors" of some of our past and present providers that do or have offered BBFS.
While the "talk" of it may only be 50% true between the guys...it does/has happened.
I have a reliable friend in the hobby that was always asked by a provider to "see her"...even though we know the line is so long and this (back on the old P) is not all of my accounts...apparently this provider was short on funds that month and needed to pay bills. This guy would NOT see her BCD a second time but only at get togethers after his first few sessions. Once he found out that she MAY be offering BBFS to more than just him, he kinda put otu a warning to others.
I CANNOT reveal who either party is because there is NO proof other than his story...but come on...let's be real about this.

[darkside0127]

I would suspect many ladies have SO's or even husbands, so they are doing someone bareback. The risk runs both ways as was pointed out since many men are married and doing BBFS with their spouse.

The point is: why risk it with a lady who is in the sex biz? She sees a lot more sex than you do! There are other STDs besides the deadly kind, so its likely not worth the risk to your spouse, S/O, etc.

If you want to feel bare, get your lady to use a female condom. It feels just like BBFS and is safe!

[SneakyCancer]

uh.....heck no. a trip to the doctor and proof of HIV is not my idea of hobbying.