Dating an Escort....

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by Eudemon

... The problem with that is if you drive a hot rod Corvette on the weekend, who wants to putter around in a Volkswagen when somebody else is out racing in your Corvette?

so, dont go driving a corvette. or garage the corvette so no one else drives it when you dont (generic you).


or just decide what you want or can live with and accept that. sure, you can hope for more and hop the other person will change. but it'd be like banging your head on a wall hoping you can get thru it unscathed and watch what's going on in the next room.

varying an old adage - a man hooks up w/ a provider and hope she changes (quits fucking other guys either for money or for free). a provider hooks up w/ a man and hopes he doesnt/wont change (keeps giving her money/supporting her).

either accept what your significant other/partner does w/ their life -or- dont and move on to someone you can accept for what they are. (true, some people can change, but THEY have to be the one who wants the change).


bald brotha, agree on the high failure rate in client/provider relationships.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by Eudemon

I have a relationship with a long time provider ... She is a high energy multiorgasmic performer and I am a high libido, high stamina performer. In general we are perfect for each other except that she gets it multiple times a day and I only get it once a week. She's flat told me to go find a side chick since she can't take care of me as much as I would like.

do you leave some money for her after each visit?
if so, why can't she see you more than once a week??

regardless, seems to me the bolded statement is the issue - she is not your main squeeze - she fits you in when SHE decides (based on my interpretatin of your post).
so while you two are in a sexual relationship, you don't seem to be in a committed relationship.

whatever kind of a relationship you are in is okay as long as both of you are okay with it.

[BLM69]

The Red Corvette sounds more like a Uber rental to me, it's available for rent if you got the coin, nothing wrong with that

[porscheguy]

Kelly, thank you for a very thought provoking topic of discussion. I will try to keep my input brief so more people actually read it... lol.. It really depends on if you are in a casual relationship or are both interested in something more long-term. It also depends on why the lady is in the profession, is it basically a job, or is the excitement of being with multiple partners along with getting paid more of the motivation.

Just as with any relationship it depends on what each person is getting out of being together.

[L1A2D]

I’ve dated several escort. Was married to one o met as an escort for many years (she left the hobby when we started dating). Ifr may not be for everyone but then again neither is dating a doctor, lawyer or funeral director. Just take it one day at a time and make the best of every moment. Treat her like a lady and go from there.

[ManSlut]

Originally Posted by porscheguy

Kelly, thank you for a very thought provoking topic of discussion. I will try to keep my input brief so more people actually read it... lol..

She wrote this thread in 2009 and I don’t think she has been active here in 4+ years.

[j_foonman]

I've been married for 21 years to a former escort. For the most part she was more of a sugar baby with multiple "daddies" that cycled in and out, though I initially met her on a short time engagement.

Ultimately, I had to make the choice. If I wanted her to quit, I had to be willing to take care of her and her five year old. This time it worked out. She learned a "straight" trade and now she makes more money that I do. So does that "kid" now that I mention it.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by ManSlut

She wrote this thread in 2009 and I don’t think she has been active here in 4+ years.

Kelly TNT resurfaced on OH2 not too long ago.

[ManSlut]

Originally Posted by pmdelites

Kelly TNT resurfaced on OH2 not too long ago.

I wish she would resurface here! (I don’t do OH2)

[Pangolier]

Originally Posted by j_foonman

I've been married for 21 years to a former escort. For the most part she was more of a sugar baby with multiple "daddies" that cycled in and out, though I initially met her on a short time engagement.

Ultimately, I had to make the choice. If I wanted her to quit, I had to be willing to take care of her and her five year old. This time it worked out. She learned a "straight" trade and now she makes more money that I do. So does that "kid" now that I mention it.

Just out of curiosity, if you have 21 reviews, does she find it odd that you now see current SW being she is a former one? Or does she not know?

[j_foonman]

Originally Posted by Pangolier

Just out of curiosity, if you have 21 reviews, does she find it odd that you now see current SW being she is a former one? Or does she not know?

Good question. The second thing. I have always been very discreet, low volume, wrapped up 100% of the time, etc. Note that those 21 encounters span more than a decade.

The good thing about providers is that I have yet to have one of them call me at 3:00 am tearfully begging me to leave my wife for them.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by ManSlut

I wish she would resurface here! (I don’t do OH2)

Only simps survive on OH2, that place would be great if they purged the drama whores out and the owner with his lil dicks staff. There's still some cuties over there