that one review that messes it up and you have no say so.

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by phta

Hello guys and gals, I am posting this message with no intention for another argument or drama. I've been in this hobby for many years but I did not get on a public board like the ECCI or P411. Due to my previous jobs, I had to be UTR, but now it’s okay. I really like the forums and the way of how the hobby is utilizing the internet. I like the transparency that the internet can provide. I now can read the reviews ahead of time before meeting a provider. That is so great in and of itself. Since I've been around the block a few times, I understand that it is normal that you would have a bad day and sometime a good day. Even the weather is unpredictable; therefore, you cannot expect a provider to be perfect the way you wanted every time. I've read many reviews from Eccie and other boards, and learned many things about each one of the providers I am interested in. Those reviews are so useful to me and I feel that I also owe it to the community to also give back candid reviews in my own words. All that being said, so please do not add any more drama into this. Whatever I’d said in my previous review was the truth from my heart. It was totally candid, and it was not the results of me not receiving the “Okay” from my provider. I actually already wrote this review without publishing it, while waiting for the “Okay” from her. She would have gotten my same review whether or not the “Okay” was approved. Lastly, I really dislike to having to explain myself, but I hope that the drama ends here: “I am not an aggressor, and I am not a liar.” Whether you’d like to believe me or not, that’s your choice. In the end, I’d like to send love and respect to everyone on this board, including my recent provider. You are the protectors who keep our hobby safe, resourceful and fun.

"Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable." - John F. Kennedy

Thanks for your input, but this is a drama thread and the OP knew it was going to be before she started it. I agree with you on a few points. You were right to write the review after the provider answered your ok request, I had wrote a review once before sending the ok request, she denied it, even though I do not know the real reason nor would she respond when I asked, it may have been the review. I also was on p411 long before this handle on Eccie.

I think it is hilarious when WKs, providers, other than the one being reviewed, and other fellow hobbyists question the validity of a review and what did and did not happen as well as reading something in between the lines as they were not there so unless a provider was recording the session and sent the tape to the wanna be detectives, then their opinions are worthless, and even then, video has a cause for interpretation, depending on your perception.

Where I disagree with you is the provider having a good day or a bad day. While that is true, as it is with everyone, a provider is getting paid to show a guy a good time for a whole hour, if that long, while he is there. IMHO, the difference between just a provider and an ATF type provider is being able to leave those personal issues outside the bedroom door and making her client feel as if he is the only person that matters making that time all about him and his wants and desires for a great session. If the problems are so bad that she is not able to do that, she should reschedule for another time when she will be able to do so.

[str8.2.bbbj]

Well, it's a BS threAD anyway because it goes both ways. Some of these reviews are all hype from guys trying to WK for a lady.

You just have to go with your gut and compare. I will say that I love the "No" reviews. In most cases, they seem more honest.

At the end of the day, the ladies see who they want and the consumers review how they want. It's a service based industry. Who cares...move on.

[TheAngryHobbyist]

Originally Posted by Stella Ales

one last thing is remember if it wasn't for us providers you guys wouldn't be having fun


just show some respect

So do you think your comment is being respectful towards the men?

[str8.2.bbbj]

Originally Posted by TheAngryHobbyist

So do you think your comment is being respectful towards the men?

I think this is a long ass drunk text. Haaaaaaaa

But guys would have fun, it would just cost more in divorce. There's a lot of free pussy out there. It's just the problems that come with it.

There aren't too many scrubs buying pussy. Most of the guys on this board make incomes waaaaay above the national average and have disposable income. And whether or not they have (not saying anyone does) ED, stank breath, leave skid marks, or whatever, chicks want that money. So this situation works in a mutually beneficial way. You get to charge $200-500+ to the guys who can afford it and they/ we don't have to deal with "side chick" drama.

Don't get it twisted. Before the internet A LOT of "pretty" chicks were clickin their heels on HH, Marsalis, 121, and other strolls for $20-50.

SO BE GRATEFUL!!

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by Stella Ales

........... I do not let little dick men run over me.

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one last thing is remember if it wasn't for us providers you guys wouldn't be having fun


just show some respect

Originally Posted by TheAngryHobbyist

So do you think your comment is being respectful towards the men?

Not only what you said (in bold), even though it is somewhat true in the adult hobby world, but wrong to say it, but one other statement she said in that post was disrepectful as well. Per the title of this thread, one review does not make or break you since reviews are opinionated by the lone reviewer, but creating a drama thread such as this and the general disrespect statements of guys you made just might be the straw that broke the camels back on whether or not guys who were on the fence of wanting to see you for a session to say NOT!

Good Job, Stella!

[macbeth1000]

The Op has disappeared so debating this further is pointless. Just because her kitty tasted like rubber doesn't that say she is health conscious because maybe she insists on using latex? anyway people taking this lifestyle too seriously granted some people use it to earn a living but come on, why make fire out of smoke

[phta]

Originally Posted by ShysterJon

Well, phta, did you post the same review on TER? Yes or no?

I post reviews on both forums, regardless of good or bad reviews. I did that for other providers.

[phta]

DavidFree986 wrote:

Where I disagree with you is the provider having a good day or a bad day. While that is true, as it is with everyone, a provider is getting paid to show a guy a good time for a whole hour, if that long, while he is there. IMHO, the difference between just a provider and an ATF type provider is being able to leave those personal issues outside the bedroom door and making her client feel as if he is the only person that matters making that time all about him and his wants and desires for a great session. If the problems are so bad that she is not able to do that, she should reschedule for another time when she will be able to do so.

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I completely agree with you Davidfree986, we pay for the service and thus we should expect what we pay for in return. My point is that, human psychology is very complex; therefore, I am also sensitive and understanding the emotion. Sometimes it's inevitable that you and your provider won't click very well together. If I've had a bad day, and my provider did a great job, then, even though a session did not go well, I will still show full respect for her part and will even love her for the efforts.
By the way, if you've read my review for this provider, you should also see a lot of positive points about her. I even recommended her with a "Yes". It's a candid review and you must read between the lines.
Thank you everyone and I hope you will have a happy day!

[Stella Ales]

Phta for you not to respond the message I sent you shows you really don't want conformation. I just didn't like that you lied about a smell when you were my first client. And at that this is because your mad I wouldn't give you an okay. You wrote a comment on the review to make sure it's on my right account. I don't care that I have a bad review I just care that you lied. If you think I talk a lot of fine I do. But do not say I have a rubber smell to make me look bad. This was just to prove a point that people lie and what should be done by it.

If someone called you stuff you are not wouldn't you like to clear your name or are you a person that just let's it happen and when someone else does it you will let it happen then to?

[theboss21422]

You need to toughen your skin Stella, you setting yourself up for even more ridicule and lost business

[macbeth1000]

Fuck this ///// bring on the fire. People can't live in peace and these two need to have at it.
Also I never understood or maybe never got into the art of eating pussy and I laugh when people say it taste delicious haha like it has a taste oh wait a rubber taste but no for real why do guys like eating a provider for majority of the session instead of doing the deed.

[str8.2.bbbj]

Originally Posted by macbeth1000

Fuck this ///// bring on the fire. People can't live in peace and these two need to have at it.
Also I never understood or maybe never got into the art of eating pussy and I laugh when people say it taste delicious haha like it has a taste oh wait a rubber taste but no for real why do guys like eating a provider for majority of the session instead of doing the deed.

That's a good ass question!

[dallasfan]

Post like this do more damage than good IMO. Providers are not supposed to be able to see ROS info. People that probably have not seen the review now are checking it out.

True or not, it probably would not have hurt your business because a large majority of your reviews are exceptional. I think a large majority of us guy can wade through all the review and determine what is true and what might be an anomaly or fabrication.

[shooter6.5]

Originally Posted by dallasfan

Post like this do more damage than good IMO. Providers are not supposed to be able to see ROS info. People that probably have not seen the review now are checking it out.

True or not, it probably would not have hurt your business because a large majority of your reviews are exceptional. I think a large majority of us guy can wade through all the review and determine what is true and what might be an anomaly or fabrication.

the good thing about this is that it does give you a bit of insite into several of the posters

[str8.2.bbbj]

Originally Posted by shooter6.5

the good thing about this is that it does give you a bit of insite into several of the posters

Especially the OP. Sometimes you've just gotta let shit ride. You got a "Yes". Leave it at that.

A review that only a few might have paid attention to is now the center of attention. But there's no bad publicity. So maybe that's actually what the OP wanted...but I don't think so.