We are GROWN women, professional, and a luxury for those that can afford this hobby. No need for you or anyone to manipulate us into giving answers. Give enough respect and ask a straight forward question like an adult.
We WILL NOT be putting up with anyone disrespecting our intelligence, nor disrespecting our bodies/health choices. You can take your money else where if you can't understand the above. There are many more amazing men that appreciate all we offer them.
Perhaps you did not know it would turn out this way, and maybe you thought more men were going to chime in and put us down as well as you did, but they too will get added to the ladies DNS list. We are constantly adding men on there by the way they interact on the board.
Use a better method of getting answers next time.
Good luck.
Side note:
*Smooches* Ze & firelips