Alert threat from Yummy Marie and confusion

[tbone77494]

I think the options for op are 1) stop digging and stay utr and for gods sake watch the damn clock yourself for a while or 2) contact yummy, tell her you want to pay her for 2 hr but you only want to stay for 1 in order to makeup with her. I had a 30 min appt last week with someone else and at 30 min her cell alarm went off. She never stopped blowing me and I concentrated hard and blew in about 1 min. Got up and left since I don't bring extra $ in the room. Yes it ruins the mood but I don't pay for the mood. If I pay for 1 hr and have 2nd pop at 45 min. I get ready and leave. This is, after all, a pretty simple business model. Seems to me 10 min. is the max rounding amount of time considered fair.

[Guest100613]

I am glad for this post - everyone in the hobbying community has a dog in this fight. Remember, you pay for time and companionship with an escort, not services. To pay for services is a crime, which is why you pay for time. I agree with Valerie - five, ten minutes, everyone has their own pace when it comes to shoes. Thirty minutes really is "taking the piss," as she said. When a provider has a 90min rate, and you are booking for 60min, the gentlemanly thing to do would be to bring enough to cover her 90min rate JUST IN CASE. Then, if you need it, it's no big deal... And, if you don't need it, it's no big deal.
OP - to air this out in the open over $50 shows a great deal about your character, certainly more than it shows of YM. I would imagine you've given any other providers you may have been interested in seeing, perhaps even for months, plenty to think about before booking with you.

[RoDunn]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

So you're saying you are a clock watcher

Yes I am. But I try to do it discretely. LOL

[TransAm]

Originally Posted by theCFE

I am glad for this post - everyone in the hobbying community has a dog in this fight. Remember, you pay for time and companionship with an escort, not services. To pay for services is a crime, which is why you pay for time. I agree with Valerie - five, ten minutes, everyone has their own pace when it comes to shoes. Thirty minutes really is "taking the piss," as she said. When a provider has a 90min rate, and you are booking for 60min, the gentlemanly thing to do would be to bring enough to cover her 90min rate JUST IN CASE. Then, if you need it, it's no big deal... And, if you don't need it, it's no big deal.
OP - to air this out in the open over $50 shows a great deal about your character, certainly more than it shows of YM. I would imagine you've given any other providers you may have been interested in seeing, perhaps even for months, plenty to think about before booking with you.

There's some wisdom here, but it ignores a few critical factors. For example, it's pretty conventional hobby wisdom among the guys to only carry the amount of money you need for the session. Why? Cause sometimes we're traveling to pretty sketchy spots for sessions. I'm pretty sure most of the ladies know this, and I doubt most would expect a guy to be carrying a bunch of extra cash, at least not the ones that are active on this board and relatively experienced.

That said, 30 mins over is definitely deserving of compensation. If the facts show that YM was understanding about him not having the cash RIGHT THEN, but gave him an opportunity to make it right later and he declined... well, that's on him.

In truth though, these ARE two well-regarded members of the community, so I think the others are right in thinking this is just a fubar misunderstanding. Retreat to your neutral corners.

[BBWrider]

30 minutes is too much over obviously. I'd recommend reminding a mofo if he's going over on time too. Some people just can't judge time very well, especially with a fine ass in their face. 5-10 minutes happens and should be over looked IMO, as I'ver certainly payed for 60 and left after 45-50 before. But after about 10 minutes over a friendly "hey buddy, we're going over a bit here" reminder might not be a bad idea. I certainly wouldn't call anyone a clock watcher if she kindly let me know that I had already screwed her out of 10 minutes and was about to get into $ time again.

[samantha thom]

Just be a gentleman and give her $50 for God's sake and move on. $50 is not worth all this. You need to choose your battle. :-)

[notanewbie]

if you agree up front it was a 60 minute session and it goes over so be it...that is the responsibility of the provider not the gent. She could have closed her legs at the 60 minute mark.

and as far as this threAD...she mentioned she was gonna blast him in the women's area..this was his chance to tell his side of the story. I wouldn't have done it this way but...diff strokes.

[dearhunter]

kenmaster, I want to believe you (actually I could care less), but, you make that difficult.

You started by agreeing to a 2hr session to get her to come north. Once you had her hooked on the idea of making the long drive, you dropped the "I'm only able to do an hour".

The minute you did that, "time" became an issue (you made it an issue).

I don't want to believe that you took advantage of the fact that she is generous with her time (according to you....checking out her reviews). But, with the information in front of me. It sure looks that way.........bros before hos not withstanding.

[kenmaster]

Originally Posted by theCFE

I am glad for this post - everyone in the hobbying community has a dog in this fight. Remember, you pay for time and companionship with an escort, not services. To pay for services is a crime, which is why you pay for time. I agree with Valerie - five, ten minutes, everyone has their own pace when it comes to shoes. Thirty minutes really is "taking the piss," as she said. When a provider has a 90min rate, and you are booking for 60min, the gentlemanly thing to do would be to bring enough to cover her 90min rate JUST IN CASE. Then, if you need it, it's no big deal... And, if you don't need it, it's no big deal.
OP - to air this out in the open over $50 shows a great deal about your character, certainly more than it shows of YM. I would imagine you've given any other providers you may have been interested in seeing, perhaps even for months, plenty to think about before booking with you.

I didn't air out for $50. It was about agreed time and compensation. Didn't like how you put your words together. I don't carry JUST IN CASE cash since I have been robbed twice in 8 years of hobbying (first one actually caused my divorce) but I agree I should have kept an eye on the clock, my responsibility also. And BTW I just verified with phone calls and text and I was over 19 minutes, not 30 minutes. "I will settle out of court with her"

Originally Posted by dearhunter

kenmaster, I want to believe you (actually I could care less), but, you make that difficult.

You started by agreeing to a 2hr session to get her to come north. Once you had her hooked on the idea of making the long drive, you dropped the "I'm only able to do an hour".

The minute you did that, "time" became an issue (you made it an issue).

I don't want to believe that you took advantage of the fact that she is generous with her time (according to you....checking out her reviews). But, with the information in front of me. It sure looks that way.........bros before hos not withstanding.

That's why I called her back before she started the drive to tell her that I would be able to do only an hour so that she wasn't obliged to drive to Conroe. In fact to make her drive short I offered to get a room at a Marriott south of the Woodlands which would shorten her drive an hour, and thats where we met. So I was being nice to cut her $50 short??? No I didn't take advantage of her time after going over reviews. You and I both know that there are TONS of providers in the city with 15+ reviews and with people going over time. Of course no one can say or hear what was the actual compensation. Like I said before, this was just to register the threats I received from her not save me $50. "I will settle with her out of court" And will end my part here. Thank you brothas and providas

[dearhunter]

Look on the bright side

[Pica Flor]

What is amazing to me is that the OP continues to justify his actions on the reviews from others. If a provider choses to spend extra time with a client on her, that is HER prerogative, it doesnt mean every other client has the "right" to expect the same, that would be like saying that just because a provider opted to provide greek or any other service not on the "menu" to a pair of clients that write reviews, that every client has the "right" to expect that. What a dumb excuse. That is what YMMV is all about.

BTW Kudos to YM for staying off this thread, it shows class from her part, I can think of a few others providers that would make this a neverending thread.

[Syncial]

I go to sessions with my Flava Flav clock (viking helmet only with ladies' request)

[poppy71]

Originally Posted by dearhunter

kenmaster, I want to believe you (actually I could care less), but, you make that difficult.

You started by agreeing to a 2hr session to get her to come north. Once you had her hooked on the idea of making the long drive, you dropped the "I'm only able to do an hour".

The minute you did that, "time" became an issue (you made it an issue).

I don't want to believe that you took advantage of the fact that she is generous with her time (according to you....checking out her reviews). But, with the information in front of me. It sure looks that way.........bros before hos not withstanding.

+1

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by Syncial

I go to sessions with my Flava Flav clock (viking helmet only with ladies' request)

I can confirm this........... Don't ask how

[carkido45]

YummyMarie got Schooled ...learn from it