In what way does a lady screening make it any "safer" for a guy to see her?

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Originally Posted by Oliver28

this may be a stupid question, but i'm a 100% newbie and I really don't know what to do about getting into the hobby. Obviously I don't have any references, but I'm a pretty much a normal guy that would like to try it.

If anyone would like to PM me, that would be great.

Thanks!

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Originally Posted by Whispers

In another thread the following comment was made......



I learned a long time ago that if you are spending money and know a few things you can see anyone you want to and anyone you DON'T want to see becomes a critic. I decided it did not matter to me what anyone that has not met me thinks so I simply post here what I believe in. I don't believe in screening.

I went to Socials pretty regularly and simply never HAD to provide screening information. There was no shortage of available talent that had no problems determining I was legit.

Along the way I had let a lady know a little too much about me and a jealous suitor outed me to my wife and she read over 300 reviews I had written/published and saw hundreds of pictures before actually confronting me.

Over the years since then I have continued to see ladies in a variety of manners avoiding their stated desire to screen. here has never been a shortage of ladies to see. I don't think there will ever be one.

The only thing that has EVER impacted my ability to get laid is the amount of time I have to pursue someone or the amount of available cash in my pocket.

Over these 14 years on these sites I have known ladies that got arrested, ladies that got arrested multiple times, ladies that have got hurt, ladies that got pregnant, ladies that contracted diseases and a couple of ladies that have passed away. In just about every case those ladies practiced some sort of screening.

I have also known guys that have been blackmailed, extorted, outed, been exposed to disease, been NCNS'd, shortchanged, mugged, beat and flat out robbed.... I knew one guy that got ass raped by bitch wearing a strap-on with her pimp watching because the guy tried to help her "get out"....

Because of the amount of REAL information that is censured and kept from the masses, only a small core of any of these communities EVER really knows who is safe and who is not....

In 14 years what I have never really seen is a solid argument on how Your Screening makes it Safer for us to see you.

IMO Screening ONLY provides a lady with a false sense of security while a guy puts himself, his family, his career and his future at risk. I think it is very fair to say that both guys and gals here share risk when it comes to physical danger but when it comes to impacts on families, finances and futures the average client has far more to lose. The number of affluent ladies in the midst is rather small. Those that have achieved it have a presence here unknown to most.

Most new ladies begin screening for the false sense of security they get thinking they are in some way weeding out LE. The idea that there is ANYTHING you ladies can do to stay above LE's desire to bust you if you get on their radar for some reason is ludicrous in my opinion. They are a little more sophisticated as well as creative than any of you give them credit for.

Guys tend to fall in line when they are newer as a result of "being told this is the way we do it".....

I have never suggested that a lady not screen.
I have never suggested what a specific lady should charge.
I have ALWAYS been of the opinion that it is YOUR business to run as YOU see fit.

I have ALWAYS been a proponent of information and that a guy should avail himself to ALL the information that is available in regards to the decisions he makes as he engages in this diversion.

I've never really heard a solid argument on how a girl that screens is a "safer" or better choice for a guy than any other girl around here that does not screen.

Do you have one?

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Camille Fox

So you are implying Whispers would not pass screening, I assume... Well. All I need to know is:

1. Is he safe? Yes, he is not a cop and a member of this community who will not beat a girl up or rob her. You and many others many not LIKE him, but he is safe.
2. Will he pay? Someone is laughing here...

Let's just put it this way, some very well-known members could just shoot a PM. I think screening is not a problem in Whispers' case.

Nope. There also seems to be a curiosity factor as well. There are no shortage of ladies that actually READ what I have to say and see the truth in it all. They tend to appreciate a man that speaks his mind without fear of how it might make him look to some here. Heck... I have one lady wanting to buy me lunch to meet and another offered me a freebie in appreciation for telling it like it is!.