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Raphael · 02-11-2010, 02:33 PM

If there is an allegation against me, true or false, I'd like to know!

I once accessed one of these complaint boards, the one where you only needed a credit card. Mostly women letting off steam. Surprisingly, I wasn't on it, lol. That was just after I got banned from ASPD (ASPD got many complaints), I must have been forgiven my many sins and insensitivities, just for that. lmao.

The best way to know our standing among providers is the screening process, such as it is. If you have a habit of breezing through it, no need to worry about an occasional bad-mouthing; and when the recommendation is glowing, the next provider is likely to tell you!

ThatManFromTexas · 02-11-2010, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by babee

The provider alerts are as fair and honest as escort reviews. ....

...We're screwed...

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Originally Posted by lemontrees

The majority of the ladies will NOT alert on you unless you broke one of the BIG RULES.
LT

Unless you are a “Cave Man”… I hear they get reported a lot…

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Originally Posted by lemontrees

One of my favorite sayings is " The Guilty Dog Barks First."
LT

One of my favorite sayings is “Don’t threaten to cut off a man’s water … unless you got the only well in town…”

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Originally Posted by lemontrees

( the A Team Group) will not take a chance on meeting with a bad appointment.
LT

What an A Team may look like....

Dagny D.E.W. · 02-11-2010, 07:24 PM

I was a member of an email alert "board" and there were several times that an alert went out and other ladies would chime in saying they had seen that guy and nothing but postive things to say about him.

Maybe it wasn't that the guy got to try and set it straight but the ladies are just as able (and D.E.W.) to WK just as we have gents who will defend us in a review that has a bad comment. (and those are usually from someone who hasn't even seen the lady but thinks he has to say something bad)

At least the ladies tell from personal experience.

I don't think NSNC is worthy of an alert but violence, shorting the money and not being a gent definately are! It is amazing that lots of the guys are there with slightly different names but trying the same BS over the span of YEARS. They deserve to be there. And the ladies in the future deserve to have a heads up.

carkido45 · 02-11-2010, 08:02 PM

I understand now providers never lie.

Guest031710 · 02-11-2010, 08:11 PM

And Santa is real

Htowner · 02-11-2010, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by lil red Robin

And Santa is real

Sigh of relief but the economy is screwed if parents stop spending on Christmas.

Wayward · 02-12-2010, 02:56 AM

OP and anyone else, one alert is just not that big a deal. Much less so if you have been around a while. Trust me on this. The ladies are completely aware of the perils and benefits of any alert list or forum.

Do not let your SHMB persona define who or what you are as a real person. Always be able to laugh at your self and this thing of ours. It is funny, what we are doing. Please don't get too caught up in the bull shit if it ever stops being fun. That is a path of ruin.

The Original Murdering Rat Bastard.

lemontrees · 02-12-2010, 04:04 AM

No question that a FEW ladies will alert due to a temper fit, just as guys will post out of wounded pride. Human nature is what it is, flaws and all!

BUT as Dagny said, ( at least on the Panda List, I don't read alert lists now, so don't know how they are set up) many times if there is an alert put out on a guy, ladies that have seen him successfully will post of their good experiences. By the same token, if you posted ( thinking it was just YOU that there was a problem with) FREQUENTLY a flood of other ladies will post of similar experiences with the same person and you know it is a PATTERN of behavior with him and NOT just an isolated incident. AND the DOUBLE value of ladies posting that the character has changed his handle in an attempt to "start fresh" when his behavior has not changed at all. Ladies get a heads up on just who he really is.

The " cave man" behavior is not usually alerted on, just thoroughly discussed in "hen party" sessions. LOL also where he is likely "pecked" to death!

I have conflicting opinions about alerting on NCNS . It may just be a fluke, unavoidable situation, but far too often, you learn that this is his usual behavior, he makes dates without any intention of following thru. And for the ladies this often cost them a REAL PAYING appointment ( at the least) and frequently costs the price of a room they purchased and have no use for. Again, she may think it a one shot deal, but learn it is just what the guy does as common practice. OR that she happened to be "Plan B or C" and he did not have the good grace to let her know so she could reschedule with someone else.

As to being the "only well in town", ladies ALL know that there are other choices, and if the guy is such a loser, while we do not wish bad on other ladies, if he goes to another well, we are just relieved that it is not our well he is contaminating! Good Riddance! No one considers that guy to be a great loss.

LOL as to the " A Team". In their day they were considered Tough Stuff and reputed to know how to handle the situation effectively.

carkido45 · 02-12-2010, 04:56 AM

LT thanks again.
You're a pretty wise lil lady.
Hope TMFT replies back he cracks me up. Lol

ThatManFromTexas · 02-12-2010, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by lemontrees

The " cave man" behavior is not usually alerted on,

There once was a provider on a banned list
Who posted alerts with a twist
You’re a Cave Man , she hissed
At hobbyist on her long list
Because her skills… their reviews… had dissed.

Anyone from that other board, no longer around, ever receive the “CaveMan Email”… Anyone… Bueller…Anyone?

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Originally Posted by lemontrees

As to being the "only well in town", ladies ALL know that there are other choices....

When I set out to buy my first car, I found the car I had to have. After my daddy explained all the reasons why I shouldn’t buy that car , I exclaimed..” But I’ll never find another car like this one.. I gotta buy this one!” To which my more experienced father said, “Son… there’s ALWAYS another deal down the road.”

I would never try to see someone I knew didn’t want to see me, I’d move on. Luckily, Houston is what we call a Target Rich environment.

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Originally Posted by lemontrees

LOL as to the " A Team". In their day they were considered Tough Stuff and reputed to know how to handle the situation effectively.

The A-Team consisted of;

An Ego Maniac, an Insane Person, a Charlatan and a person with a constant Bad Attitude . Hmm... that also sounds like RatBoyJam's 4 ATF's

Toreador_one · 02-12-2010, 06:09 PM

<----- proud receiver of the caveman e-mail, I saw her post on BP recently, 50 for 15 minutes, at that rate it makes you wonder if she is still discriminating against cavemen

guest041110 · 02-12-2010, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas

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The A-Team consisted of;

An Ego Maniac, an Insane Person, a Charlatan and a person with a constant Bad Attitude . Hmm... that also sounds like RatBoyJam's 4 ATF's

*chuckle*
I can thinck of a Frik and Frac fill that bill to a T who don't need a physical foursome.

carkido45 · 02-12-2010, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by LonesomeDove

*chuckle*
I can thinck of a Frik and Frac fill that bill to a T who don't need a physical foursome.

A little advice LD let it go.
LD you broke a rule of hobbying you trusted a provider and it bit you in th ass I've been there neve go outside of paying them for play. Just walk away and things will be better.

Houston65 · 02-12-2010, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Toreador_one

<----- proud receiver of the caveman e-mail, I saw her post on BP recently, 50 for 15 minutes, at that rate it makes you wonder if she is still discriminating against cavemen

Does Cave woman get any clients, or does she just get off on sending those emails?

Trnch · 02-12-2010, 10:47 PM

I have been hobbying for a very long time, some may remember me by some very hardcore reviews of some providers that became some very inferno discussions and I have not seen seen or heard of those providers in a very long time. Not sure if they are still around, retired or moved? But after that I recluses myself from ASPD, but kept on Hobbying.

I can tell you for a fact. For those that knew of me and did not want any reviews, still saw me, and others did not know anything about ASPD, but still enjoyed my gratuity. Reviewed or not reviewed.

At the end, do you want my play money or do not? Some do not need it, some want to know Trnch, other do not care. At the end, YMMV. Either I we have a good time, or do not. Believe me, there is always someone to replace you.

Real men do not worry about reviews. Period.