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Old 12-05-2011, 07:00 PM   #46
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When I look for a companion, I read about her to assure compatability with me and the kind of trip I'm taking her on. I want it to be an enjoyable time for both of us.
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Old 12-05-2011, 07:05 PM   #47
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There's all kinds of guys. And there's all kinds of gals.

Slobs, needy, gross, inconsiderate, kind, understanding, patient, . . .

When I look for a companion, I read about her to assure compatability with me and the kind of trip I'm taking her on. I want it to be an enjoyable time for both of us.

I do a couple of other things. When I meet her, I give her the opportunity to back out if she's having last-minute apprehension. I give her a substatial portion of the donation up front to keep at home, put in her bank, etc. During our stay, I give her the rest. She can choose to leave, fly back home, or she can choose to stay.

When people have the freedom of choice, and don't feel trapped, everything goes so much smoother.

I have other trips coming up over the next year. I'll be making choices, doing research, and matching a lady to me and the kind of trip, including location and activities, that I think we will enjoy together.

Awwww, and see that's MORE than one should expect out of you. I think coming to an "agreement" beforehand is key. Why people make things so complicated is beyond me. If the guy wants a fk toy for the weekend, charge him accordingly or don't go. If he is the type that has a freaking brain and consideration, charge him half price!
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Old 12-05-2011, 07:47 PM   #48
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Awwww, and see that's MORE than one should expect out of you. I think coming to an "agreement" beforehand is key. Why people make things so complicated is beyond me. If the guy wants a fk toy for the weekend, charge him accordingly or don't go. If he is the type that has a freaking brain and consideration, charge him half price!
They don't expect it. That's the point. To make sure I exceed expectations. I want to "wow" just a little. Guess what, I get so much more in return. When I screw up, they remember the good things and forgive me for my inadvertent lapses.
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Old 12-06-2011, 08:38 AM   #49
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I ask ahead of time and offer a special rate for it. Not for the "lady time" or getting ready etc.. I like to do some day job business when I travel... One hand washes the other..
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Old 12-06-2011, 02:02 PM   #50
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I always ask for or have alone time on my trips. It is normal. It might be a big challenge to stick together for such a long time when you don`t really know each other. I usually have accompagnied people on business trips only, so alone time comes automatically. Other than that, i have had arrangements taken care of that give me some space. For example, i have a really nice regular client who has completely different sleeping patterns than i have. And he snores ;-). We know each other since 2003 already, and have grown friends outside the escort arrangements too. So i usually sleep in a different room altogether in a suite with two bedrooms. He gets to bed late and wakes up late, and me the opposite. So we also meet first time at breakfast when he is ready. Time before i spend how i want ;-)
So i think it`s worth mentioning and asking is quite ok. We have all different habits.... ;-).. and no one is compatible on all levels, otherwise we would be already married (lol)
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I always ask for or have alone time on my trips. It is normal. It might be a big challenge to stick together for such a long time when you don`t really know each other. I usually have accompagnied people on business trips only, so alone time comes automatically. Other than that, i have had arrangements taken care of that give me some space. For example, i have a really nice regular client who has completely different sleeping patterns than i have. And he snores ;-). We know each other since 2003 already, and have grown friends outside the escort arrangements too. So i usually sleep in a different room altogether in a suite with two bedrooms. He gets to bed late and wakes up late, and me the opposite. So we also meet first time at breakfast when he is ready. Time before i spend how i want ;-)
So i think it`s worth mentioning and asking is quite ok. We have all different habits.... ;-).. and no one is compatible on all levels, otherwise we would be already married (lol)
Wow imagine that lol! A guy who knows that he has a human function that may disrupt your sleep and make you at less than your best the next day, and accommodates for it. Simply amazing lol.
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Old 12-06-2011, 02:31 PM   #52
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Wow imagine that lol! A guy who knows that he has a human function that may disrupt your sleep and make you at less than your best the next day, and accommodates for it. Simply amazing lol.
That's why I don't think I'm cut out for the overnight - I know I snore (scary snoring) and I don't want you to have to endure that and be as misserable as the Mrs. - Or I might as well just go home!!

Longer, extended, late night dates sure....but you can have a break from me....I'm pretty friggin' charming but I know I ain't THAT friggin' charming!!!
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What a crock of shit!!
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What part JB?
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I haven't read the replies, yet. But ask politely and if he agrees, for every time you take 'off' for alone time, come back with a small present you know he likes AND give him a surprise free date later on of 15 mins for every 2 hrs you end up alone on the vacation.


EDIT: after reading the replies, I don't know what he wants, but I know I wouldn't want to be together for the full 72 hrs. I'd say 2-4 hrs a day broken up twice a day would be a good amount of alone time. I'd also agree on a price and the hours ahead of time. I'd also suggest two rooms, so no one feels hostage to the others bedtime habits. I'm sure we're talking $1,000s here, so what's a second room? I'd also suggest a non-compete clause or both parties pay thier way and only time together is compensated.
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That's why I don't think I'm cut out for the overnight - I know I snore (scary snoring) and I don't want you to have to endure that and be as misserable as the Mrs. - Or I might as well just go home!!

Longer, extended, late night dates sure....but you can have a break from me....I'm pretty friggin' charming but I know I ain't THAT friggin' charming!!!
Ummmm... you know I don't mind snoring. Feel free to stay the night the next time we meet. Oh wait.. I told you that last time but you wanted to be a good boy instead LOL!
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That's why I don't think I'm cut out for the overnight - I know I snore (scary snoring) and I don't want you to have to endure that and be as misserable as the Mrs. - Or I might as well just go home!!

Longer, extended, late night dates sure....but you can have a break from me....I'm pretty friggin' charming but I know I ain't THAT friggin' charming!!!
Who said anything about sleeping? Better get some No-Doze. You sleep when the vacation's over.
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Old 12-07-2011, 09:23 AM   #58
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What a crock of shit!!
London, he said it the long way........and confused you...........see how smart I am?
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Old 12-07-2011, 10:38 AM   #59
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I do not think it would be inappropriate to request a little personal time. I like the suggestion that other people hav previously state such as going to get a massage or going shopping. Not sure if this is a business trip for him or strictly leisure, but either way I'm sure he would appreciate a little alone time as well.

If the guy is counting every nickel and dime of your time together I think he may not be cut out for extended engagements. At the end of the day it's your duty to be as accommodating as you can be without inconveniencing yourself or your gentlemen. Overall this is HIS vacation, so be mindful of his desires. I doubt he'll have a problem with you going for a spa visit or shopping while you're there.
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Next thing you know, you will be expecting him to pay for the "massage" or "shopping"..........snatch defeat right out of the jaws of victory....ijs.
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