How did she make a bad choice in how *she* handled the uncomfortable situation that occurred when they met face to face??
How can someone dictate how another person *should* handle any situation they might find themselves in?? WAHTD, be it in the RW or in this hobby.
As I stated before and will reiterate again. Molly handled said situation to the best of
her ability. Client showed up, and his appearance (when they met face to face) was that of one
she was not comfortable with. It's not for any of us to question nor understand why she wasn't comfortable with his appearance. Nor to judge her for it.
She did the next best thing. She canceled the remainder of the date right then and there. She didn't bullshit him and take his money and give him a crappy BCD experience. She was uncomfortable upon the face to face meeting and she DID handle the *their* face to face situation appropriately. In the end, his ego/feelings were hurt.
If she needs to learn anything from the incident. It's how to be be more vocal and ask point blank during screening their race and or skin color. (
if that's what may present to be an issue)
That way those awkward moments of canceling while face to face, can be avoided.
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Originally Posted by Likinikki
Molly said she did screen and he told her he was *Hispanic.* When she met him...she thought he lied about his ethnicity...as his skin coloring must have been darker than what she expected and became uncomfortable.
How can anyone screen for that situation? Apparently, she's uncomfortable with anyone who may look AA...so, what's she going to post in her ads...I don't see anyone who even looks AA? (lol)
She got caught off guard and made a bad choice as to how she handled it. That's why I said I hope she learns from this situation. I'm sure she's not the only one who's had this happen. Only she can avoid this in the future...but somehow she has to find a good screening method.
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Originally Posted by ammonite
After reading all this I feel an urge to do a double with WM and Nikki. Now that would be interesting!
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I'll pass. Your not my type for various reasons I prefer not to make public. Which would not make for an interesting date with you.
And while I've met LNikki several times and she's a beautiful older woman than I. She's not my type for various reasons. AND because she's very thin.
I prefer mature women with curves I can truly enjoy. You should know the type of woman I like. You see her often!!
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