What? You Mean Providers Actually Have Relationships Outside The Hobby??

[Vannah]

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Ok, as a compulsive (possibly OCD) language nerd, I feel compelled to comment.


To paraphrase Arthur Dent, this is obviously some strange use of the word "exclusive" (or maybe some strange use of the word "we", or both) that I wasn't previously aware of.

The plain meaning of "we decided that we wanted to be exclusive" implies to me that the exclusivity would be reflexive and therefore apply to both of you. He deleted his ECCIE account, etc., and has gotten out of the hobby. So he's exclusive to you, and good for him (or as some of us would probably say, "that lucky bastard!"--and smiling as we call him that).

But you didn't give up your ECCIE account or P411 (the last I saw it anyway, which was a while ago), and are still posting ads and seeing people as a provider, and good for you. It's good for the both of you that you're cool with that and apparently making that relationship work, but it seems strange to me to describe that relationship by the phrasing "we decided that we wanted to be exclusive". Basically, his relationship to you is totally exclusive, but yours to him isn't--at best, it's emotionally exclusive but physically/sexually non-exclusive.

Just an observation; not a criticism...

Cheers,

bcg

I can understand that point of view. Fortunately for me, he doesn't see it that way.

[WMJ4657]

Originally Posted by Vannah

I can understand that point of view. Fortunately for me, he doesn't see it that way.

Vannah we have never met, someday hopefully, but based on your board persona I believe whoever the gentlemen is he is fortunate to have you in his life & I am sure vice versa.

Wish you absolutely nothing but the best!!!!

[rebfan77]

Just stumbled across this thread.
I can assure everyone that Regardless of Vannah's personal situation (SO or not), the time spent with her is absolute quality and all attention on her client. There's no checking her phone or anything like that.
At the end of the day, that's all that should matter to any of us. After all, I assume most of us have our own lives too. Most of us see a provider to momentarily escape our own worlds. If we can leave our "personal laundry " behind, I'm sure providers can too (good ones anyway). Lord knows I've seen some that are always distracted by something. One thing about Vannah, and why I'll continue to see, is she knows how to give you her undevoted time and attention 100%. Again, that's all any of us should care about in a session.

[Guest110920]

Originally Posted by rebfan77

Just stumbled across this thread.
I can assure everyone that Regardless of Vannah's personal situation (SO or not), the time spent with her is absolute quality and all attention on her client. There's no checking her phone or anything like that.
At the end of the day, that's all that should matter to any of us. After all, I assume most of us have our own lives too. Most of us see a provider to momentarily escape our own worlds. If we can leave our "personal laundry " behind, I'm sure providers can too (good ones anyway). Lord knows I've seen some that are always distracted by something. One thing about Vannah, and why I'll continue to see, is she knows how to give you her undevoted time and attention 100%. Again, that's all any of us should care about in a session.

I completely agree. It's been a while but the times I've been fortunate enough to enjoy Vannah's company, she's never been less than 100% present in the moment and has been obviously dedicated to making it a great experience.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

Agree, I have seen Vannah several times and if her mind and attention was on anything other than showing me a great time, I sure couldn't tell it.

[Vannah]

Aww thank you so much for the incredibly kind words, everyone! I would like to think that having a stable home life enables me to be so consistent and reliable.

[Vannah]

Originally Posted by WMJ4657

Vannah we have never met, someday hopefully, but based on your board persona I believe whoever the gentlemen is he is fortunate to have you in his life & I am sure vice versa.

Wish you absolutely nothing but the best!!!!

You're so sweet! I feel like the luckiest girl in the world.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by BobSmoot

That seems a little stereotypical... by most accounts the most successful pimps in history have been white.

Who do you think owns the brothels In Nevada

Just FYI girls working at a brothel is nothing like being pimped. Learn the difference.

[BobSmoot]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

Just FYI girls working at a brothel is nothing like being pimped. Learn the difference.

I think it's very similar...

[Rockydoc]

Originally Posted by BobSmoot

I think it's very similar...

I think it is very different. In an HBO show about a legal brothel in Nevada, for instance, the owner had the girls attend a class given by a financial planner about saving and investing their money.

At a brothel, the girl basically rents space from the owner. She has to pay a fee, but is not owned by the pimp, not forced to work, etc.