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Originally Posted by zx10
Problem is, some ladies upsell "fetishes". So how is a guy to know what to bring, and how is the lady to know he wants more than the usual and the extra he brought isn't just "a tip"?
Yes yes read the reviews bla bla, but unless the lady does the exact same thing with every guy there's a small chance the experience will be the same for everyone. It might be great for one and just ok for another because of a million factors that come into play during a specific date.
Maybe we should start referencing reviews and say we want to do the same thing?  |
ZX...You are absolutely correct when you say there are a million factors that play into how YOUR experience will be.
So upfront question and no amount of discussing is going to answer those curiosities before you actually spend time with a provider anyway. Reading the reviews just helps increase the odds.
Sexual fetishism, or
erotic fetishism, is the
sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation. The object or situation of interest is called the
fetish; the person who has
a fetish for that object/situation is a
fetishist.
[1] A sexual fetish may be regarded as an enhancing element to a romantic/sexual relationship "achieved in ordinary ways (e.g. having the partner wear a particular garment)" or as a
mental disorder/disorder of sexual preference if it causes significant psychosocial distress for the person or has detrimental effects on important areas of their life.
[2] Arousal from a particular body part is classified as
partialism.
[3]
When you are talking the world of fetish that's a whole nother ball of wax. Most fetish interest if not included with sex are legal. It's when you mix the two it gets tricky. That being said if what you are seeking is to find a fetish inclusive provider I can assure you that takes trial and error for sure. You may have to kiss a few frogs to find your goddess. ~wink! What I think you mean is that ladies say they are fetish friendly or they will participate in ACTIVITIES that are fetish based. As for Up-selling...Personally I have never been a fan of that. I believe that a women either enjoys it and when all the stars align with someone and it's an activity or situation she likes she should be willing to do those things w/o asking more. I feel a provider who uses specific situation or fetish for up-selling opens herself up to having those questions asked. I also believe for many ( not all) this is how something that was supposed to be organic and natural during a session become mechanical and utilitarian.
The moral here is that each and every experience is it's own . Do your research see if the gal in her reviews has participated in some of the activities or situations in those reviews that you enjoy then invest in an hour visit and go have fun...You will find once you have met her and been involved more intimately those intimate conversation will take place with ease. They actually make excellent pillow talk when you are waiting to get your second wind for your MSOGs that you gents love so much!
Just don't start out expecting to know all the intimate details of your encounter before you even have it. That is how you can ruin the experience, creep a gal out, offend some, get shut down by the provider but most importantly get yourself arrested!
Remember if a gal is selling her companionship which is what they all sell right... then how can she tell you that anal sex is on the menu...THE ONLY THING THAT IS ON THE MENU is time with her.....once you have been there done that so to speak.....then she can feel more comfy talking about her likes and dislikes and your likes and dislikes.
As for the question concerning the tip ...don't put that part in the envelope. Discuss during pillow talk...then give her the extra before leaving..
Now let me just say that I am not a big proponent of short appointments ( 15 min, 30 min etc) I personally think that if you are trying to get your fantasies met seeing a gall who offers 15 and 30 min appointments you are barking up the wrong tree. just my 2 cent on that...
Now go forth and hobby and have some great pillow talk! lol
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