Bbfs

[zip2121]

Originally Posted by johne15106

I'm never gonna find out if AMP oil is condom safe.

I'll definitely always wonder about nuru oil, too.

Thats not oil. Or at least it shouldnt be. It should be closer to lube.

[sexymaid_69]

Nuru gels are not condom safe. They are usually made with essential oils along with grape seed and seaweed extracts

[johne15106]

Thank you. That's been a nagging worry. Nuru sounds awesome, but I'd be alarmed if condom disintegrates.

[Depurefymii]

@bambino I won't say I never had BB. I will say that I have always brought my own condoms. They are always Skyn condoms. Everyone I have a reference from will say that.

[wesmantooth]

I have been hobbying for the better part of 2 decades and BBFS is just a norm in this industry. I have let the little head win the battle more than I'd like to admit and its cost me more than a few times the embarrassment of some doctor office and CVS visits. Many on here think its almost exclusively the hoodrats and those with extracurricular activities, but I've had some experiences with some VIP types who partake as well.


I used to have a family connection where I would have Z-packs and Cipro in storage but those days are long gone and unfortunately, with new strains going around, those lines of defense are sometimes ineffective.

[sexymaid_69]

I would like to think that an 18 year commitment would be enough of a deterrent.

[thecaptainpgh]

People make bad decisions. All the time. It's entertaining and educational at the same time.

[Gabrielle]

Originally Posted by bkfantasy

I'd believe you if you said one guy tried this... but many guys? Maybe you need better screening.

Are you suggesting we add guys who ask for bb to a bad date list?

Wow what a wonderful idea!

How far back should we check our records?



Fun fact...abusive folks often times attempt to dictate the story to make abuse seem normal in a community.

Bareback is not normal in the FSSWer industry. It's just not.

This only seems to be the narrative on hobbyist boards. Hmmm...coincidence? I think not.

[sjomonty]

Originally Posted by Gabrielle

Are you suggesting we add guys who ask for bb to a bad date list?

You mean you havent already?

[TheeCharlieGirl]

Originally Posted by thecaptainpgh

People make bad decisions. All the time. It's entertaining and educational at the same time.

So true!
Bbfs is not something I engage in. Not even in my civie life. IMHO it's like playing Russian roulette. I can't dictate what others choose to do...I can only choose what's right for me.

[Ballsindeep]

Bare pussy just feels better and more fun. The temptation is strong and we can be weak at times. A lot of providers today don’t have condoms and its up to our own comfort levels.

I don’t look down on females or males who do what they do.

I just understand the risks versus the rewards.

[bambino]

I don’t know why it’s a conversation. BBFS has been available in the hobby for ever. Do what you want to do.

[sexymaid_69]

It's always going to be a conversation, just look at the number of times it's brought up.

[bambino]

Originally Posted by sexymaid_69

It's always going to be a conversation, just look at the number of times it's brought up.

I know. But the same things are posted.

[sexymaid_69]

It does get to be redundant.

It is amusing to see some people's comments.