Is Good Ole'Fashioned Intercourse Becoming Obsolete?

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by pjpenner

Maybe I'm just fooling myself, but I still think "making love" is possible in the world of P4P.

I seriously dislike the feeling of being serviced and being involved in a bang fest. My own personality and needs don't allow me to enjoy these two types of activities ... to any degree of satisfaction.

Fooling yourself? Some would say so. I would tend to disagree with them. I, like you, get no satisfaction out of "bang fests." In my experience, many people are not looking for what you and I enjoy, which makes it extra special when we find someone who truly meets our needs.

[Laurentius]

Originally Posted by pjpenner

For me, there are so many different factors involved that a single preference doesn't fit all (or even a majority) of occasions. Some of those factors include:

• The skill level of the provider
• My ability to "please" the provider (my skills)
• My relationship with the provider as developed over time
• The type of session. Some sessions are intimate. Some are playful. Some are simply directed by lust and passion.

Since my favorite type of session is very intimate; I prefer for the oral pleasures (BJ and DATY) to be foreplay with the climactic end for the two of us to be in a position of intercourse that allows for intimate kissing and eye-to-eye contact.

Maybe I'm just fooling myself, but I still think "making love" is possible in the world of P4P.

I seriously dislike the feeling of being serviced and being involved in a bang fest. My own personality and needs don't allow me to enjoy these two types of activities ... to any degree of satisfaction.

Mega dittos.

Until I figured this out I had some really non-enjoyable sessions. LOL