We all want to have our cake and eat it too, but rarely will you get a guy that has Adonis looks, make you orgasm multiple times because he fucks like a porn star in bed and pay you for your time as well, wouldn't that be ideal?
Like I said, the "attraction" and "chemistry" a provider should need to give the guy a great session is that donation they are asking, physical attraction is great as well, but as I am sure most providers that have been here know, the majority of the hobbyists are not blessed with god-like physical attributes be it their attractiveness of their face, receding hairline, the beer belly or even God forbid, the guys with smaller dicks. That is why you are getting paid, to overlook the "faults" that say a girl he tries to talk to at the mall, regular bar or wherever on the outside of this hobby, and make him feel special, and glad he picked you to spend his money on, as opposed to the multi-hundred other providers out there. Given that the guy is clean and respectful, hobbyists should not have to wine, dine and "seduce", hoping you like him, in other words, WORK to get what he wants, you should be a "sure thing" since you are getting paid. Don't get me wrong, if the chemistry and physical attraction is there, not to mention if you make a friend, all the better, but if you cannot go through with it, even getting paid, for a whopping hour, then cancel the session before it starts. I would much rather you cancel on me, then have a shitty session cuz you are not in the mood to give your top performance to me, I can spend that money on something or someone else. And if you cancel on more guys you see, maybe you should do something else for a living and/or extra money, I know I would appreciate it!
If a provider only wants a guy she is attracted to physically, then she should be paying him!
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