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Tellsoftly · 09-04-2011, 03:20 PM

@ Revive

I think the answer to that question is evident to any objective person reading our exchange. That said, you complete me.

@Lily

I'll probably be writing this over a very long period of time. I'll probably have a few other projects going simultaneously. Maybe if I publish something else in the meantime and get my name out there people in the community might be more forthcoming.

Still, going to keep on going. I'm not inclined toward quitting you know.

Revive · 09-04-2011, 03:48 PM

The problem is we are a community here ... I am not in the "in" crowd but I'm not a trouble maker. My point is no one here is reading this objectively. It's us against you and you need to show some courtesy to gain an inch! The I'm holy'er then thou act will gain you great respect among your friends but your friends are not here and there is no one that is objective here. It's hobbiest ... Providers ... And you. The book would be longer if you wrote about your own experiences then what you will get here. If you ever get the pleasure of having miss Kate pull you inside her you will forget about writing the book until you have enough of your own experiences. Trying to talk to you about this hobby would be like trying to explain the birds and the bees to my kids. You might be a good editor for this book but to write it grow up.

Tellsoftly · 09-04-2011, 04:08 PM

Oh Revive, you really don't get it, so let me explain it to you. People on this site are objective, and maybe this is just because I'm of the internet generation you so look down on: the word you are looking for is "Lurkers", and there appear to be quite a few of them.

On the first day, I got maybe 30ish views. Last I checked I'm nearing 500 views on this thread, and it only picked up exponentially once you rose to the bait and started trying to fence verbally with me: you and I are on a little stage here, and everyone is watching us do battle whether they voice their presence or not.

Let's continue sparring though: I find it funny that you are telling me to grow up when you are by your own admission older than me yet you can't seem to keep up a simple, civil conversation with a 21 year old "punk". Perhaps it is you who needs to do the growing up? I have no problem with your age of course, but you are the one who seems hung up over it.

Revive · 09-04-2011, 04:29 PM

Oh thanks for explaining it to me oh great coke salesman who is impressed with his 500 hits! Honestly I would like to read the book edited by you but you can't write it. You can't get the info. What's not civil about this conversation? Did I threaten you? Sorry ... I didn't realize I had to act like an ass to be civil. By your own admission 18 yr old girls can handle this situation Better then you or wait ... Are you gunna tell me that you can talk to one now that you are big? Is this one of those "if you can't do it write about it" things. You can't get up the nerve to pull your pants down so you want to write about those who can?

Tellsoftly · 09-04-2011, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Revive

Oh thanks for explaining it to me oh great coke salesman who is impressed with his 500 hits! Honestly I would like to read the book edited by you but you can't write it. You can't get the info. What's not civil about this conversation? Did I threaten you? Sorry ... I didn't realize I had to act like an ass to be civil. By your own admission 18 yr old girls can handle this situation Better then you or wait ... Are you gunna tell me that you can talk to one now that you are big? Is this one of those "if you can't do it write about it" things. You can't get up the nerve to pull your pants down so you want to write about those who can?

Actually, our conversation here is like an iceberg: I am in touch with more than one provider via private channels currently. I am getting info, although it's trickling in bit by bit, and I have yet to have a sit down meeting yet.

And I say you lack maturity because you appear to have some things you're quite hung up over. Might I suggest you read over your own posts and perhaps gain a clearer picture of your inability to carry a highbrow conversation? You might find it enlightening.

Revive · 09-04-2011, 04:53 PM

I am not trying to have a highbrow conversation? Your a silly entertaining brat that thinks he knows too much. The difference is you are trying to act like a know it all and I'm having fun at your attempt to look so proper as you are looking down upon some of our lovely ladies. Why don't you go advertise on backpage! Heck I'm just here cause I saw Kate had posted and was hoping she was in the area. The only thing I'm hung up on is the sight of her opening the door.

Tellsoftly · 09-04-2011, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Revive

I am not trying to have a highbrow conversation? Your a silly entertaining brat that thinks he knows too much. The difference is you are trying to act like a know it all and I'm having fun at your attempt to look so proper as you are looking down upon some of our lovely ladies. Why don't you go advertise on backpage! Heck I'm just here cause I saw Kate had posted and was hoping she was in the area. The only thing I'm hung up on is the sight of her opening the door.

Looking down upon some of your ladies? Oh, I get it, you think respectfully disagreeing with a provider is improper and means I'm looking down on them, I gotcha. Sorry if I treat people like they're people, my bad.

Revive · 09-04-2011, 05:36 PM

You talk to our ladies as if you have a right to speak.

Tellsoftly · 09-04-2011, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Revive

You talk to our ladies as if you have a right to speak.

You seem to be patently and unrepentantly out of touch with reality, and I find it hilarious.

Revive · 09-04-2011, 05:55 PM

Nah this is just to make sure we don't waste our

Revive · 09-04-2011, 06:01 PM

Alright ... The work day is coming to an end ... Was fun! Seriously ... Take $100 bucks and spend and hour with a backpage girl! Then take $300 and spend an hour with Kate! Then next time she says that you are trying to make money off her all you will think about is her lovelyness and you will say sorry!

Tellsoftly · 09-05-2011, 08:24 PM

Back. Still asking for stories, and will pass screening if necessary.

Lily Blair · 09-06-2011, 07:42 AM

Screening in the world of hobbying =

statements from verified providers whom you have met BCD and can vouch for your character

OR

verifiable employment at an office with a public phone number where you can be reached during the day.

If you don't have those things, there is no way of knowing whether or not you work with law enforcement, no matter how many times you say you don't (they all say they don't).

And anyone who is talking to this guy otherwise is an absolute fool.

Tellsoftly · 09-06-2011, 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Lily Blair

Screening in the world of hobbying =

statements from verified providers whom you have met BCD and can vouch for your character

OR

verifiable employment at an office with a public phone number where you can be reached during the day.

If you don't have those things, there is no way of knowing whether or not you work with law enforcement, no matter how many times you say you don't (they all say they don't).

And anyone who is talking to this guy otherwise is an absolute fool.

Unless, you know, they know my info down to where I live, my facebook, and have record of my status as a student?

Really I just don't get the narrow mindedness going on here.

newmusicman · 09-06-2011, 11:30 AM

I'm not going to take sides here as I find this to be an intriguing debate. I sincerely see the reservations of the provider to tell their story. I actually wonder if that is even the "meat" of the story? I sincerely do not know that answer. It seems that the provider is the one that is taking advantage of what I consider to be a great opportunity and yet, why is the opportunity present? Something a little more than animalistic instinct or is it?
I find the whole scenario to be quite amazing! The fact that two people can be governed by law regarding their activities behind a closed door is unbelievable to me. The fact that many, seemingly "happily married" men need "something different", the fact that many beautiful providers are so comfortable with themselves they can simply entertain others by doing something they enjoy and get paid for (a la, musicians, actors, athletes) and yet others can't possibly understand their justifications?
I, obviously NOT a writer, could not see how to write this entire story objectively while I was engaged in the act itself. Not sure how a military reporter could objectively tell the story with one hand while the other hand pulls the trigger of their automatic rifle or a reporter objectively tell us about our political candidates while they are campaigning themselves. I know I am comparing Reporters/Writers but I see the reporting as the interesting depiction here. Our society made up of US has led to the demand of Tell. Just as we have led to the demand of the lovely providers.
I guess I would just have to say, if you are not interested in what Tell is pursuing, let it be and respond no more. To publicly (I know we like to think of this as a private community but we all really know the truth to that statement) defame him/her for their efforts is a bit of hypocrisy in my book. I know I have blurted out my opinion louder than I should on many occasions (um, here I go again) and I also know that many times the less said the better.
Best wishes to all and to all a good day.