Two ladies at once not worth it!

[wantsome]

I've had both really bad and really good experiences with doubles. The bad was with an agency that sent the girls in seperate cars. They had never met and one didn't even realize she was being sent for a threesome. The experience just wasn't worth it.

A recent really good experience was with two of my favorite ladies that knew each other very well and the interaction was fabulous. One of my best experiences in many years.

[sexyfatguy]

I have had a few of these experiences. One was with Tennille and Amber (for which I wrote a review here). The other three were with other bi-providers and.... my wife. THOSE were by far, the BEST!

[Bancroft1957]

Originally Posted by HlavinKitheri

I'd try FMF with civilians; but it seems to me the math is all wrong for a pro session. I only have one penis, and I'm very self-centered when I'm paying. The notion of paying for the privilege of stimulating others with my hands and tongue just doesn't appeal.

Now, MFM seems more logical. A woman's anatomy is such that she could please two or even three at a time.

we discussed the FMF vs MFM senario at the bar last nite...every guy to a man, was concerned with crossing swords! They would also want to do it with
a guy they did not know(in the MFM thing), just wham, bam and good bye! they could'nt stomach having a threesome with a close friend.

[Sweet Destiny]

Originally Posted by Bancroft1957

My most favorite lady and I had this conversation recently. When I asked about a dou, with her and another established provider, she told me to save my money.

In her opinion, which I trust, she said the man never really gets his monies worth. Over stimulation causes him to blast off too quickly, and he never really connects with either of the girls.

She said better to invest in a longer session with one lady, or find one that has the special skill set you're looking for(greek, etc..).

So is she right? Do I, or you go for quality over quantity? Ladies, is she correct in her assesment?

She is right from my point of view but also I do 2girl specials and both me and my gf make sure that we are very passionate within the hour with no rushing and I have a few regulars that have come back again and again for the 2girl special. So it depends on how passionate BOTH providers are about their job.

[evood F]

It's all chemistry...And it is worth trying once in life...Some people have horror stories and say exactly what she said...usually the guy has a crappy experience...That probably is statistically true overall...

3 tips if you want to try it...

First & foremost...Have really good chemistry with the lady you want it to happen with...secondly...Let her choose and set up the 3rd partner, trust her instincts and judgement...remember that if she has great chemistry with you she will have the best insight and will likely know what you like...thus let her choose as to who to do this with rather than you trying to "cold match" it based on your own opinions...this also is best cause she most likely would have chemistry with that other lady to some degree as well...Thirdly...Forget all the stuff you think a threesome is from watching porn or reading stories...go in with blank expectations and an open mind if you can manage that..Cause the biggest complaint you ever read is that it just wasn't what i thought I expected it to be like.

I had a threesome once in the hobby and only once for a damn good reason...I followed a simple principle...Don't try and ruin a great memory by trying to relive a once in a lifetime great experience...And I have to thank Evelyn and Destiny for making that a reality many years ago one night. I never wanted to try it again cause I did not think it would ever be better than that night based upon all the stuff I'd read about 3somes with providers. So like my experience I just let sleeping dogs lie and never tried it again. but at least mine was a good one and at least I tried it once.

[GP]

Originally Posted by evood F

secondly...Let her choose and set up the 3rd partner, trust her instincts and judgement...remember that if she has great chemistry with you she will have the best insight and will likely know what you like...thus let her choose as to who to do this with rather than you trying to "cold match" it based on your own opinions...this also is best cause she most likely would have chemistry with that other lady to some degree as well...

Even though I agree with everything you say, I am going to play devil's advocate for one second.

Why is it that men should allow the lady to choose? Logic would dictate that the ladies have just as much a chance of a "cold match" as if the man were to choose. This is putting aside for one second that most men have no understanding of women.

If the man chooses who both partners are, then if there is a problem with the chemistry, the burden is on him. If the lady chooses and there is a problem, then the burden is on her and then there is the possibility of an unsatisfied customer.

[CummingsLane]

Your wife sounds like a hoot chick I would love to meet. A married woman who appreciates a 3 some is A ok in my book lol

Originally Posted by sexyfatguy

I have had a few of these experiences. One was with Tennille and Amber (for which I wrote a review here). The other three were with other bi-providers and.... my wife. THOSE were by far, the BEST!

[offshoredrilling]

for GP

[CummingsLane]

Nice post. I have only had one time when a gentleman picked the provider. They had actually been admiring my posts and agreed to spend time with me together. I took the time to read her reviews, posts & ads prior to meeting and this allowed me to find out a lil bit more about her. From there we just let things flow smoothly like they were supposed to and we ended up in a messy fun atmosphere.

Originally Posted by evood F

It's all chemistry...And it is worth trying once in life...Some people have horror stories and say exactly what she said...usually the guy has a crappy experience...That probably is statistically true overall...

3 tips if you want to try it...

First & foremost...Have really good chemistry with the lady you want it to happen with...secondly...Let her choose and set up the 3rd partner, trust her instincts and judgement...remember that if she has great chemistry with you she will have the best insight and will likely know what you like...thus let her choose as to who to do this with rather than you trying to "cold match" it based on your own opinions...this also is best cause she most likely would have chemistry with that other lady to some degree as well...Thirdly...Forget all the stuff you think a threesome is from watching porn or reading stories...go in with blank expectations and an open mind if you can manage that..Cause the biggest complaint you ever read is that it just wasn't what i thought I expected it to be like.

I had a threesome once in the hobby and only once for a damn good reason...I followed a simple principle...Don't try and ruin a great memory by trying to relive a once in a lifetime great experience...And I have to thank Evelyn and Destiny for making that a reality many years ago one night. I never wanted to try it again cause I did not think it would ever be better than that night based upon all the stuff I'd read about 3somes with providers. So like my experience I just let sleeping dogs lie and never tried it again. but at least mine was a good one and at least I tried it once.

[evood F]

Originally Posted by GP

Even though I agree with everything you say, I am going to play devil's advocate for one second.

Why is it that men should allow the lady to choose. Logic would dictate that the ladies have just as much a chance of a "cold match" as if the man were to choose.

If the man chooses who both partners are, then if there is a problem with the chemistry, the burden is on him. If the lady chooses and there is a problem, then the burden is on her and then there is the possibility of an unsatisfied customer.

Cause like I said "great chemistry"...trust the lady...If you have great chemistry and she picks someone she has great chemistry with its far less likely she is going to make a bad choice...If she truly has great chemistry with you there is less likely to be mismatches cause she wants the chemistry right for both of you not Just you...And like I said drop all your thoughts of what you expect it to be like...If you only have a "Watching 3some porn" attitude and expect it to be all about "You" ....Sorry but it's most likely gonna be a crappy experience...Even if you are paying for the meal you need to let the gal shop for the groceries to make the dish best...Bottom line trust the lady she just may be the best devil to play the advocate!

[GP]

What do you tell a woman with two black eyes?

Nothing! You already told her twice!

Now get in this damn trailer and fry me some bacon! God wouldn't have given little feet if he didn't want 'em standing close to the stove and sink!

yes, this was all a joke for those without a sense of humor.

[GP]

Originally Posted by evood F

Cause like I said "great chemistry"...trust the lady...If you have great chemistry and she picks someone she has great chemistry with its far less likely she is going to make a bad choice...If she truly has great chemistry with you there is less likely to be mismatches cause she wants the chemistry right for both of you not Just you...And like I said drop all your thoughts of what you expect it to be like...If you only have a "Watching 3some porn" attitude and expect it to be all about "You" ....Sorry but it's most likely gonna be a crappy experience...Even if you are paying for the meal you need to let the gal shop for the groceries to make the dish best...Bottom line trust the lady she just may be the best devil to play the advocate!

sorry, You missed my edit.... that's why I added....

This is putting aside for one second that most men have no understanding of women.

[CummingsLane]

You sure do have a nice way with words and getting your point across.

Originally Posted by evood F

Cause like I said "great chemistry"...trust the lady...If you have great chemistry and she picks someone she has great chemistry with its far less likely she is going to make a bad choice...If she truly has great chemistry with you there is less likely to be mismatches cause she wants the chemistry right for both of you not Just you...And like I said drop all your thoughts of what you expect it to be like...If you only have a "Watching 3some porn" attitude and expect it to be all about "You" ....Sorry but it's most likely gonna be a crappy experience...Even if you are paying for the meal you need to let the gal shop for the groceries to make the dish best...Bottom line trust the lady she just may be the best devil to play the advocate!

[evood F]

No not really...Ask everyone here I'm this sites biggest Asshole!

(I'm hoping all the likes for this post will at least equal the total number of members in the Upstate NY forum...except Doove, anita, Jimmy, and China doll get to vote 3 times each just for the fuck of it)

[offshoredrilling]

some just looking for a