Should There Be A Hobbyist Review Section?

[jdkees]

Originally Posted by TexTushHog

I'd venture that information is shared about how we "perform" in the session. But I'll bet dollars to doughnuts that it's not what the guys with the egos think.

Is he clean and showered?
Is he polite and respectful?
Any problems with payment?
Body habitus?
Any bizarre kink I need to beware of?
Is he quick?

If the girl is really good at her job, she might share with a select few friends, is there anything special he likes (back rub, talks a lot, likes to have a beer, etc.).

I'll bet not one "review" in 20 mentions anything about being handsome or debonair; sexual prowess; size of your dick; how well you eat (or think you eat) pussy; etc.

I do believe you, my porcine friend, have managed to zero in on an interesting point. I'd agree there are way too many more important things to worry about as a provider than how handsome some hobbyist is.

Even if they all say that we're pretty fly.

[Homefinder]

Maybe just a few questions…
1. Nice guy?
2. He crazy?
3. Safe?

[Mojojo]

Originally Posted by novacain

This kind of logic makes one pause and wonder, just how you conduct yourself to worry about being put on blast.

What's to put on blast, if you go in, act right, treat her right and donate right, nothing for her to blast you about. You seem to think the ladies speak about us in the same manner we speak about them, hate to be the one to tell you, they don't. Most of them have way more class than that.

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Perhaps it makes you wonder but I don't have that problem. I'm a big boy I can take some criticism so if they want to review me i don't care. Unlike others I don't take this shit too serious, it's a hobby for me and not the only means for getting pussy. I take it for what it is a SHMB...

If you think the girls don't talk about the guys you're delusional and the perfect trick.

[TMarcus98]

Originally Posted by Angel Ryder

Let me put it this way: when I go to Disney World and I see all the characters in costume, I expect to meet that character. If you are dressed like Princess Belle, then you better damn sure talk to me about how much you hate Gaston and love the Beast. Follow me? And I don't want miss Belle to give me feedback about what an imbecile I am for being a grown ass woman who buys into the Disney fantasy that all dreams come true and shit. Same goes here. These men are paying for your services. They are paying to escape into a fantasy land in which they feel important, adored and sexy. Why rob them of that experience? Do you go to Disney World for a real life experience? Hell no. It's fantasy land. It's made to make you feel warm and fuzzy inside. Hooker-land is the same. It's kind of like Disney but....dressed in leather and lingerie.

+1 Angel Ryder!!!

[jdkees]

Originally Posted by Homefinder

Maybe just a few questions…
1. Nice guy?
2. He crazy?
3. Safe?

I would change "nice guy" to "respectful", but otherwise those are probably more important to providers than whether or not I resemble Russel Crowe or if my dick is longer than 2.5 inches (hint: it's totally not).

[anita]

If the gent is putting ladies safety at risk, short her/refuses to pay, frequent NC/NS, we can just put an alert up for everyone to see. Otherwise, let's just respect your privacy. Most gents I see are under the radar.

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by anita

If the gent is putting ladies safety at risk, short her/refuses to pay, frequent NC/NS, we can just put an alert up for everyone to see. Otherwise, let's just respect your privacy. Most gents I see are under the radar.

Exactly. Part of what I'm paying for is discretion. I don't want a description of my person, activities, etc., in a forum, regardless if the review is positive, negative or indifferent.

[Jesone]

There is a middle ground here that would probably be best. Hobbyist reviews should not be public because of the reasons mentioned earlier, but maybe "Enhanced Okays" for Hobbyist's who the provider feels are exceptional might be a good idea. Hobbyists with several enhanced okays might be given small discounts and faster screening; that type of thing. It might just be an expanded version of the P411 Okays. Providers could use this to better select the clients they wanted to see and the Hobbyists might be more inclined to be well groomed, respectful and polite. Of course this could already exist and the average Hobbyist would be none the wiser. Mwwwwww Haaaaaa Haaaaaaa !

[Ex-CEO]

Tin Man and Anita get it.

Is there really anything else to consider?

BTW, there's a thread on this very issue in the national discussion forum. In it, I wrote that if there were such a publicly visible forum, some providers would probably flood it with glowingly over-the-top "reviews," treating the whole thing as a wonderful new way to post up a lot of free advertising. Barring stuff that you'd likely see in the alert sections anyway, you'd probably never see even so much as a modestly negative "review" of a hobbyist.

[melannie_star]

Originally Posted by Mojojo

Perhaps it makes you wonder but I don't have that problem. I'm a big boy I can take some criticism so if they want to review me i don't care. Unlike others I don't take this shit too serious, it's a hobby for me and not the only means for getting pussy. I take it for what it is a SHMB...

If you think the girls don't talk about the guys you're delusional and the perfect trick.

As a woman with class and conducts myself ,as well as those who choose to visit me, with the utmost respect...
I can respectfully say mojojo has always been a gentleman. Unless asked otherwise..lol. Truthfully,he is not the topic of this conversation. I do not agree on a mans review forum. We have enough misleading reviews to ad to the drama. I just had to put my lil .02 cents in. He is an honest guy and do not think his statement was made in a cruel manner. Womans area is womans area and mans is the mans. To cross the two is a whole different circumstance where facts and opinions get crossed.....

not a good idea. I hope this all made sense,and my apologies I am typing from my phone.

for the record..if screening is done correctly, we shall hardly ever run across any issues between us lady's and gentleman. At the end of the day it is us who gives permission to walk through our door. Unless a factual threat, I do not believe in a ladies opinion of a gent. We are all too different and different stages in life to even be relevant. All I want to know is if he is non violent,theif,or le, in which we already have an area for. The rest I can figure out on my own.

have a great weekend everyone!!

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

Voice to text. DICKtate the session AS it happens. Saves time.

Me:

OOOoohhhh yyyeeeaahhhh Daddddyyyyy!

OOoooOoohhh you feeeel soooOOoo gooooOOOOdddd!

Uuuuuughhh Uuuuugghhh! MmnmmMmmmh! Aaaah!!!!!!

Hobbyist:

GRRRRRRR, UUUUGGHHH, UUUUUIGH, UUUUUGH!!!!! OOOOOOHHH MYYY GO-AHHHH-D!!!!!!!

*silence*

[MrMarriott]

Hmmm...I don't know. I'm trying think how I'd feel about eating at Pappa's Bros. Steakhouse then getting home to find a reverse yelp posted on me about how I left bread crumbs all over the table, left the tablecloth uneven, and picked out all of the cucumbers out my salad to leave behind.

[timothe]

It shocks me that the answer to the poll contains more yesses than nos. Shocked.

On the rare occasion that a provider slips up and mentions any BCD occurrence with a hobbyist on this site or when I'm seeing them, I immediately put them on my DNS list.

I care that a provider feels safe and enjoys her time with me because if I want to see her again, I want her to have the same level of service in subsequent visits. Otherwise, her opinion means nothing to me. The analogy about Pappa Bros is pretty much spot on.

[Angel Ryder]

I mean honestly, clients should not give 2 shits about our opinions. We are hired for our services to make you feel good. We are not bedroom coaches that report on performance and how to improve. It's not about how we feel. How we feel does not matter. This board is for the boys. Let's keep it that way.

[FunInDFW]

I like the OP. Coming strong with the images.

Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

Me:

OOOoohhhh yyyeeeaahhhh Daddddyyyyy!

OOoooOoohhh you feeeel soooOOoo gooooOOOOdddd!

Uuuuuughhh Uuuuugghhh! MmnmmMmmmh! Aaaah!!!!!!

Hobbyist:

GRRRRRRR, UUUUGGHHH, UUUUUIGH, UUUUUGH!!!!! OOOOOOHHH MYYY GO-AHHHH-D!!!!!!!

*silence*