Does a strap-on make a man gay/bi?

[Guest121014]

Originally Posted by dearhunter

yes

I'm not sure Im clear on where you stand on this one...

[Russ38]

Originally Posted by TX_JD

I'm not sure Im clear on where you stand on this one...

That's what makes it gay.....

[oilfieldscum]

[DallasRain]

If it's fun,then do it!

[Balderfiddle]

This is the last site where anyone would argue with that!

I think it's more about whether anyone is secure enough in their manhood to admit it. Me I'm game for anything bcd but I dunno what I'd ever tell anyone. If it ends up in a review, hoping I never run into any of yall irl!

[wreckshop]

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Don't even try to think about it or rationalize it.

If you still want to maintain street cred, locker room props, barbershop fist pounds, you have to respond and say this is GAY.

Therefore it is gay.

I will go to my grave never knowing if something up my ass feels good or not. And when I'm put into my grave I'll have a ton of respect and props from straight fellas who I've crossed paths with in life.

It's a worthwhile trade-off.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

So if you're gay you can't be respected.. I'm glad I'm female, when I tell guys I'm bi I get nothing but fist bumps..I've yet to see a guy go eww at that.

[wreckshop]

No Daph. It's a guy thing.

The circle of respect and comradare you get from fellow straight males weighs heavier than the handful of gays or open-minded straights who give you props and praise for being bold.

[Mr. Romantic]

A man's prostate gland is responsible for manufacturing some of the contents of seminal fluid in ejaculation. It's a walnut-sized and somewhat rigid mound of flesh located between your testicles and your anus, right next to your rectum. When stroked, it can give you an extra-intense orgasm.

In fact, it's possible to have an orgasm through nothing but prostate stimulation. Placing a finger or a curved toy inside the rectum is the best direct way to get to it.


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[BFCjosh]

Originally Posted by wreckshop

No Daph. It's a guy thing.

The circle of respect and comradare you get from fellow straight males weighs heavier than the handful of gays or open-minded straights who give you props and praise for being bold.

I'm not gay. But I would rather be gay than be wreakshop.

[DallasRain]

A man's anal orgasm and football:



How to explain an anal orgasm? Hmm.To put it in guy terms, an anal orgasm feels like you are watching your favorite football team win the super bowl on the most state of the art television, eating the most delicious pizza ever created, drinking beer from a magical mug that never goes empty, pressing the button that ignites a few hundred pounds of explosives that levels an abandoned building, holding a winning power ball ticket, having Angelina Jolie and Jessica Beil massaging your feet and shoulders and realizing that the cable company is giving you free porn channels......all at the same time.

[Bigdawg300]

My thoughts are man-on-man, gay. The question was what is really going on in the mind of a man that is getting his ass pounded by a woman with a strap-on. Is he secretly wishing it was a man? The question is not judgmental and not intended to give a shit about who is gay or not gay, or if gay is bad or disrespectful. What a man does with his partner is his business. You can add all kind of caveats and gray areas to answer this question to make yourself feel better about what you do. This question does not fit into a black and white box. As long as it's consensual, enjoy for life is short. I would rather have a happy man walking around after his brown penny got beat down than an angry anti-strap-on guy being a douche to everyone because he is unhappy with his life.

[Space Cowboy]

If you have to ask, "does this make me gay?"

I have news for you, you're gay. And that's fine, just admit it.

At your barber shop.

[seductivesarah]

No not at all! I think it is security in knowing what you like and who you are. If your gay you don't want a pussy around you. The ones who say "its gay" are usually questioning their own sexuality.

[Guest121014]

Originally Posted by wreckshop

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Don't even try to think about it or rationalize it.

If you still want to maintain street cred, locker room props, barbershop fist pounds, you have to respond and say this is GAY.

Therefore it is gay.

I will go to my grave never knowing if something up my ass feels good or not. And when I'm put into my grave I'll have a ton of respect and props from straight fellas who I've crossed paths with in life.

It's a worthwhile trade-off.

If your concerns revolve around "street cred" thats actually kind of sad. Do I go around telling everyone I know that from time to time I cum on my wifes chest from riding her strapon while she jerks me off? No, but I also dont go around telling everyone that I eat her pussy like someone just released from 10 years in captivity, every-time we fuck. Most of my closest friends know, and if they dont, they know that we do freaky ass shit that they would rather not know about, and they are FRIENDS because they know, and dont care. If they view me as gay / bi because of what I do sexually with my WIFE, then I dont need them around me, not as friends, not for "respect or props."

I will agree, if you are taking a pounding and thinking about a big burly man doing it, then likely you have some gay tendencies, however if you are thinking about the person you are with, and what attracts you is THAT person, regardless of what you do sexually together, then I would argue against "gay" - and not because I do it, because gay is being attracted to the SAME sex, not if you do or dont have your female partner stick something in your ass.

I really hope all yall that are SO against ass play find a wife some day that you love enough to forget about "does this make me gay" and enjoy yourself. As soon as you stop worrying about what other people might think about what you do in the bedroom, the more fun you can have. Just like if your female spends all her time worrying about if what shes doing makes her seem like a slutt or dirty, you arent going to be getting a good BJ.