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Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess
why would that need to be hidden? especially if ladies can't respond to it
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I'll tell you why. It's because most of us are fairly decent guys and are here (rather than on the streets) because we're looking for the type of providers who are in this hobby out of choice. We aren't misogynists and we actually think women are people and not objects. Remember I'm talking about MOST of us.
If I write a review about a restaurant or a plumber or whatever, I'm commenting purely on services rendered. It's not personal, and there's a sense if separation between the person and the service.
But this is different. Here my comments and reviews are about the provider herself - her looks, her personality, her services on a very intimate level. It's very difficult to be honest about those kinds of details, especially since we know there's a strong likelihood those comments will be seen by the provider.
Put simply, we're caught between the need to offer each other honest reviews so we can make informed decisions on how to spend our hard earned money and deeply insulting and hurting real live human beings.