Thoughts on losing V-card to a provider

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by BDD

Some do. Some don't. I couldn't tell you a percentage one way or the other. My experience with the providers I have seen from ECCIE is that they don't. BP

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more than a few do here also, but if they stay unknown to you, don't interefere with what you're trying to do, does it matter? Just do your research and make sure whoever it is is safe.

[StinkyFingers]

Originally Posted by zyzz

Thanks for the feed back guys I'm really taking all of it and trying to find the right girl. But, I have one question do providers have pimps?

Naawww ... the guy in the bathroom is just the security detail.

[dearhunter]

Don't do it.........ijs

[BDD]

Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

more than a few do here also, but if they stay unknown to you, don't interefere with what you're trying to do, does it matter? Just do your research and make sure whoever it is is safe.

True. The OP did seem to be concerned about it, so I commented. Wouldn't really matter to me, unless he (da pimp) got involved somehow. That wouldn't be a good thing ... for anybody.

But hey, I am pretty laid back and calm. No need for me to ever know/him to ever get involved.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

That comment was directed at the OP. Just some practical advice so he'll have a realistic approach going forward.

[zyzz]

Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

more than a few do here also, but if they stay unknown to you, don't interefere with what you're trying to do, does it matter? Just do your research and make sure whoever it is is safe.

Well it kind of makes me feel a little uncomfortable. Some guy keeping a eye on you. Weird and I'm also not looking to get taken advantage of.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

The more reputable girls, the pimps don't really keep an eye on you so much, really they just leave the room and wait for her to get done with you so they can go back to playing xbox (true story).

Just do your research and build a rapport with her beforehand (don't email her or text too much) but try to get a feel if you guys are going to be compatible. Go to her website and read, usually that gives you some insight on a girl. Ask your fellow mongers about her. There are many things you can do that will help prepare you for meeting a complete stranger or not. And most importantly of all, find someone that you are attracted to, just be yourself, and let go and have fun.

Considering you haven't done a whole lot, start off slow and relish in exploring what you like and don't like. There is a plethora of experiences before you, so have fun on your journey.

Daph

[jbravo_123]

I'd recommend ponying up the 20 bucks to get premium access here so you can start doing your research with the ROS parts of reviews. If you can't afford to do that, the hobby world may not be the right place for you.

You should probably get a P411 account too if you plan to be doing this for any extended period of time.

For your first time, I'd focus more on experience/quality than hotness. Of course a level of attractiveness to you is important, but if the provider gives you a crappy session, it won't matter how hot she is if she makes your first experience a poor one.

I'm also in the camp of being honest with the lady you eventually choose about your situation so she can be prepared (and most ladies will make an extra effort to make sure you have a good time).

[Old Dingus]

+1

Old Dingus

[oilfieldscum]

Originally Posted by BDD

True. The OP did seem to be concerned about it, so I commented. Wouldn't really matter to me, unless he or she (da pimp) got involved somehow. That wouldn't be a good thing ... for anybody.

But hey, I am pretty laid back and calm. No need for me to ever know/him to ever get involved.

I fixed that for you.

[zyzz]

Okay everyone. So, I think I have made my decision on the girl I want to pick. I'm looking to see her either this weekend or the next. I haven't exactly picked a exact time but it should be within the next two weeks. I will be sure to report back with my first review. Once again I appreciate everyones advice.

[Why A Duck?]

Good luck kid.

[tbone77494]

Cool bro. Have fun. Someone suggested RubyRed, although I don't think she sees newbees. All I can say is if she was my first I would be ruined for life. That is like getting the keys to a 6 series BMW convertible for your 16th birthday.

Looking forward to the review.

[milagro1970]

Good luck, dude!

[Stanfeld]

For your next try I suggest Jemma Martin, she will leave you speechless.