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Originally Posted by wickerman1
I'm talking about love. Didn't grow up in a loving home. Didn't have many friends. Girlfriends came and went, but they only stayed as long as I was useful to them. I did a lot of things wrong in my life. Would like to have a family with a loving wife and cute kids. But I can't even begin to think what that would be like. Throughout my life, I see more compassion from people who otherwise should not have given me any, and none from those who should. But I'm not bitter about it. Just how my life is. Anyone else can relate?
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I cannot say I can relate to you at all. But as a guy in the position that you want to be in, I would like to give some advise so you can experience something amazing.
First you have to understand that love is slightly different thing for man and woman. Man can fall in love at first sight without expecting anything else. Woman, unless they in teenager, as she gets older and smarter, love can only be grown from the security and care she get from a man. Lack of those can also rewind the respect and love she has for you. It is just evolution. So at your age, it would be hard to find someone who truly love you out of sight.
So I would advise that you find someone who needs care and security you can provide, you will grow love in her heart. Don't carry habit from here. You are not buying any service so you have to love her without any expectation. I am sure you will find someone who can love you back.