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Originally Posted by royamcr
Don't be hatin on guys that pull in 60k "legit" per year, or even 80-100. A lot may have SOs and the less they spend per meet means the less they have to "hide". She'd sures as fuck notice 3000 a month gone and be asking questions. Fuck paying up front anymore, girls just take it and skip town, and next. Then you get the wannabe SBs that constantly need cashapp for one thing or another. Oh I don't have gas to come meet, or my car is overheating, for 2 months... Can you cash app me for gas? Fuck no, go suck some dick and buy your own gas....
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Lol, I actually agree, which is why I said you have to do your homework on both worlds. I'm a better escort than a SB, because it's less time and no signals confused.
When I have done the SB thing, it was usually with someone I already had a rapport with from this end, and we worked something out.
I agree both sides can get screwed with the upfront stuff, because if you agree to say 1200 a month for 4 visits and you let the guy pay per visit z he might only show up for 2. On the flip side, if the guy does pay upfront, the girl might be the one to flake, so there's definitely a trust and connection level that has to be there, respect is everything.
My post wasn't to bash anyone by how much they make, but to illustrate not everyone is a sugar daddy. If the situation with the SO noticing money gone is his norm, that's not an ideal situation.
Most of the guys I have met have trophy wives that look the other way.