Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Baby Dating

[Msblu]

Hi There How Are You? Lets Chat!

[essence]

Originally Posted by Mistershark

Not only does site imply not website, but the reply didn’t give her a location at all as you suggest.

Fixed that for you.

OK, let's try a location.

A building site. A launch site. A panoramic site. A wealth site. A foundry site. A religious site. A remains site. A sunbathing site. A model flying site. A model photography site. A museum site. A tourist site.

Plus a hobby site.

To be honest, the advice to look outside the internet is good advice. Very few on sugar daddy web sites are true sugar babes.

[eccieuser13]

Wow, this thread was started back in 2014! It's a hot topic!

I have had experience with SD-SB "dating" or relationships. But they are not easy to find. There are many sites and people on them who will make profiles saying they are ready to begin that experience, but you quickly find they are not ready and are more suited to a hookup app or website.

It's often wishful thinking to expect women to just hookup without the pampering/spoiling because it takes time and money to look good. Add up hair, nails, tanning, clothing, lingerie, beauty products, a gym membership... whew! It adds up. And that's not something that can go by the wayside. The allure of a pampered, well-kept women requires being pampered, lol! If more people understood that

It can be the best of both worlds for some: developing a relationship beyond that hour or two you'd spend with a provider, learning about a person on a deeper level (which equals better intimate experiences), but you don't have to necessarily deal with the problems of a typical relationship. It's great for exploring new things, new turn-ons, having a reliable go-to when you need it, being able to explicitly talk about sex (which can be risky, especially in early provider-hobbyist relationships, no doubt.)

[FLWriter]

Originally Posted by eccieuser13

Wow, this thread was started back in 2014! It's a hot topic!

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Oh, actually it's a rebirth of a thread much older than that.

In years gone by, the threads of a similar ilk only danced around the topic of Sugar Baby's--they lacked voice and vocalization. Today, the topic is more common and more commonly accepted; hence this thread.

There's a certain freedom in being able to discuss it, wouldn't you say?

[essence]

you don't have to necessarily deal with the problems of a typical relationship.

Not necessarily - but when you meet someone regularly and are intimate, life intrudes, and although you may (or may not) be living together and having kids, problems arise, and if you cannot deal with that, stay with providers. For me, I accept the problems as a side effect of friendship.

the pampering/spoiling because it takes time and money to look good. Add up hair, nails, tanning, clothing, lingerie, beauty products, a gym membership..

Maybe, maybe not, I never date a girl who is not either in work and earning, or else at college (and also has a side job). But many girls need some extra help because they are in low paid jobs. I consider myself part of the government social care programme.....

[FLWriter]

Originally Posted by essence

... I never date a girl who is not either in work and earning, ...

I agree with this. It becomes too imbalanced otherwise. I won't be the supplier of every need. She will have to have some skin in the game. Pun intended.

[eccieuser13]

"The government social care programme..." I like that. Sounds like you have a big heart

[Jacuzzme]

Originally Posted by eccieuser13

It's often wishful thinking to expect women to just hookup without the pampering/spoiling because it takes time and money to look good. Add up hair, nails, tanning, clothing, lingerie, beauty products, a gym membership... whew! It adds up. And that's not something that can go by the wayside. The allure of a pampered, well-kept women requires being pampered, lol! If more people understood that.

Maybe to impress other women. I don’t think guys care nearly as much about that stuff, with the exception of not being a land whale, as women think. The just woke up, frazzled hair, no makeup wearing the shirt I had on when we went to bed is hot af, imo.

[Miss Godiva]

I'm in LA- just moved here looking for a SD/SB as well!

[Footfein75]

Would like to give it a try...Central louisiana area

[Gabrielle]

A true SD/SB relationship is harder to find nowadays than it use to be. Now it's usually a salt daddy disguised as a sugar daddy wanting to control someone for the lowest possible dollar.

Any sugar daddy I've ever had got me a car, paid my bills, cc under my name.and I had a self-care allowance along with spending money. We had mutual respect for each other and I was always spoiled. Shopping. Vacations.

Unfortunately the SD/SB world got infiltrated by hobbyists that used SD/SB dating as a cheap way to get an escort for the lowest possible dollar.

Sugar dating is similar but not the same as hobbying. Sugar dating should cost way more money and time than a one n done stop and pop escort hourly arrangement.

A real SD/SB relationship can be fulfilling and rewarding. Unfortunately there are few men who can afford/maintain a SD/SB relationship.

[theotherguy1]

Originally Posted by eccieuser13

Wow, this thread was started back in 2014! It's a hot topic!

I have had experience with SD-SB "dating" or relationships. But they are not easy to find. There are many sites and people on them who will make profiles saying they are ready to begin that experience, but you quickly find they are not ready and are more suited to a hookup app or website.

It's often wishful thinking to expect women to just hookup without the pampering/spoiling because it takes time and money to look good. Add up hair, nails, tanning, clothing, lingerie, beauty products, a gym membership... whew! It adds up. And that's not something that can go by the wayside. The allure of a pampered, well-kept women requires being pampered, lol! If more people understood that

It can be the best of both worlds for some: developing a relationship beyond that hour or two you'd spend with a provider, learning about a person on a deeper level (which equals better intimate experiences), but you don't have to necessarily deal with the problems of a typical relationship. It's great for exploring new things, new turn-ons, having a reliable go-to when you need it, being able to explicitly talk about sex (which can be risky, especially in early provider-hobbyist relationships, no doubt.)

I haven't been able to find a SB. I am willing to do everything you are talking about, but I can't find anyone. Everyone I talk to has some type of con game going on. Why would I getting to relationship to pay someone to talk to me or send me photos? I guess my problem is that I only contact the women I would really want to be with.

[Gotyour6]

Hookers are hookers and if they say they want to be a sugar baby it translates to "I need a steady income from a simp"

Stop thinking a hooker can be a sugar baby. They can't

[Unique_Carpenter]

Gabrielle's post at 461 is a refreshing dose of reality.

Her salt daddy label is valid.

[FLWriter]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

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Stop thinking a hooker can be a sugar baby. They can't

Correct. Much like donkeys and ponies, they're both cute and in some ways similar. But they are two different animals.