JEALOUSY does it belong in the hobby world???

[Sweet N Little]

If you're comfortable in your own skin there is little room for jealousy.[/quote]


It usually comes from being insecure in ones self....If you are happy with yourself, you wont spend any time being hateful or resentful of others...sadly its easy to spot the ones who are

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

There is logic and rational thinking and then there is making judgement based on lies you were told -- people do it all the time. You can't use logic, rational thinking when you don't even KNOW the person and only know a person-- unless that person has actually done something terribly wrong (such as outing). That is the problem with this hooker board, a lot of you feel as if you know one another and you don't. All you know is words and an avatar. Carry on........

I thinck you misunderstood my post.

Everyone was being rational and logical in their posts on jealousy, which was rather shocking.

The "get the bitch back on track" was not aimed at you. It was aimed at the thread since so many of these threads derail and the drama begins.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

If you're comfortable in your own skin there is little room for jealousy.

It usually comes from being insecure in ones self....If you are happy with yourself, you wont spend any time being hateful or resentful of others...sadly its easy to spot the ones who are

You don't have to be jealous of someone's looks to be jealous of them. It can be a number of things. Jealousy is not just about looks. It is more about insecurity than anything.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by pyramider

I thinck you misunderstood my post.

Everyone was being rational and logical in their posts on jealousy, which was rather shocking.

The "get the bitch back on track" was not aimed at you. It was aimed at the thread since so many of these threads derail and the drama begins.

P I got both Shayla & Zarah right where I want them! Hey are they both ignoring me? Oh crap! LOL

[Naomi4u]

Ahhh ok nevermind.

[pyramider]

Nope

[Still Looking]

HALF TIME SHOW!

This ones for you Zarah....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzPrS-fHtZI

[LadyRed]

Jealousy does not belong in the hobby world! It is a primal instinct to protect pair bonds!

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by LadyRed

Jealousy does not belong in the hobby world! It is a primal instinct to protect pair bonds!

Come on now, you hear Pyramider, you’re not allowed to use logic and common sense! LOL Plus that’s like saying guns don't kill people, guys who come home early from work do! LOL

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by LadyRed

Jealousy does not belong in the hobby world! It is a primal instinct to protect pair bonds!

It doesn't really belong anywhere but it exists and likely always will.

There's nothing wrong with being jealous - it's life. You can't really control it. However you can choose how to act on it and that's the real confession of character.

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by Shayla

It doesn't really belong anywhere but it exists and likely always will.

There's nothing wrong with being jealous - it's life. You can't really control it. However you can choose how to act on it and that's the real confession of character.

You are wise beyond your years, Are you sure your not some 40 yo old geek masquerading as a hot Canadian? lol j/k





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[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by Shayla

It doesn't really belong anywhere but it exists and likely always will.

There's nothing wrong with being jealous - it's life. You can't really control it. However you can choose how to act on it and that's the real confession of character.

It's one thing when a person are actually jealous, it's another things when someone perceives another actions as jealously as a way to victimize themselves and garner attention.

When some people realize that a few mat not respect them the way they feel as though they should they chuck it up to people being haters or jealous when reality some disdain is absolutely genuine and justified.

It exists but I don't think it is as prevalent as some people make it seem, some people just throw out the word "jealously" to feel revered because some people thrive off of feeling superior to others.

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

It's one thing when a person are actually jealous, it's another things when someone perceives another actions as jealously as a way to victimize themselves and garner attention.

When some people realize that a few mat not respect them the way they feel as though they should they chuck it up to people being haters or jealous when reality some disdain is absolutely genuine and justified.

It exists but I don't think it is as prevalent as some people make it seem, some people just throw out the word "jealously" to feel revered because some people thrive off of feeling superior to others.

You're bang on. I hope everyone reads this. Some more than others...

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by LadyRed

Jealousy does not belong in the hobby world! It is a primal instinct to protect pair bonds!

Yes but it's very clear. It's evident. When one person takes a few hours out of their life to operate a website against you? That's jealousy. When someone makes up things in their head about you because they want someone to hate about you? That's jealousy. When someone is bothered by you because you have x amount of post more than they do on a hookerboard, that's stupidity Same as when they think your every move has something to do with them -- ya know? Jealously is a mental cancer.

Haters gonna hate .

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Yes but it's very clear. It's evident. When one person takes a few hours out of their life to operate a website against you? That's jealousy. Whens someon makes up things in their head about you because they want someone to hate about you? That's jealousy. When someone is bothered by you because you have x amount of post more than they do, that's stupidity Same as when they think your every move has something to do with them -- ya know? Jealously is a mental cancer.

Tell this to all the tabloids and celebrity-based magazine editors... Just sayin'.
This doesn't sound like jealousy. It sounds more like entertainment at someone else's expense. Big difference IMO.