The Girlfriend Experience - The REAL ONE... lol

[China Doll]

Please do not view this as a personal attack, but I don't think that your joke is helping to empower the provider women. A lot of ladies and gentlemen like to use that quotation: "I don't pay her to have sex with me. I pay her to leave." How do you ladies fail to see how degrading this is? Also, if even we openly portray "real" women as selfish bitches, how can we get upset when the men start to think of us that way? I don't like it one bit.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by China Doll

Please do not view this as a personal attack, but I don't think that your joke is helping to empower the provider women. A lot of ladies and gentlemen like to use that quotation: "I don't pay her to have sex with me. I pay her to leave." How do you ladies fail to see how degrading this is? Also, if even we openly portray "real" women as selfish bitches, how can we get upset when the men start to think of us that way? I don't like it one bit.

+1000

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by JahiaraQ

To start the session as soon as he walks through the door I am going to take his money and instantly start bitching.
Questioning him about where he has been who he has been with.
I will then feed him a mediocre meal and then refuse to have sex with him before I hop on the phone with my mom and ignore him.

Then when he is good and unhappy and starting to get upset I will remind him didnt you ask for the girlfriend experience?

Originally Posted by China Doll

Please do not view this as a personal attack, but I don't think that your joke is helping to empower the provider women. A lot of ladies and gentlemen like to use that quotation: "I don't pay her to have sex with me. I pay her to leave." How do you ladies fail to see how degrading this is? Also, if even we openly portray "real" women as selfish bitches, how can we get upset when the men start to think of us that way? I don't like it one bit.

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

+1000

Guess you can't take (to coin a phrase) a fuckin' joke.

What you fail to realize is that there is a lot of truth in JQ's example. You don't have to portray "real" women as selfish bitches. They exist. And there are a lot of them out there. I'm not saying every GF is one. Heaven knows, I've got a wonderful SO who doesn't engage in that kind of thing, but I've know a lot of women who do.

Bottom line, you can't pretend that all women don't fit the profile the OP put up. If they didn't fit that profile, the term "bitch" wouldn't exist.

[DallasRain]

everybody wants to compare the girlfriend experience with the "california girl attitude".......It is a good thing we are not all "california girls"...lol

in the words of Gretchen Wilson....
Ain't you glad we ain't all California girls
Ain't you glad there's still a few of us left.
That know how to rock your world
Ain't afraid to eat fried chicken and dirty dance to Merle
Ain't you glad we ain't all California girls

THAT DESCRIBES ME!!!!!

{I am your redneck bar girlfriend...take me to shoot pool/take me to karaeoke/or take me to Hooters.....ride me home on the back of your Harley,rip my clothes off,and do me right there on the front porch or on the hood of your camaro parked in the drive!.......lol}

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Guess you can't take (to coin a phrase) a fuckin' joke.

What you fail to realize is that there is a lot of truth in JQ's example. You don't have to portray "real" women as selfish bitches. They exist. And there are a lot of them out there. I'm not saying every GF is one. Heaven knows, I've got a wonderful SO who doesn't engage in that kind of thing, but I've know a lot of women who do.

Bottom line, you can't pretend that all women don't fit the profile the OP put up. If they didn't fit that profile, the term "bitch" wouldn't exist.

Oh, Charles. Don't you know me better than this? You're plenty intelligent enough to know exactly what I am saying. I'm not going to spell it out just for you. If anyone else claims to have any difficulty understanding that I know some women are like this, I'll be more than happy to take you through my thoughts, step by step.

Also, regardless of what some people may think of some women, the word "bitch" did not originate in this context, so I'm afraid we'll have to agree to disagree about whether or not it would exist in the absence of the aforementioned "some women."

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by China Doll

Also, regardless of what some people may think of some women, the word "bitch" did not originate in this context, so I'm afraid we'll have to agree to disagree about whether or not it would exist in the absence of the aforementioned "some women."

I knew that already.

Bitch

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Look up bitch in Wiktionary, the free dictionary. Bitch, literally, means a female dog. In other uses, it may refer to:

• A slang term for a complaint
• Bitch (insult) is a pejorative term for "woman" or "subordinate man".
• Bitch (magazine)
• "Bitch" (short story), by Roald Dahl
• BITCH-100 or Black Intelligence Test of Cultural Homogeneity, a psychometric test

In music:

• Bitch (band), an American heavy metal band
• Bitch (performer), musician formerly of Bitch and Animal, a queercore duo
• "Bitch" (Meredith Brooks song)
• "Bitch" (The Rolling Stones song)
• "Bitch" (Sevendust song), a song by Sevendust from the album Sevendust
• "Bitch (E-40 song)", a song on the album Revenue Retrievin': Day Shift by rappers E-40 and Too Short, later remixed by 50 Cent

Bitches may refer to:

• "Bitches", an episode of the television series Pushing Daisies
• "Bitches", a song by Mindless Self Indulgence from Frankenstein Girls Will Seem Strangely Sexy
• "Bitches", a song by Insane Clown Posse featuring Ol' Dirty Bastard from The Amazing Jeckel Brothers
• One of many nicknames for a pair of queens as a starting hand in Texas hold 'em poker

The Bitch may refer to:

• The Bitch, an alternative title of Jean Renoir's 1931 film, La Chienne
• The Bitch (film), a 1979 film starring Joan Collins

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Bottom line, you can't pretend that all women don't fit the profile the OP put up. If they didn't fit that profile, the term "bitch" wouldn't exist.

[rednecksatyr]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I like to say "I am the Dallas Experience"....not a gfe or pse but a dirty lil slut experience!!

GFE? PSE? What the hell is all that? I am among the uniformed apparently. LOL. Just kiss me and go missionary until I say "No more, I'm too pooped to pop."

Ah, the days and weeks and months have turned into more years than I like to think about. But the undivided attention of a willing lady is a great pleasure.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I like to say "I am the Dallas Experience"....not a gfe or pse but a dirty lil slut experience!!

Now, there's a new acronym for the list/UrbanDictionary = DLSE.

[Laurentius]

Originally Posted by China Doll

Please do not view this as a personal attack, but I don't think that your joke is helping to empower the provider women. A lot of ladies and gentlemen like to use that quotation: "I don't pay her to have sex with me. I pay her to leave." How do you ladies fail to see how degrading this is? Also, if even we openly portray "real" women as selfish bitches, how can we get upset when the men start to think of us that way? I don't like it one bit.

Every person is unique and every situation is unique.

That is to say the way a person reacts in any given situation is a product not just of nature and nurture; but also the circumstances in which s/he is placed.

There do exist, of course, seemingly congenitally unpleasant women who have, through their own actions and unprovoked nastiness, duly earned being called bitches; though I seldom use such terminology.

But there also exist women who are most assuredly NOT bitches; though no wise person puts even the most pleasant of people in a corner and starts prodding him/her with needles without expectation of adverse response.

Now, I have certainly encountered women in civie life for whom the appellation was appropriate. And when girlfriends have met that definition I have done the logical thing -- dumped them.

There is a good reason why doing this is important. When guys, due to insecurities or whatever other purpose, take abuse from women and even reward it by providing infrastructural support and close-to-unconditional caring; they are encouraging this behavior.

Furthermore, it penalizes those women who are NOT gratuitously abusive by shrinking the pool of men from which they can choose without just cause.

That is to say, mercy to the guilty can be injustice to the innocent. And men putting up with the physically and psychologically abusive intimate terrorism that we so nicely reference as "bitchiness" serves not only as encouragement to the guilty, but discouragement to the good.

I absolutely agree that it is very important not to paint girlfriends with such a wide brush. The overwhelming preponderance of all of my civie liassons have been with very fine women, many of whom remain friends or acquaintances of mine today. Painting such fine women in a derogatory fashion would be a profound injustice.

Furthermore, doing so gives those women who repeatedly engage in intimate terrorism against men camouflage from which they can operate with impunity.

For such terminology as "bitch" to be effective at all; it must be applied narrowly and only where appropriate earned.

[anita]

Request a great fling experience instead.

[Andrea Davis]

Well You guys are welcome to come try my GFE Experience.......

It starts with a Little bitching because you are late bringing me home Beer and The Packers game is on. Then their is a great meal with some football. I yell at you a few times if your blocking the T.V. Then I proceed to change the Oil in your truck, cut the grass, tidy up the house and wake you up in your sleep because I wanna FUCK! Anyone up for the Challenge?

[JahiaraQ]

Originally Posted by China Doll

Please do not view this as a personal attack, but I don't think that your joke is helping to empower the provider women. A lot of ladies and gentlemen like to use that quotation: "I don't pay her to have sex with me. I pay her to leave." How do you ladies fail to see how degrading this is? Also, if even we openly portray "real" women as selfish bitches, how can we get upset when the men start to think of us that way? I don't like it one bit.

Let me start by saying that is is not my job to empower women. I am a pornstar and an escort. My Job is to be the hottest fuck the camera has ever seen and make sure my clients have a good time in my company.
If I wanted to empower people and be responsible for that kind of thing I would have chose to become a feminist activist.

POINT BLANK PERIOD IT WAS A JOKE!chuckle chuckle hA hA. tHAT WAS AS FAR AS I WAS SUPPOSED TO GO.
MY ONE JOKE DID NOT JUST TAKE POWER FROM EVERY PROVIDER, ESCORT, CALL GIRL, PROSTITUTE, HOOKER OR HOE IN THE WORLD.

SORRY HUN BUT IM JUST NOT THAT IMPORTANT.

If you dont like my joke. Too Bad. Not everyone has the same sense of humor. It happens. But Do not put the weight of the whole community on me, ITS NOT THAT Serious!!!


Now on another lighthearted note which was the point of this thread to have some funny in the midst of all the drama on this board.

Charles must you always be a jerk?....I love it.
I think i may have met my match in you. I cant wait to find out

[JahiaraQ]

Originally Posted by Andrea Davis

Well You guys are welcome to come try my GFE Experience.......

It starts with a Little bitching because you are late bringing me home Beer and The Packers game is on. Then their is a great meal with some football. I yell at you a few times if your blocking the T.V. Then I proceed to change the Oil in your truck, cut the grass, tidy up the house and wake you up in your sleep because I wanna FUCK! Anyone up for the Challenge?

Andrea do you do laundry. I might wanna marry you myself after reading that.

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by JahiaraQ

Let me start by saying that is is not my job to empower women. I am a pornstar and an escort. My Job is to be the hottest fuck the camera has ever seen and make sure my clients have a good time in my company.
If I wanted to empower people and be responsible for that kind of thing I would have chose to become a feminist activist.

POINT BLANK PERIOD IT WAS A JOKE!chuckle chuckle hA hA. tHAT WAS AS FAR AS I WAS SUPPOSED TO GO.
MY ONE JOKE DID NOT JUST TAKE POWER FROM EVERY PROVIDER, ESCORT, CALL GIRL, PROSTITUTE, HOOKER OR HOE IN THE WORLD.

SORRY HUN BUT IM JUST NOT THAT IMPORTANT.

If you dont like my joke. Too Bad. Not everyone has the same sense of humor. It happens. But Do not put the weight of the whole community on me, ITS NOT THAT Serious!!!

Trust me when I say that you are reacting to me with far more drama and seriousness than I did to your post. I was simply expressing my opinion, and while I understand that you were just making a joke, your joke does send a certain message that I am sure you are aware of. I was speaking of the effect of the prevalence of this "joke" rather than this one joke you made. I think most people who know my posting style know that I like to point things out when I see fit, but I do not like to start arguments. I apologize if I offended you with my words.