May I Have a Break?

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Honestly darling, this is a no-brainer.

Even if it's a couple of hours a day to work, read a book, talk to family, NO gent expects you to be on him 24/7. If he does, there's something wrong with him. I have yet to have a trip where a client doesn't need to check in at home, work, or even just take a minute to check emails.

This time for me is usually in the morning, after the romp, before breakfast. We get on laptops, get on the phone in separate rooms, get on the treadmill, and once it's over we can get back to each other.

If it's a business thing for him, then you should have plenty of time for that. If not, request an hour in between in the morning to do your rituals.

To be GFE is to be human. I would never suggest going more than 12 hours with someone you can't be yourself with or muster some reason to enjoy them without faking.

Eloquently put, princess .

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Why do men like decide "I think I will poop now" and spend 30 min. in the bathroom? Girls are not at all that way. We can be done in 3 min. including a courtesy flush with wipe and wash lol.

That's 30 minutes away from the nag. The fact that so many men do it, should be a reflection on the women in their lives. If women only need 3 minutes, it's because they feel the undeniable need to get back to nagging.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

That's 30 minutes away from the nag. The fact that so many men do it, should be a reflection on the women in their lives. If women only need 3 minutes, it's because they feel the undeniable need to get back to nagging.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by woodyboyd

That is NOT the issue that was brought up; it is INCREDIBLY crude, and you are not sorry or you wouldn't have posted it. Everything about your statements then is untrue in one way or another. The real issue then is why you are being off point and making untrue statements and to me, it is obvious.



What a sexist, crude, and offensive statement.



You poor thing.

We are so blessed to have a woman like you tell us men what assholes we are.

Uhhh here we go again...thanks for proving my point about the men that are clearly NOT cut out for these types of dates or the hobby in general. Sorry a hooker hurt your damn feelings...geez. Just because she did not bring it up does not mean it's not an OBVIOUS human issue that us whores have to deal with...get over it! Did I say ALL men are a holes?

Did I say ALL men are gross when they sleep? No I did not, but since you brought it up...some are lol! Don't get all butt hurt because someone speaks the truth on a hooker board! Some people cannot control how they act when asleep...especially you old folks with colon issues bwahahah. How's that for crude and offensive?

Don't get it twisted either..I LOVE my clients, but they have common sense and are in touch with reality. I can promise you they are not offended, because they know damn well they DON'T APPLY lmao! You dared to say she should give her money back because she was a freaking human being, yet I am the one who is crude...nice try. Why do you think we charge so much for overnights? It's not for the sex honey I will tell you that much!

If you had read with some comprehension vs. just attacking me, you would see I cleary said this should have been discussed BEFORE the agreement was made, which correlates to wanting to PLEASE the client! That would prevent both of them from being misunderstood about the fee, and uncomfortable. That's what a pro does honey. She won't take your money if she knows she will be pulling her damn hair out! Would you not prefer to know this before? Geez..it's just never enough is it with some people.

YOU may need a girl at your beck and call and see it as "OMG that's 20 percent of work she missed," but thankfully men with MONEY and common sense don't view us that way. They don't look at us like, "Oh the hooker needs alone time, fk that. I am paying for this." I want 300 back for every 20 min. she has to breathe or take a crap without me." Just what do you think alone time will consist of...that she won't go to the bathroom, shave her legs, take a bath? Gimme a damn break!

There is nothing un-true about my statements honey, otherwise you would not have felt the need to respond in the way you did ha ha. Why would you think that because I said sleeping next to someone you don't know might be uncomfortable that I think men are aholes? Talk about reaching.

If you want to discuss this like adults without getting all butt hurt and making baseless accusations whilst putting words in my mouth, fine. If you are not capable of doing that, squash it! Thancks.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Thancks.

You've been hanging around those Texas folks too much

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Honestly darling, this is a no-brainer.

Even if it's a couple of hours a day to work, read a book, talk to family, NO gent expects you to be on him 24/7. If he does, there's something wrong with him. I have yet to have a trip where a client doesn't need to check in at home, work, or even just take a minute to check emails.

This time for me is usually in the morning, after the romp, before breakfast. We get on laptops, get on the phone in separate rooms, get on the treadmill, and once it's over we can get back to each other.

If it's a business thing for him, then you should have plenty of time for that. If not, request an hour in between in the morning to do your rituals.

To be GFE is to be human. I would never suggest going more than 12 hours with someone you can't be yourself with or muster some reason to enjoy them without faking.

Hmm..apparently SOME men certainly DO expect a robotic monkey that does not go to the bathroom or make phone calls without having to calculate how much of a refund he should get. Meh...life is good though.

Z, not all the guys in Texas are cheap d*cks...I had to eat my words many times ha ha. Can't wait to be back honestly!

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

I had to eat my words many times ha ha. Can't wait to be back honestly!

Bet that's not all you ate.

[rharley]

well, it's only 3 days, and he's probably paying you VERY well, plus plane ticket, food and lodging. in other words, it's costing him BIG bucks. you need to think of it as a job, focus on him and earn your money. you'll enjoy whatever entertainment is offered by his side at the very least, that's what he's expecting. if you dont feel you can do that, for the money he offered, then bow out now. any "off time" you get should be viewed as an unexpected bonus.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by rharley

well, it's only 3 days, and he's probably paying you VERY well, plus plane ticket, food and lodging. in other words, it's costing him BIG bucks. you need to think of it as a job, focus on him and earn your money. you'll enjoy whatever entertainment is offered by his side at the very least, that's what he's expecting. if you dont feel you can do that, for the money he offered, then bow out now. any "off time" you get should be viewed as an unexpected bonus.

Bingo!

[mikkifine]

Hmmm, this is interesting. When I have extended dates(for example a few days) the guy usually tells me that I don't have to spend the entire time with him. Me asking for a break never crossed my mind.

I have not had an extended date like that in a while. But I do remember I had a lot of fun.

[dearhunter]

No

[London Rayne]

I expected much more from the Fkin Prophet...just sayin.

[Sensia]

This thread sort of cracks me up. Generally men who have money are not looking at every minute / hour as counting toward BCD time. Money is usually no object to men like this so they aren't nearly as uptight as a guy who had to scrounge / save for an an extended date with an escort (with regard to actual hands on time). About 10 years back I remember doing a weekend date. The guy paid a substantial amount and didn't expect me to be "on top of him" 24/7. In fact I was given all the time I needed to bathe/shower on my own and get dressed and ready for a play we were going to one evening. He even let me sleep in the next day giving me the bed all to myself while he was up doing his own thing drinking coffee and reading the newspaper.

I think if he is thinking how much money he spent vs actual BCD time and is uptight about that he may not be the best candidate for engaging in a 3 day excursion. On the flip side of this you really need to screen your client well and make sure they are the right fit for you for something like this. I personally would not consider doing an extended date with someone who I did not like. It just isn't worth the money and the aggravation.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

This thread sort of cracks me up. Generally men who have money are not looking at every minute / hour as counting toward BCD time. Money is usually no object to men like this so they aren't nearly as uptight as a guy who had to scrounge / save for an an extended date with an escort (with regard to actual hands on time). About 10 years back I remember doing a weekend date. The guy paid a substantial amount and didn't expect me to be "on top of him" 24/7. In fact I was given all the time I needed to bathe/shower on my own and get dressed and ready for a play we were going to one evening. He even let me sleep in the next day giving me the bed all to myself while he was up doing his own thing drinking coffee and reading the newspaper.

I think if he is thinking how much money he spent vs actual BCD time and is uptight about that he may not be the best candidate for engaging in a 3 day excursion. On the flip side of this you really need to screen your client well and make sure they are the right fit for you for something like this. I personally would not consider doing an extended date with someone who I did not like. It just isn't worth the money and the aggravation.

Exactly! I would say "Word" like I normally do, but that might be too crude bwahahha! When is communion around here?

[am-a-pleaser]

There's all kinds of guys. And there's all kinds of gals.

Slobs, needy, gross, inconsiderate, kind, understanding, patient, . . .

When I look for a companion, I read about her to assure compatability with me and the kind of trip I'm taking her on. I want it to be an enjoyable time for both of us.

I do a couple of other things. When I meet her, I give her the opportunity to back out if she's having last-minute apprehension. I give her a substatial portion of the donation up front to keep at home, put in her bank, etc. During our stay, I give her the rest. She can choose to leave, fly back home, or she can choose to stay.

When people have the freedom of choice, and don't feel trapped, everything goes so much smoother.

I have other trips coming up over the next year. I'll be making choices, doing research, and matching a lady to me and the kind of trip, including location and activities, that I think we will enjoy together.