Two EROTIC, WONDERFUL, EXCITING new things I tried-and YOU should too!!

[Guest061511-2]

Hey Maddie My comment was for the op. It wasn't directed at you lovely. Anywho...Goodnight ladies and gents. kisses and cofs, lol!

[RALPHEY BOY]

Great post Heather!! love your style!!

[Guest061511-2]

REB, I am not even going to ask why you think this thread is great as I know the answer. Back at ya babe

[Kit-4-Kat]

Originally Posted by MaddietheCoed

Making or attempting to make people feel dirty and disrespected for things they enjoy sexually is rude, in and out of the hobby.

KACHING! There's the solution to the question about this thread's relevance whether its presentation was inappropriate or not. There are many opportunities to make one feel inhibited about their sexuality; however, the hobby should not be one of them. This should be an environment that encourages others to feel safe in expressing their thoughts. We may not all agree & find others' interests not to our taste, but you can move on w/out comment rather than judge or jeer. For every sex addict or sexually starved hobbyist a provider may meet is another who has feelings of inadequacy or self-loathing from being persecuted for having interests that are off the beaten path. Who are we to say what's wrong? Agree to disagree & move on.

[SofaKingFun]

OK, then WHY WHY WHY would any provider allow even the teensy weensy bit of disrespect be a part of her "job" description?

PLEASE explain.

Because the MAJORITY of providers do NOT allow disrespect to be a part-even the tiniest part-of their "job", for want of a better word.

-WITHOUT letting men degrade-excuse me, "disrepect"-us,AT ALL.

Why do things that you find distasteful that you don't need to do??????

I can see allowing your SO, who you are madly in love with, do things out of the ordinary since he is your SO and you love him. But a Fred Flintstone looking stranger that gives you money? That you don't HAVE to do? And you would stil make money if you didn't?

Okay Heather, maybe you could answer this. If you find COF so offensive, degrading, disrespectful,distasteful (<~Heh! of course..;'cuz it's on her face. Duhh!), etc+ ad nauseam.

Why would you allow someone that you love do that to you?

Is it somehow *less* offensive? *less* degrading?? less disrespectful??? because he's your SO.

I'm of the opinion that it would probably be even *more* offensive if someone that I cared for did something offensive/degrading/disrespectful to me.

[LadiesFan]

It's all about perspective.

Some women would consider making sweet lovin to strangers for money as degrading/disrespectful.

Some women find strip clubs degrading/disrespectful.

Some women find Hooters style restaurants degrading/disrespectful.

fortunately, I don't spend any time with those ladies

LF

[Sweet Heather]

Originally Posted by MaddietheCoed

Is asking for COF from a provider who is self professed GFE really that bad? YES. YES. YES. GFE does NOT...NOT...NOT include ass to mouth, cum on face, greek, slapping of face, spitting into open ass...are you Austin girls so fucking desperate and dense that you can't understand this??

Isn't the point of being GFE that you make that guy feel as if he is the one you're in love with and would allow things out of the ordinary with?YES. But the defination of GFE does NOT..NOT...NOT..include these things!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!.

Everyone should have and maintain their boundaries.Yes my dear...but please please please don't start to include things that the majority of providers percieve as distasteful and disrespectful in your definition of "GFE". If yo want to be a PSE provider go for it. Just don't make it harder for the rest of us since as we all know being a provider hard enough as it is.

Be careful in your attempts to rally against hobbyists that break the rules that you don't screw with the expectations of hobbyists/providers in general.THATS WHAT THIS WHOLE THING IS ABOUT SWEETY!

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[Sweet Heather]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

who cares if she throws out judgemental words? who the hell would pay her to have sex????

Wow. How disrespectful.

And to answer your question, plenty of TRICKS just like YOU. Sir.

[Sweet Heather]

Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Clearly, the OP does not have much to contribute in terms of coherent discussion.

Let's stop feeding this troll.

It's just sixth grade english and logic.LOL.

Troll? Look inthe mirror, Brad Pitt.

[Sweet Heather]

[quote=Kit-4-Kat;369149]KACHING! There's the solution to the question about this thread's relevance whether its presentation was inappropriate or not. There are many opportunities to make one feel inhibited about their sexuality; however, the hobby should not be one of them.I 100% agree. But those providers that are pushing the bounderies of what "GFE" means is the point. Read my following thread.

We may not all agree & find others' interests not to our taste, but you can move on w/out comment rather than judge or jeer. Fair enough, but when opinionsand comments affect ME indirectly or indirectly I feel I MUST speak out...for all the providers that choose to remain silent

.For every sex addict or sexually starved hobbyist a provider may meet is another who has feelings of inadequacy or self-loathing from being persecuted for having interests that are off the beaten path.Yes, sir, that's true. But your valid points really have nothing to due with what we are discussing. With all due respect.

Who are we to say what's wrong?Is ass to mouth wrong to be included in a GFE session? Is slapping of face, spitting in open asshole wrong to be included in a GFE session? Well? Agree to disagree & move on.And thank you for your input, sir.[/quote]

[Guest092815]

Wow, this is a strange thread. I am happy you have a new pastime, Heather, really. I enjoy both of those things myself at times. ~However, for the life of me, I can't understand why you suggest that we should all offer a similar experience to any/all clients, any time they ask for it. What?

To each his own. Hell, most people's tastes vary over time and some are more vanilla than others. Not to mention comfort-level. Kink is great when the time is right, with the right person. And, so is plain vanilla PASSION.

Variety is the spice of life, so whatever floats your boat is ok with me. Just don't bee suggesting what any other ladies or couples "oughta" do--just because you feel like the resident expert in greek exploration.

If you are having such a great time, why don't you 'mind your own beeswax?'

[VictoriaLyn]

Originally Posted by LadiesFan

It's all about perspective.

Some women would consider making sweet lovin to strangers for money as degrading/disrespectful.

Some women find strip clubs degrading/disrespectful.

Some women find Hooters style restaurants degrading/disrespectful.

fortunately, I don't spend any time with those ladies

LF

Thats how I spent my first b-day in Texas......A few hours with my favorite gent then later Out to Hooters for Dinner then off to Sugars for the night ..great time

Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

Wow. How disrespectful.

And to answer your question, plenty of TRICKS just like YOU. Sir.

Ah Now I see why I cant relate I see gentleman who hobby not tricks.....

[Guest092810]

What what what is going on on on, Heather?

I don't get how you seem to think that you make the rules for ALL providers. Isn't it up to the individual provider to decide what she will and will not do?

I think you've pretty much run this little crusade of yours into the ground. Why dont you go back to being "Sweet" and just let it go...

[Guest092815]

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[Guest092810]

Sarcastic or not, that ad was truly uncalled for.