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I can see where it's OK for ladies to use the word among themselves but it seems a bit crude for me as a client to use it (so I don't) even though it is correct according to the definition.
You're right Spanky, I just don't like the word. It's too limiting and it has negative connotations. When I think, "whore," I think of someone who merely supplies an orifice for a financial return, and nothing else.
Even though part of what I do fits the definition, I believe that there is much broader scope that defines me. Confidant, muse, therapist, friend, companion, advisor... I believe courtesan is much more fitting.
You're right Spanky, I just don't like the word. It's too limiting and it has negative connotations. When I think, "whore," I think of someone who merely supplies an orifice for a financial return, and nothing else.
Even though part of what I do fits the definition, I believe that there is much broader scope that defines me. Confidant, muse, therapist, friend, companion, advisor... I believe courtesan is much more fitting.
I know a cue when I see one...
Biggles: Look. (she types) Don't put that down. Just put down - wait a mo - wait a mo. (puts on antlers) Now, when I've got these antlers on - when I've got these antlers on I am dictating and when I take them off (takes them off) I am not dictating. Secretary: (types) I am not dictating. Biggles: What? (She types. He puts the antlers on) Read that back. Secretary: Dear King Haakon, I am not dictating. What? Biggles: No, no, no, you loopy brothel inmate. Secretary: I've had enough of this. I am not a courtesan. (moves round to front of the desk, sits on it and crosses her legs provocatively) Biggles: Oh, oh, 'courtesan', oh aren't we grand. Harlot's not good enough for us eh? Paramour, concubine, fille de joie. That's what we are not. Well listen to me my fine fellow, you are a bit of tail, that's what you are. Secretary: I am not, you demented fictional character.
--Monty Python's Flying Circus, "Biggles Dictates a Letter"
I suppose it all depends on how the lady looks at herself at the end of the day. I don't consider myself a "whore" just because of what I do for a living, although society would certainly label me as one. Every provider here is so much more than her job description. I see myself as a strong, intelligent, outgoing, young lady that just happens to be an escort. To each their own.
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Originally Posted by BabyDallass
Dictionary definition of a whore: noun 1. A prostitute. Verb 1. (Of a woman) synonyms: work as a prostitute, sells one body, sells oneself.
If we aren't the definition of WHORES, then what the fuck are we?
I love being a whore it pays my expensive bills
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Originally Posted by Vannah
While I don't agree, I respect your opinions. As I said, to each their own.
Lol I find myself kind of in the middle lol ... while a nice bit of my job is sucking and fucking it's not ONLY sucking and fucking. I'll jokingly say to friends i'm a whore but i'm not just a whore. That phrase "there's levels to this shit" kind of comes to mind lol (though in the end more often than not we all end up on a bed ... sometimes the beds have a higher thread count than others). Or maybe not levels but layers. *shrugs* feeling a bit neutral.
Great analogy. And I do love a nice set of Ralph Lauren sateen sheets. Lol
Thank you.
And ooohhh RL sateen sheets faaannncccyyy *sticks up pinky finger* lol.
I thought I was doing it big when I picked up a couple of 500 thread count sets from Walmart and Overtstock.com x-D.
Thank you.
And ooohhh RL sateen sheets faaannncccyyy *sticks up pinky finger* lol.
I thought I was doing it big when I picked up a couple of 500 thread count sets from Walmart and Overtstock.com x-D.
I guess I'll consider myself really upscale when I own more than one set.
Well I Must be low class whore then cause I like my egyptian cotton. I Must be a low class whore because I like being called a whore especially in the bed!!!!!! I must be low class whore and I love this shit !!!!!!!!! Someone needs to put a cock in this WHORES mouth!!!!!!! I am being a bad whore
I guess I'll consider myself really upscale when I own more than one set.
Bah don't sweat it haha we all know the girl makes the sheets it's not the sheets that makes the girl . Silver lining ... Walmart has sateen sheets too .
I believe that If you don't like being a whore or being called one this may not be the biz you need be in. Everyone here is looking for fun, If a guy wants to get all proper like he can do that with his WIFE. I want you to be able to be comfortable witHout feeling judged or thought less than because of what you like. THIS is why places like this are here. This is a site for whores not women looking for a husband. Excuse my lingo, not intended to offend or warrant a response. Just stating the facts
Whore, slut, bitch, hooker, slut face, nasty whore, slutty whore, slutty bitch, cum dumpster, cum bucket etc ... they can be fun. *pinches nipples*
I believe they're kind of like salt haha.
Totally can add flavor to the dish/experience and make things much tastier but use sparingly or you'll ruin it lol.
And...now i'm hungry x-D.
As many people have mentioned, "upscale" and "elite" are terms that are often over-used, with no clear definition. I know that I occasionally use them in my ads, but to me, they signify a lady that presents herself to her clients with class, grace, and intelligence.
I believe that If you don't like being a whore or being called one this may not be the biz you need be in. Everyone here is looking for fun, If a guy wants to get all proper like he can do that with his WIFE. I want you to be able to be comfortable witHout feeling judged or thought less than because of what you like. THIS is why places like this are here. This is a site for whores not women looking for a husband. Excuse my lingo, not intended to offend or warrant a response. Just stating the facts
I hear what you're saying and I don't think there's anything wrong with it for those that like it. The word just doesn't come out of my mouth easily so that's why I don't personally use it but for those that don't mind or even like it, that's great! Maybe I just need to loosen up a bit. Though as a couple of providers who saw me early on can attest, I'm waaaaaay less uptight now than a year ago.