One thing's for sure is that there's this, shit kicker, pile on crew that, when someone asks a question, here comes these fuckers with the worst shit to say, taking the lowest road possible, and, in World War Z fashion, more of them pile on. God forbid if the OP or anyone else responds to one of them. More WWZ. In droves.
One person says something. Usually kinda harsh. Gets about 30 'yay' votes (no doubt from the WWZ crowd). Two of his/her buddies copy the post, and adds his/her version of the same tripe. Rinse and repeat for about 10 posts, half of which them patting each other on the ass for ripping the OP. The OP says something. Then gets ripped for responding. More show up from the WWZ crowd. The OP responds again, maybe throws a self defending insult in there. More piling on. In comes a mod, a day late and a dollar short, reminding the pile on-ee, (or piled-on) that he/she's violated a rule, and at best, maybe glosses over the pile on. Thread dies an avoidable death.
What I find funny is how pile-ons are allowed to go on as long as they do. There are some people on this board who's sole purpose is to be a shit stirrer. There are some who's second purpose is to be a shit stirrer. When they're not getting appointments, it becomes their first job.
Of course, I'll catch shit from a shit stirrer for this post, but....I don't give a shit. I'm going to be who I am, whether they like it or not.
As far as the OP goes, sorry dude. Hey, try not to sweat it too much. She probably sucks anyway. Plenty of other hot chicks to pursue.