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Old 12-19-2010, 12:44 PM   #31
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I'm not saying it's impossible...in fact most ladies would really love to get your money without doing anything, but for me it blurs the line of why I am here. I don't know why but I feel more like I am in a relationship if there is no bcd when I am being paid. The money and the bcd are what keep things in perspective for me. I think it's quite nice of you to do those things for the ladies, but only if it's what you truly want. Most of us are here to please you.
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Old 12-19-2010, 12:58 PM   #32
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I know what you are saying, Im never one to be bashful about what I truely want,so thats not it,not looking for a relationship,I am not a hideous hunchback or anything like that and I can get a regular date,so thats not it,so it must be the fact that if I already know you and weve already done the "deed" then as adults we should be able to overcome the bcd expectations that the hobbie has branded into everyone,I have never left a date like that thinking that I waisted my money,I had a chance to get to know someone a little without the expectations of sex looming over us,I have had some great conversations with people about who they really are,their goals they have set for themselves and even felt like I developed a level of trust between the two of us by the time the night was over. Sure we are going to see each other again and then the playing field will be different,different but alot more relaxed and familiar to us both....
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Old 12-19-2010, 01:05 PM   #33
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My extended dates are for the guys who TRULY want companionship, and treat the date as a real boyfriend would.

I have never had a boyfirend demand that I get him 2 pops every hour, for 12 hours lmao.
I agree with that first part on the interaction, and 8 said the same thing.

That second part doesn't correlate with anything anyone said yet in this thread.....and is a bit unimaginable anyone would have as an expection for the time booked such as that.

I don't think any reasonable person provider or hobbyist would consider that standard. But on the same token in a twelve hour, I have had anywhere between 3 to 6 bells...that would make me an abusive purple pussy producer either. It wasn't the sole purpose to cum, it was to have fun and those ladies were delicious accessorries to that fact.

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Bottom line is everyone is different.
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Farmer you make the ideal candidate for an overnight or dinner date btw!! A true gent who is not all focused on the alphabet soup, and can simply relax and enjoy a woman for all she has to offer.
Who's focused on alphabet soup. No one divulged any preferences for acroynyms in this particular thread yet. Where's the motivation for that statement here. Its kind of unrelated with the subject matter at this point huh?
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Old 12-19-2010, 01:10 PM   #34
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this did get off the subject,sorry for that,I was trying to make a point and it was lost in the shuffle obviously,so once again sorry for that,I will take it to another thread.
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Gimmethat, The OP asked why more girls don't book overnights with new clients..I told you why lol. That's the reason for that statement about acronyms and the alphabet soup. We want to know what we are dealing with prior to investing that time...just as you do.
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It sounds strange that people flake out of overnights - they're so much better paid, I can't see why anyone would (flake).

I suspect the present pornographic selling of companionship is the problem - people's expectations have often dropped on both side of the fence, when really quality companionship is the best thing. And yes, that usually involves much more time together.

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Old 12-19-2010, 01:44 PM   #37
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Had my 1st overnight expericance. Had a great time! One thing is and not sure if this is a good or bad thing. We are very comfortable with each other and starting to become friends. Is this a good or bad thing in the hobby?
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I've done several overnights (Had one this past week) and um.... It is not for everyone. Just because you have seen someone a dozen times doesn't always mean you will be comfortable sleeping right next to them. Just because some is SUPER HOT doesn't mean you'll be comfortable sleeping right next to him/her. You never know until you're actually put in that situation. I am not going to go into too much detail but I, Naomi, would never spend a night with just anyone that had $2500. It takes more than just a few dates and heavy screening to determine if someone is overnight worthy. .. hell sometimes two people are just compatible and mesh well and an overnight is just what they need. It is just that, Up to those two people that know themselves capable enough to make a good decision TOGETHER.

Just be safe and have fun.
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Had my 1st overnight expericance. Had a great time! One thing is and not sure if this is a good or bad thing. We are very comfortable with each other and starting to become friends. Is this a good or bad thing in the hobby?

Awesome Rabbit! I recall you telling me a bit about this and I am glad to hear it worked out the way you had hoped.
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I think overnights are for non hobby times. It's just a little more personal than a couple hours
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I think overnights are for non hobby times. It's just a little more personal than a couple hours
Very well said Burk.
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I prefere my 90 minute to two hour dates....but for over 3 hours & overnights,I would feel more comfortable with a regular client


Yeah and even then if it's a reg...it depends on the reg lol
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i love multi hour u can relax and enjoy yourself i do multi and overnights as much as i can not only are they better but the pay is good
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Yeah and even then if it's a reg...it depends on the reg lol
LOL!
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I would compare to an all-you-can-eat buffet. At my age, my stomach has shrunk, and I eat a limited amount of food for each meal. So much so, that when I eat out, I tend to order off the appetizer menu b/c the entrees tend to be too much food, and I don't want my Mother's phrase, "clean your plate, think of all the starving kids in [insert your generation's country here]" running through my head.

To me, a multi-hour is like the buffet: why should I pay for more than I am going to use. I'm a one-quick pop kinda guy. Most ladies could probably have me done and over in the first five minutes (and that includes time for introductions and checking the envelope).

Now, ladies, the other 55 minutes is for you.

But, multi-hours?? Not unless I hit the lottery.
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