OUTED BY A POULAR PROVIDER who posts here. What would you do?

[hiddenrose]

Ok who is the provider? Seriously. Threads like this are useless. Names or it never happened

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by pyramider

But she might be able to carry her luggage up the stairs.

Not if I fall down on her with mine first

[Indefinable Ms. M]

Don't you think its time to out her now? Let us ladies handle this situation.

I do not hide the fact that I screen and schedule for several ladies. It is my job to make sure that everyone is safe. The gentlemen may get upsest at times due to the fact that there are some providers do not respond to my reference checks within a timely manner. Sorry guys. Also there are some providers that would like to believe their hobby relationship is a civilian relationship with some hobbyist. Reference request come in from other providers and the reference provider takes offense and wants to go nuclear on the hobbyist. Argh, that's when I have to rein them in and explain the facts of hobbying to them.

So name the person, please.......

[Guest091813]

wow..sorry this had happened to you..i think you coulda handled this when it first happened..would be saving you 6 years worth of it owning your mind..and the provider
could have fired the screener long ago..who knows how much amo the screener has on other folks..if she did it to you she can do it to others..

and the fact she outed you to your girl..thats just classless..really..she wanted to stir up trouble plain and simple...

you need to nip this in the bud before it takes another 6 years from you..ijs...

[Bigh1955]

Six years of ammo...makes me shiver. Just think of all the lives this unscrupulous bitch could ruin. She (supposedly) proved she's willing to out a client because he's dating one of her GFs in RL...WTF...Makes me wonder how much more willing she'd be to out, or threaten outting...for money - We could easily have an extortionist or future extortionist in our midst...AND NOBODY IS DOING JACK BUT TALKING ABOUT IT.
I disagree the time for a response is past. There's no statute of limitations on outting

[hiddenrose]

Ok. I've heard about this incident. Gimme are you talking about a recent situation or about something that happened YEARS ago with another provider that has posted on this thread?

[Eccie Addict]

He said in the first paragraph of his op that it happened 3 to 5 years ago

[Guest022315]

The OP said this happenned in the past. So i get why he is hesitant in naming the provider. For sake of arguement he names her, then she will say this is bs blah blah blah. IMHO this is nothing but a cautionary tale take it or leave it and further enforces the point in siging up for p411 and other screening sites of your choice

[Mr Blonde]

Same thing happened to me...except my career was threatened. So I did nothing.

[rogerdodger]

something sort of like this happened to me ... cost me plenty. it wasn't a screener and it wasn't long ago and it was totally my fault. such is life - i lived and learned and now play a lot differently.

since it's a case of 'what would i do' in that thought ... i would refuse to give my name and basically trust no one with my personal info. that would include anyone associated with my hobbying. perhaps if i had an all-time favorite that became for the most part my sole hobbying companion then i might develop some sort of relationship trust where that person could have personal contact information ...

at the same time ... this person who outed you. i assume you found out from your relationship partner who that was. i would carefully consider some sort of revenge if it still disturbed me. that is uncalled for and as mentioned previously simply a disgruntled person. it would be water under the bridge for me.

[mikkifine]

gimme_that In a regular civvy job, for example a lawyer gives information for his secretary to type of up. The lawyer has an obligation to keep his clients info safe and the secretary needs to keep her mouth shut.

In a regular civy job someone would get sued or fired for running their mouth.

I guess the screener has never had a regular job to understand that. Your provider friend needs to do her own screening.