Do you ever feel judged by people for your fetish ?

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by pmdelites

... you can send me a pvtmsg w/ a description or story. after a week or so, i’ll paraphrase the items and post them. ...

nothing yet in my pvtmsg inbox (other than someone wanting to know about my unfulfilled roleplays) ...

so, i guess everyone is keeping their kinks/fetishes close to their chest ...

[yourdesire]

I love everything you've said here. If you're in KC you should contact me

[Gio Godley]

Originally Posted by Zena

Do you ever feel judged by people for your particular fetish ???

Either Real world or hobby ??. I do.

I know - some of you tough guys and girls will just say

SCREW WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK !!!! but there does come a time where some of us do some self- evaluation and think - ok - am I normal ?

Is this normal ? Does this mean I'm somehow damaged on the inside ?

Hopefully not and probably not.... I just wondered and would love your feedback here...
I'm a Switch and I enjoy both the Sub role as well as the Sensual Dom role

as well as different kinds of role play and

Severe severe dirty talk ! Dirty talk that is so severe that most people don't do it.

Maybe that is the one I worry about.... haha !

Am I screwed up ? haha !

Zena.

Sexual Fantasies are ok for the most part. Some of course should not be acted out under any circumstances. For instance a fantasy of Fucking while Skydiving, lol.

[Meatman69]

Mine are pretty vanilla.
I love heels and would like to cum on her heels or lingerie/ clothes.I am thinking lot's about rope tying and am currently learning knots.

[pmdelites]

i’ve received one fantasy in my inbox.

keep ‘em cuming folks!!!

[FeelingCocky]

Try bringing up brown or golden showers if you want to see the judgers come out.

[Karismatic_Kiley]

Originally Posted by FeelingCocky

Try bringing up brown or golden showers if you want to see the judgers come out.

I don’t understand why. I am not a fan of receiving but don’t mind giving in the least. Everyone has there own likes and dislikes but kink shamming is far from ok.

[FeelingCocky]

Taking a woman's waste can be very intimate. Nothing like being hand fed by someone who truly enjoys the D/s experience. Just a thought

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by Zena

Do you ever feel judged by people for your particular fetish ???

Either Real world or hobby ??. I do.
...
SCREW WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK !!!! but there does come a time where some of us do some self- evaluation and think - ok - am I normal ?

Is this normal ? Does this mean I'm somehow damaged on the inside ?
...
I'm a Switch and I enjoy both the Sub role as well as the Sensual Dom role
as well as different kinds of role play and
Severe severe dirty talk ! Dirty talk that is so severe that most people don't do it.

Maybe that is the one I worry about.... haha !

Am I screwed up ? haha !

Zena.

screwed up?? maybe by some very prudish and/or uptight and/or extremeley conservative person...

“normal” to one person might be way-off-the-charts abnormal to another. or it might be blander than bland.

i dont share ANY of my provider/client experiences and/or preferences WITH ANYONE in my real world !!!!! so, they cant judge me.
and if anyone here on eccie or ourhome2 judges me for my likes & dislikes and techniques, they wont get the time of delites day from me!

as long as you know what you want out of your sexual encounters,
as long as you are not hurting yourself or your client(s),
as long as you are enjoying and/or experiencing pleasure from your sexual encounters,
GET IT ON AND LET YOUR FREAK FLAG FLY HIGH AND PROUDLY!!!

and if anyone gives you a guilt trip or worse, they can go hit the road, jack and dont come back no more!!

good luck exploring your sexual & fetish desires and delites!!!!!

[Karismatic_Kiley]

Well I don't feel judged for my "fetishes" per say. I've been on the fence and been teetering on the idea of being a Pro Switch. Meaning I will offer sub side (as long as all has been discussed and agreed upon) as well as my regular dominatrix play. In no way would this change how dominant I am or lessen how I feel when in my Domina state, but I'm worried some may think this if I was to offer Switch services. Thoughts?

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by Karismatic_Kiley

Well I don't feel judged for my "fetishes" per say. I've been on the fence and been teetering on the idea of being a Pro Switch. Meaning I will offer sub side (as long as all has been discussed and agreed upon) as well as my regular dominatrix play. In no way would this change how dominant I am or lessen how I feel when in my Domina state, but I'm worried some may think this if I was to offer Switch services. Thoughts?

Seems to me offering both wouldn't make anyone think you're Dom skills have changed but I'm pretty green still so just my opinion

[kinkyprincess6]

I am freaky and like extreme stuff butt i dont let everyone in on it if they open up to me i open up to them - in my last vanilla job i wouldnt even let them know things that i am used to others being completly ok with even though its in my daily life lived ... so yeah your not crazy we protect ourselves and find people with common interests along the way

[pmdelites]

it's been 3 weeks since i made my offer.
i guess everyone's fetish is not so closely held out of view.
i received two fetish pvtMsgs. thanks to the two users who trusted me to keep their identify secret.
here they are, slightly edited for clarity.

fetisher #1's hope/dream
I'm a low visibility guy who has followed you (pmdelites) for years.
My favorite fetishes involve golden showers, receiving and giving, but enjoy most licking her pussy while she pees, either in mish position or her sitting on my face. If it's from a hairy pussy, I'm in heaven. The hairier the better.

fetisher #2's hope/dream
My fetish is being cuckolded while in chastity. My dom entices (or forces?? -pmd) me to suck one cock, licking, being pegged, some sph ("small penis humilitation"), teasing, and more.
Maybe a little ass fucking with me being the bottom.
I have been fantasizing about this for years.

[Guest032520]

Fetish friendly companion here.
If you’re looking for a website to fully explore and communicate your desires, FETLIFE is a pretty cool website.
I’ve learned and practiced a wide variety of fetish request and actually enjoyed myself. Of course, some aren’t for everyone but that doesn’t mean to judge that person.

[ej4514]

I feel the same way, would love to find a provider that is in to it the same. Severe severe dirty talk ! Dirty talk that is so severe that most people don't do it or take it too personal when it’s just DIRTY HOT PASSIONATE MOMENT