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[Naomi4u]

Charles, That is the most ignorant thing I've ever read.

Sounds like you need to do a better job at picking who you spend your time with!

That is all.

Nothing else from me on this subject

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Nothing else from me on this subject

Every one on this board can only hope.

[Sorry, PJ, it just floated over.]

[Naomi4u]

You are entitled to your own opinion. Don't bring others into your mess. You're just ignorant in your responses
and I am not the first one to tell you this. So please.. chill.

I refuse to stoop to your level Carry on.

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Most ladies aren't selling brains and personality. If they did, a lot would starve to death. And besides, how deep can you drink of each other's brains and personality in an hour?

Most ladies know that the guy is paying to get laid. And they enter the session with that in mind. It's not only the gents that have a slam, bam, thank-you-ma'am attitude--the ladies do, too.

Of the ladies I've met, a remarkable number have extremely poor grammar when we meet in person, even if it doesn't show in the ads. They may say they are well educated, but they don't show that either.

So, although this may be L's thrust, he may be somewhat unique among hobbiests in that his end goal is not BCD. I can tell you quite frankly I would not pay a provider's rates just for brains and personality. That's not what she's selling, and clearly not what hobbiests are purchasing.

You'd be surprised...perhaps you should read some of my reviews before judging me...If you do, you will notice that in almost every single one of them, gents mention how "intelligent", "good conversationalist", and "well traveled" I am....And no where on my website do I talk about myself being "well educated" etc...It's just my personality. Clients who haven't seen me before are always telling me " you have beauty and brains, very perceptive" and they appreciate that....A GFE experience comes with more than just sex, there's intimacy, cuddling and a lot of talking involved. I'm not one of those girls who will just kick a bloke out after 15 minutes, in fact I'm not a clock watcher at all ( which if you read my reviews you would also know).... Sure some guys want a woman who doesn't have a mind of her own and just wants to fuck, but I don't attract that type of clientelle....

[Naomi4u]

Charles thinks everyone thinks just like he does. It's sad.. but true. Valerie you're spot on!

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Valerie

You'd be surprised...perhaps you should read some of my reviews before judging me...If you do, you will notice that in almost every single one of them, gents mention how "intelligent", "good conversationalist", and "well traveled" I am....And no where on my website do I talk about myself being "well educated" etc...It's just my personality. Clients who haven't seen me before are always telling me " you have beauty and brains, very perceptive" and they appreciate that....A GFE experience comes with more than just sex, there's intimacy, cuddling and a lot of talking involved. I'm not one of those girls who will just kick a bloke out after 15 minutes, in fact I'm not a clock watcher at all ( which if you read my reviews you would also know).... Sure some guys want a woman who doesn't have a mind of her own and just wants to fuck, but I don't attract that type of clientelle....

OK, I don't write reviews anymore, and I normally don't read them (like L). Since I don't have premium access, I can't read ROS. But I did read a couple of yours. I guess the comments you refer to would be in ROS because in the ones I did read there was no such reference. It wasn't even listed in "Activities." Actually, instead of good conversationalist, intelligent and well traveled, they just list the activities, and "conv" is not among them.

I don't know about you, but a lot of ladies don't like reviews, and request that they not be written. You may very well be all about the qualities that L mentioned, I'm just saying that's not what most guys are after.

[Eccie Addict]

I like a provider with a great sense of humor that I can joke with and be serious with as well. You can tell from their posts on the boards as to whether or not you will get along personality wise or not. Normally the first thing that draws me is what they are like on here, then whether or not I find them physically attractive, and although rates do matter even if they are out of my range I still may see them because I just save. I just hope they don't retire
before I can save it up lol.

Let's not forget if they can write an ad and know what's in it lmao.

Charlse- I know for a fact that many guys just pay to talk. There is a provider that I talk to practically everyday that tells me this all the time. A provider has to be alot of things to alot of different people along with, if they have a family, they have to be what they need as well. Gotta be a tough deal.

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

OK, I don't write reviews anymore, and I normally don't read them (like L). Since I don't have premium access, I can't read ROS. But I did read a couple of yours. I guess the comments you refer to would be in ROS because in the ones I did read there was no such reference. It wasn't even listed in "Activities." Actually, instead of good conversationalist, intelligent and well traveled, they just list the activities, and "conv" is not among them.

I don't know about you, but a lot of ladies don't like reviews, and request that they not be written. You may very well be all about the qualities that L mentioned, I'm just saying that's not what most guys are after.

If you really want to get into this we can....I copied all of the narrative from my reviews from e.com before they deleted them, pasted them on my site...So you can easily read them...as far as my TER reviews go, if you can't see the ROS, I will happily copy and forward them to you...I'm not making this shit up, so we can go back and forth about this all day long...All that I ask is that if you are going to come at me with assumptions and put me in the category of "most girls" at least read up on me thoroughly first, because you're wrong about me.

You may be a man, but I can imagine I've slept with & encountered 100's more than you on an intimate level, I think speaking from experience, I know what a lot are after, and if I didn't, I wouldn't be successful, but I am, so obviously I'm doing something right...Just because you may not want a woman with a brain, doesn't mean there aren't guys who do.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Valerie

...Just because you may not want a woman with a brain, doesn't mean there aren't guys who do.

Tell him Val

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I like a provider with a great sense of humor that I can joke with and be serious with as well. You can tell from their posts on the boards as to whether or not you will get along personality wise or not. Normally the first thing that draws me is what they are like on here, then whether or not I find them physically attractive, and although rates do matter even if they are out of my range I still may see them because I just save. I just hope they don't retire
before I can save it up lol.

Let's not forget if they can write an ad and know what's in it lmao.

Charlse- I know for a fact that many guys just pay to talk. There is a provider that I talk to practically everyday that tells me this all the time. A provider has to be alot of things to alot of different people along with, if they have a family, they have to be what they need as well. Gotta be a tough deal.

Well said sweetie!

[rrabbit6926]

Originally Posted by Valerie

If you really want to get into this we can....I copied all of the narrative from my reviews from e.com before they deleted them, pasted them on my site...So you can easily read them...as far as my TER reviews go, if you can't see the ROS, I will happily copy and forward them to you...I'm not making this shit up, so we can go back and forth about this all day long...All that I ask is that if you are going to come at me with assumptions and put me in the category of "most girls" at least read up on me thoroughly first, because you're wrong about me.

You may be a man, but I can imagine I've slept with & encountered 100's more than you on an intimate level, I think speaking from experience, I know what a lot are after, and if I didn't, I wouldn't be successful, but I am, so obviously I'm doing something right...Just because you may not want a woman with a brain, doesn't mean there aren't guys who do.

Val we'll said and with a sexy Brit accent.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I like a provider with a great sense of humor that I can joke with and be serious with as well. You can tell from their posts on the boards as to whether or not you will get along personality wise or not. Normally the first thing that draws me is what they are like on here, then whether or not I find them physically attractive, and although rates do matter even if they are out of my range I still may see them because I just save. I just hope they don't retire
before I can save it up lol.

Let's not forget if they can write an ad and know what's in it lmao.

Charlse- I know for a fact that many guys just pay to talk. There is a provider that I talk to practically everyday that tells me this all the time. A provider has to be alot of things to alot of different people along with, if they have a family, they have to be what they need as well. Gotta be a tough deal.

The guys PAY for a women to just talk? Why not go to the grocery store and talk to them there. It's free. I understand a guy not wanting any connection drama with a women so paying one makes sense to have good sex and then go your way. To pay a women to talk to them is about the sorriest thing I have ever heard. He can't think the replies he is getting from the provider are actually a real reply? She is going to reply the way she thinks he wants her to and to me that's just sad. There are woman all over the world that guys say I wish she would just shut up. Go find yourself one of these women and make both of you happy

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by burkalini

The guys PAY for a women to just talk? Why not go to the grocery store and talk to them there. It's free. I understand a guy not wanting any connection drama with a women so paying one makes sense to have good sex and then go your way. To pay a women to talk to them is about the sorriest thing I have ever heard. He can't think the replies he is getting from the provider are actually a real reply? She is going to reply the way she thinks he wants her to and to me that's just sad. There are woman all over the world that guys say I wish she would just shut up. Go find yourself one of these women and make both of you happy

Hey man I can't say I understand a guy paying to just sit and talk to a woman either but to say that men don't is wrong cause I know quote a few do. Maybe it's the fact that they have an option for sex if they want that they like, I don't know. If I was gonna pay someone to just talk then I would go to a therapist....lol.

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Hey man I can't say I understand a guy paying to just sit and talk to a woman either but to say that men don't is wrong cause I know quote a few do. Maybe it's the fact that they have an option for sex if they want that they like, I don't know. If I was gonna pay someone to just talk then I would go to a therapist....lol.

But would u get a hot sexy therapist? I am a therapist to alot of mine

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

But would u get a hot sexy therapist? I am a therapist to alot of mine

I hope that I would be lucky and find a hot one lol.