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China Doll · 05-10-2010, 02:32 PM

Oh, and no, a personal referral from a hobbyist is not better. You guys don't get to see what your friends are like BCD. How many of your buddies have you seen with a woman? You don't know who gets off on what.

NormalBob · 05-10-2010, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by China Doll

Oh, and no, a personal referral from a hobbyist is not better. You guys don't get to see what your friends are like BCD. How many of your buddies have you seen with a woman? You don't know who gets off on what.

Boy howdy. Live and learn. LIVE AND LEARN.

I once gave a personal referral for MajorHands to a provider.

Little did I know he was going to go in there and massage her for nearly the full damn hour, almost forgetting to have sex with her before leaving.

China Doll · 05-10-2010, 02:49 PM

Ha ha, NB! In all seriousness, though, I have had both good and bad experiences from referrals. Trust me....you might not know for sure which of your friends can't reach climax without choking the provider. Wouldn't you rather just not risk it?

NormalBob · 05-10-2010, 02:53 PM

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Trust me....you might not know for sure which of your friends can't reach climax without choking the provider. Wouldn't you rather just not risk it?

You just gave me a good reason to have fewer friends.

China Doll · 05-10-2010, 02:57 PM

Alright, I'll explain myself a little better. I hate to be misunderstood.

Referring someone like Majorhands is one thing. He is a well-respected member of the ECCIE community, and NB has probably even heard good things about him from the providers! I don't think we're talking about people like him, though. Referring someone who is completely new to this site and perhaps even the hobby is another thing entirely.

I'm not going to share my stories of woe, but I will say that a voucher for a newbie to the hobby would carry no meaning. This is only my opinion, of course. All I'm trying to say is that it's probably a bad idea to have a monetary incentive to refer people to the hobby or to this site. You would be taking on a responsibility you might not intend to be taking on.

NormalBob · 05-10-2010, 03:42 PM

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Alright, I'll explain myself a little better. I hate to be misunderstood.

China, you have my apology. I understood exactly what you were saying and was merely playing the role of the class clown.

You've explained your position exceptionally clearly.

After my rancid rants in this thread, I attempted to mitigate them with some humor only to find myself stepping on your posts.

I have no doubt in what you are saying and I for one appreciate the education.

On another level, my desire to kiss when I'm approaching climax doesn't sound nearly as warped as I had feared.

Thank you for contributing. I now know something I had not.

China Doll · 05-10-2010, 03:53 PM

Worry not, my dear! I'm glad that I wasn't misunderstood after all. It seems that I was actually misunderstanding you! For that, you have my apologies.

slackjawyokel · 05-10-2010, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by GP

Believe me, they know their OWN business better than we do.

I am learning that lesson right now. It is humbling...

offshoredrilling · 05-11-2010, 02:12 AM

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China Doll, that makes perfect sense. But isn't that the risk you take everytime you see someone new? I am not suggesting anyone relax their screening process. In fact, just the opposite. I saw a well-reviewed eccie/BP provider this week, and there was no screening whatsoever. Frankly, I was scared for her. That is what started this whole thread. And a personal referral from a client you trust has got to be better than a CL/BP or random eccie or e.com connection, right?

Some on BP will have some one near by when it is some one new to them. Most want referral. But there are other ways you may not know. And I do not want to give away. And with some one near by the cell may be on speaker, and the other mute. The other can hear with the muted phone. You hear no back ground noise. One cry for help and you are now in need to leave.

And did you use a hobby phone or a "land line or contract phone". If land or contract cell phone start with whitepage on the web. And search with yahoo, ask and google. You will find many a site that will give you a bit of info to get you to buy the information you want. But if you use many of them and they each give you something to get you to pay. But they all do not give the same info to hook you. You will get all you need. Even if you get just the carrier from one site it is good to know. I have heard of sorry will not see you if the phone is a hobby phone, please give me information. A phone from verizon (and others) can be easy to find info if needed. A cash phone from walmart is not so easy. So just that phone number can tell one alot,
And if hobby phone, just ask for more.

Sometimes when you think you have not been screened. you have been

And if not you will be if you try to pull something wrong.

Many want you to give the info for it is more work other wise. But if a phone is not a hobby phone. Just that number will tell alot with a bit of work or for 5 bucks.

With just a name, or phone number and other small bits of info, you can find alot of info.
On a bet once that it could not be done. I won after 3 hours on the web I got maiden, 1st and 2nd married name current being used. Last 4 places lived, And 2nd X owed the IRS a whole lot of cash. All for free. But for 5 to 50 bucks you can buy it in a second.

EasyWriter1967 · 05-11-2010, 10:26 AM

China Doll, it seems we share something in common.... Wanting to help and protect the people around us. : ) Thank you for being thoughtful.

China Doll · 05-11-2010, 11:27 AM

You're welcome, Easywriter! I could thank you for the same thing, it seems. This business is a funny little beast. There are so many variables to consider. Of course, I will almost never claim to be stating facts about issues similar to this. I just have strong opinions that are probably facts because I am so astonishingly sagacious and perspicacious.

jr · 05-11-2010, 12:07 PM

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I just have strong opinions that are probably facts because I am so astonishingly sagacious and perspicacious.

Alright I'll admit it, I had to pull out the old Websters dictionary for these last two adjectives....now feeling smarter for it, I concur, China Doll is both sagacious and perspicacious.

EasyWriter1967 · 05-11-2010, 12:29 PM

I think I am definitely both of those things...

Sagacious - My belly sags quite significantly
Perspicacious - I sweat a lot for a fat man

But I find it hard to see how they apply to China Doll. : )

Perryay · 05-11-2010, 01:59 PM

EW - the best laugh I've had all day!

Dr J · 05-11-2010, 09:40 PM

Oh China.... Love it when you talk dirty! LOL