She who Hesitates is Lost

[JessicaKnightly]

Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

I feel you are correct when you state, "prompt, efficient communication is valued." However, as the lady above stated, ladies who take care of their business, do provide as prompt communication as is available, without allowing quality of their services provided to be interrupted by another.

I read once about gents who were subjected to ladies texting while engaged in "the act". Talk about multi-tasking! LOL. Your dime for my time is how I feel. Many here tolerate many different things, but there's quality providing in the "now", as opposed to providing for a lot of gents at once. A quality service is not only worth paying for, but maybe also waiting for, if need be. It's all subjective.
Is she worth it, isn't she worth it, what are you willing, or even not willing to do to have a shot at experiencing, whatever it is that you desire with the lady you feel can fulfill those desires?

Exactly!

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

I feel you are correct when you state, "prompt, efficient communication is valued." However, as the lady above stated, ladies who take care of their business, do provide as prompt communication as is available, without allowing quality of their services provided to be interrupted by another.

I read once about gents who were subjected to ladies texting while engaged in "the act". Talk about multi-tasking! LOL. Your dime for my time is how I feel. Many here tolerate many different things, but there's quality providing in the "now", as opposed to providing for a lot of gents at once. A quality service is not only worth paying for, but maybe also waiting for, if need be. It's all subjective.
Is she worth it, isn't she worth it, what are you willing, or even not willing to do to have a shot at experiencing, whatever it is that you desire with the lady you feel can fulfill those desires?

Don't fall down but on this one I agree.

[eyze15]

I recently ran into this problem just two days ago. I texted her first and asked her if she would be available on a certain day (with plenty of notice) and It was a written with some kind of sense. (No one liners) she responded 6 hrs later. Her response was"yes" and "where are you located". That was it. Two separate texts. I responded immediately and I have not heard from her. I even emailed her prior to her responding to the text because I thought maybe she might have a different number. She did email back the following day with a 6 word response. I emailed immediately and she hasn't responded yet. It kinda sucks because she's one of the best providers in my area and hottest! But her communication skills sucks. Would love to hook up with her cause she's so damn Hot but I don't like when people can't respond back in a timely manner it turns me off!

[JessicaKnightly]

I come across the following dilemma frequently;
Do I respond quickly when I don't have time to really sit down and write a well thought out response or do I wait till I have the time to really write something worthy of his initial contact?

I'll receive a full page introduction that he obviously took the time to write while I'm driving in my car to jump on a plane and then who knows what ( I stay very busy) or I'll get it before a two hour board meeting for one of the non-profits I sit on (that never only last two hours but go on and on and on). And so he knows I received it and that I'm still around, using the same email, available and interested, I'll send out a quick, short reply.

And these short replies are often emails sent from my phone while I'm at a red light in my car, so...

My point is would you guys like it to be a quality, well thought out reply a day later, or within a couple hours a short, quick, "yes, I'd love to?"

[Guest062217]

Originally Posted by Travel4ever74

Ok I want to provide a suggestion to all the providers... If you consider tis hobby a business you should treat it that way. I can't speak for all of us but I will say that if I contact a provider by the method she wishes or if no suggestion than thru he I expect a response in a reasonable amount of time but no more than 24 hours.. If not planning a future appt you better be responding in minutes not hours because we are interested now not hays from noy. Personally, I may contact a few providers for an appointment and the one I decide to see is usually the one who responds in a timely manner and is personable(in other words not one liners)
Don't be surprised when you lose an appointment when you do not respond for hours.
Just a suggestion. Be safe and have fun

OP - You absolutely DO NOT speak for us men. I would suggest you look to the high-volume, BNG - Back Page hookers.

However, if you are foolishly thinking a lady with a RW life who is on the higher end of the scale for providers is going to just jump when you say "better be responding in minutes" you are sorely mistaken.

I would wish you luck but you wouldn't know what to do with it...

[atlcomedy]

Originally Posted by eyze15

I recently ran into this problem just two days ago. I texted her first and asked her if she would be available on a certain day (with plenty of notice) and It was a written with some kind of sense. (No one liners) she responded 6 hrs later. Her response was"yes" and "where are you located". That was it. Two separate texts. I responded immediately and I have not heard from her. I even emailed her prior to her responding to the text because I thought maybe she might have a different number. She did email back the following day with a 6 word response. I emailed immediately and she hasn't responded yet. It kinda sucks because she's one of the best providers in my area and hottest! But her communication skills sucks. Would love to hook up with her cause she's so damn Hot but I don't like when people can't respond back in a timely manner it turns me off!

Originally Posted by JessicaKnightly

I come across the following dilemma frequently;
Do I respond quickly when I don't have time to really sit down and write a well thought out response or do I wait till I have the time to really write something worthy of his initial contact?

I'll receive a full page introduction that he obviously took the time to write while I'm driving in my car to jump on a plane and then who knows what ( I stay very busy) or I'll get it before a two hour board meeting for one of the non-profits I sit on (that never only last two hours but go on and on and on). And so he knows I received it and that I'm still around, using the same email, available and interested, I'll send out a quick, short reply.

And these short replies are often emails sent from my phone while I'm at a red light in my car, so...

My point is would you guys like it to be a quality, well thought out reply a day later, or within a couple hours a short, quick, "yes, I'd love to?"

Actually I think his biggest issue was that after the initial brief email reply she went AWOL. Not to put words in his mouth, but I'm assuming he would have been fine with the brief initial reply if she'd subsequently followed up.

To answer your question, I want prompt acknowledgement vs. a lengthy, thought out reply on an initial email. I want to know my communication was received and on her radar screen not sitting in a junk email folder somewhere.

I am completely fine with, "Dear ATL, thank you for your kind note. You caught me (traveling/heading out/some other excuse). I wanted you to know I received your email and will respond more appropriately to the to the questions you asked (soon/ in the very near future/next week when I'm back in town/by Friday/some time frame).

Then actually follow-up. Again this is where eyze's girl dropped the ball.

[joesmo888]

I suggest your first email you briefly introduce yourself and ask her schedule for the upcoming week or month if she doesn't have a calendar up

then your next email be a day/time/length outcall/incall... as simple as that.

communication is important yes, but a lot of guys fail at that themselves yet think providers are bad at it. most emails providers get are BS and not serious. so you need to be clear and communicate well if you are serious

[JustCause]

Originally Posted by atlcomedy

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I am completely fine with, "Dear ATL, thank you for your kind note. You caught me (traveling/heading out/some other excuse). I wanted you to know I received your email and will respond more appropriately to the to the questions you asked (soon/ in the very near future/next week when I'm back in town/by Friday/some time frame).

Then actually follow-up. Again this is where eyze's girl dropped the ball.

Exactly. Or even more succinct for me. 'hey jc, thanks. Got your note and will be in touch soon. Looking forward to it. '. I assume from that she is currently busy. I expect no less.

[eyze15]

I totally agree with the last two posts. In my case,she never returned my emails or texts. I'm willing to pay...can't understand it? I was as appropriate as I can be.

[eyze15]

I totally agree with the last two posts. In my case,she never returned my emails or texts. I'm willing to pay...can't understand it? I was as appropriate as I can be.

[JustCause]

Originally Posted by eyze15

I totally agree with the last two posts. In my case,she never returned my emails or texts. I'm willing to pay...can't understand it? I was as appropriate as I can be.

It happens to us all. Now you just move on. I have a firm rule from which I am not, in any circumstance, willing to wander. I don't meet with providers who cannot adequately, to my satisfaction, take care of business before the meeting. As you suggest, it is their loss. Yes. But this is no place to let desperation and general randiness rule. Draw your lines and stick to them.

I assure you, the quality ladies take care of business before, during and after your session. Most of the ones who read theses posts are among them.

All the best.

[Maliyah_Green]

makes sense.

[RedLeg505]

Originally Posted by JessicaKnightly

My point is would you guys like it to be a quality, well thought out reply a day later, or within a couple hours a short, quick, "yes, I'd love to?"

Can't speak for the other guys, but for me... I usually book well in advance. For example, already have my appointment made for 19 Feb.. and working on another appointment in the 9-13 Feb date range. So, take an extra day and give me a good, thoughtful, complete response. I'm not sitting there watching the second hand tick away hoping I get an answer soon.

Others do things differently and will have a different priority.

[AllisonofHouston]

Originally Posted by Travel4ever74

Ok I want to provide a suggestion to all the providers... If you consider tis hobby a business you should treat it that way. I can't speak for all of us but I will say that if I contact a provider by the method she wishes or if no suggestion than thru he I expect a response in a reasonable amount of time but no more than 24 hours.. If not planning a future appt you better be responding in minutes not hours because we are interested now not hays from noy. Personally, I may contact a few providers for an appointment and the one I decide to see is usually the one who responds in a timely manner and is personable(in other words not one liners)
Don't be surprised when you lose an appointment when you do not respond for hours.
Just a suggestion. Be safe and have fun

Wow , ok then Well hun I hate to say it but with this attitude good luck finding a quality provider willing to see you...contrary to what some may think we do have lives outside of this and have RW stuff going on and there are some of us who do not sit in front of our pc's all day and when we are entertaining someone else we cant stop midstroke to jump up and answer your email text or pm .

This is the main reason I dont do last minute right now appointments, and just a heads up please unless you have something already set up do not blow our phones up send one text inquiring about an appointment or call and if we dont respond leave a voicemail, but texting every 2 minutes comes off as pushy ..I mean how would you feel if you were balls deep and the lady jumps up to answer her phone ?

[atlcomedy]

Originally Posted by AllisonofHouston

Wow , ok then Well hun I hate to say it but with this attitude good luck finding a quality provider willing to see you...contrary to what some may think we do have lives outside of this and have RW stuff going on and there are some of us who do not sit in front of our pc's all day and when we are entertaining someone else we cant stop midstroke to jump up and answer your email text or pm .

This is the main reason I dont do last minute right now appointments, and just a heads up please unless you have something already set up do not blow our phones up send one text inquiring about an appointment or call and if we dont respond leave a voicemail, but texting every 2 minutes comes off as pushy ..I mean how would you feel if you were balls deep and the lady jumps up to answer her phone ?

I don't think you get it. Nobody is suggesting you stop immediately what you are doing, business or otherwise, and respond. 24 hours for a brief reply is not unreasonable.