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[SomeRandomGuy88]

I’d be up for a book club type of setting once in a while. No monger friends because I’ve generally never saw the need to. I would never attend a party that had hoes invited to it - that’s where drama and worse can really pop off. A few guys having a couple drinks and shooting the shit sounds fun here and there.

[rexdutchman]

My fear is running into family or SO friends Hum thats a problem

[ahab11]

Before COVID I bought a house for AirBNB then when COVI hit I let it sit empty and used it to see providers.

It had nothing but an air mattress and a few discarded furniture odds and ends.

I hooked up with a couple of providers one being LadyAnastacia.

She recommended I use the house a couple of times a month to invite screened hobbyist and a few girls and have a house party.

She seemed to be familiar with the concept as she said I had three empty rooms and bringing in three girls and maybe six guys would for an evening would be killer.

Long story short we were all set to do this and LadyAnastacia went silent.

She got religion yes literally born again and all that stuff.....good for her.

Was sorta looking forward to trying to make this work.

No hobby friends but was thinking something like this setup would be killer.

[Eliot_Spitzer]

Originally Posted by SomeRandomGuy88

I’d be up for a book club type of setting once in a while. No monger friends because I’ve generally never saw the need to. I would never attend a party that had hoes invited to it - that’s where drama and worse can really pop off. A few guys having a couple drinks and shooting the shit sounds fun here and there.

Would love to meet WEC!

[DownForWhatever]

Originally Posted by ahab11

She recommended I use the house a couple of times a month to invite screened hobbyist and a few girls and have a house party.

She seemed to be familiar with the concept as she said I had three empty rooms and bringing in three girls and maybe six guys would for an evening would be killer.

SA was always trying to fenagle meet-ups and shit that never really happened.

3 girls and 6 guys...what could go wrong, right?

Dude, you dodged the shit-show bullet!

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by DownForWhatever

SA was always trying to fenagle meet-ups and shit that never really happened.

3 girls and 6 guys...what could go wrong, right?

Dude, you dodged the shit-show bullet!

What happened with those meet ups?

[hunttolive]

I wonder how many of us know each other in the RW and not know it?

[Billogoods]

I don't even talk to myself about it.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by BLM69

I really don't have any friends that hobby, I don't have anyone (that I can trust in the RW) to share my adventures with, my up and downs from the hobby
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are you looking for one or a few guys to get together, have drinks, and shoot the breeze about this crazy sub-culture we play in? i've done that before - at PT's Gold Room, at Norma's Cafe, at Whataburger.

if so, depending on what part of dfw you would want to meet and days/times, i'd be interested.

[rexdutchman]

^^ coffee during the day so its work related LOL

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by rexdutchman

^^ coffee during the day so its work related LOL

I'm more down for the night, nice cozy corner of a restaurant

[rexdutchman]

Yeah , lunch and stories ,,,,,,,,,,,,

[texassapper]

I don't know... not sure I want to hang out with the hardened criminal element.

My wife knows that I hobby. We don't have an open relationship per se, just honest. I don't share details about visits, but definitely the who, when, and general activities. I've even hooked her up with a provider that does a good massage. They stay connected through instagram.

I'd say most of us are private about our activities not because we're ashamed, just it's not worth the drama for others to know. Hobbying isn't my identity anymore than my job is, so there's no reason to tell everyone what I do in my spare time.

[Vanilla Gorilla]

Originally Posted by BLM69

I really don't have any friends that hobby, I don't have anyone (that I can trust in the RW) to share my adventures with, my up and downs from the hobby

I know I'm not the only one here with these issues, normal people are not ready to hear about what we do 😂

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

I am with BLM on this. No offense to anyone, but there is no way that I would have a real friend that knows I hobby and the guys that I have met up with through socials or whatever that do, they are acquaintances at best, and that is due to hobby. I tried the route of being friends with other hobbyists and got stabbed in the back every single time.

[Tx Noob]

Hobbying for me is strictly solitary...