Dating a Provider

[bf0082]

Think Valkyra forgot why she is a SW.

It was simplified to a new phone or a purse, which could be true, but it’s not the object, it’s the belief that making that quick money provides independence

At some point in a relationship with a provider or an ex provider they will feel the pressure and demands of a relationship and act out, to assert their independence and self reliance by relapsing back into SW.

[todwheelbarrow]

got that right!!!

[valkyra]

Seriously, these guys are acting like they dont lie LOL. It is a basic truth of the human condition; EVERYBODY lies.

Asserting independence.. I get where you're coming from...

That being said; I don't think the idea of having a meaningful relationship with a provider is completely out of the window, and I stick by what I said. We are all a little broken inside, every single fucking person on this planet and we all have a past that we've grown from. The point is to find the people who actually grow, and who don't remain stagnant. A heroin addict can get clean; An alcoholic can learn to put down a beer. Not every one does, but it happens. I think, somewhere along the line, a hooker could fall in love, and choose to be with her partner not because she feels like she HAS to, but because she WANTS to. That is the trick...

[Mr Dingleberry]

Originally Posted by bf0082

Think Valkyra forgot why she is a SW.

It was simplified to a new phone or a purse, which could be true, but it’s not the object, it’s the belief that making that quick money provides independence

At some point in a relationship with a provider or an ex provider they will feel the pressure and demands of a relationship and act out, to assert their independence and self reliance by relapsing back into SW.

Who knew none of them could possibly make money other ways.

And you thinking that money cant provide independence.

You just must see train wrecks.

[winn dixie]

Originally Posted by Mr Dingleberry

Who knew none of them could possibly make money other ways.

And you thinking that money cant provide independence.

You just must see train wrecks.

Dating a provider? Train wreck

[todwheelbarrow]

a whore is a whore and that's it . treat them for what they are . a ffn whore . and you think they could be loyal . not in this life . a whore likes to be treated like shit . so treat them for what they are . whores.!!

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by todwheelbarrow

a whore is a whore and that's it . treat them for what they are . a ffn whore . and you think they could be loyal . not in this life . a whore likes to be treated like shit . so treat them for what they are . whores.!!

god bless ...you sir

[BakeWakeNShake]

Originally Posted by todwheelbarrow

a whore is a whore and that's it . treat them for what they are . a ffn whore . and you think they could be loyal . not in this life . a whore likes to be treated like shit . so treat them for what they are . whores.!!

what the fuck.... sad excuse of a man, to think they like to be treated like shit. i hope that energy comes right back at ya!
tod is a douche, he wants to be treated as such! hopefully its the enema style, he seems to know so much about being treated like shit.

My guess is that some stupid subpar whore wouldn't even fuck him for money and now his poor ego is so wounded.
shit heads Iike you ruin it for the rest of your us.

[Buffalo1966]

Winterfun was happily married when she was providing

[Guest072323]

Originally Posted by BakeWakeNShake

shit heads Iike you ruin it for the rest of you

fify hun.....

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by BakeWakeNShake

tod is a douche, he wants to be treated as such! hopefully its the enema style, he seems to know so much about being treated like shit.

how ...dare you?

...yer talkin bouts a ...fellow ...jimmie who need ours love ans support ans is ones a gods beautiful ...creations

...how ...dare ...you ...sir?

[Tj1984]

Lots of guys on here seem pretty desperate to let everyone know how superior they are to the women they pay for sex (or try to pay for sex). I wonder why that is.

[todwheelbarrow]

thats the point. most these guys can't get fucked without paying for it. for one reason or another. but we are talking about dating a whore . once a whore always a whore. that can't be changed. once the bitch takes a path in life to be a whore 5hats all she ever will be .!!!!!!

[Carlos Danger]

Originally Posted by JaysonTodd

How many of you would date an ex provider?

An endless overnight with an obese female sounds wonderful whew

[Northerndancer]

Studies have shown that 69-80% of sex workers have either narcissistic or borderline personality disorders. Look it up. It is genetically driven and triggered by some form of childhood trauma (rape, incest, abandonment). Hence they learn skills of manipulation and lying to survive the situation and overcome their trauma. From their perspective this is the minds natural response to overcome their issues. They lie to themselves and reconstruct reality to mask the shame of their childhood. They don’t think they are sick or damaged! Sex work is perfect because it’s a steady supply of adulation to overcome their feelings of inadequacy and reinforced financial return makes them feel successful. They aren’t forced to address their flaws like would occur in a healthy relationship. In short their disorders are reinforced and strengthened. If they get into therapy the success rate is less than 5% (Mayo Clinic) and requires 5-10 years of commitment. Most therapists won’t touch them.

In short, no way can you have a real long term relationship with these girls. The only way I would do it is with someone who was only in the hobby for a short period of time (like a month). The deck is just too stacked against you no matter what you do.