Blacklisted?????

[12blue4u]

Wow...did know about all the rules on here. Think I need a cheat sheet. Definitely could not pass the pop quiz.

[Ms.Lady Y]

Originally Posted by hgritstoo

I've been lurking and watching as well. I don't contribute very much, but I know what it is like to be blacklisted for trivial reasons. It hurts.......but that which doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I got a new hobby phone. I contacted P411 and changed my account info.....they were quite helpful. I'm still getting laid whenever I want. And for the record, I've never done anything, nor would I ever do anything to harm a provider.

There ARE textbooks on escorting. Some of them I've read. Here's one of them:



They are interesting in that they help you understand the reasons a lot of professional providers do the things they do. There are a lot of very professional ladies here who provide excellent service for an honest day's wage. Those of you who have seen our true professionals like Lady Y, or Kay2Day, or many others here, are nodding your heads in understanding. And there are some ladies who should sit down and read the book.

But everyone needs to understand: Sometimes shit happens, and life intrudes. And misunderstandings can and will happen. I had been avoiding a provider here for years because of an early NCNS misunderstanding. I finally had a chance to meet her and she was wonderful. Yes.....I'm an idiot.

So, everyone needs to forgive and forget when honest mistakes are made. Do some homework. Learn what it is like to walk a mile in someone else's moccasins.

Checking out again. Be excellent to one another.

Hi honey,
Have missed you. Hope all is well in your world.
Hugs Y

[Greenie76]

I've had nothing but positive experiences since joining ECCIE. The ladies here are fantastic.

[Luxie]

Originally Posted by Greenie76

I've had nothing but positive experiences since joining ECCIE. The ladies here are fantastic.

Awww. ^_^

[12blue4u]

Joe South https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OoznjbKVnmw

[Riddler]

I think a great deal of the NCNS problem is a reflection of our present society in general. Fewer people take responsibility for their actions than previously. Hell, I've left my number with a plumber 3 times in the last week and still haven't received a call back. This is a trend that I cannot change other than keeping my word on my commitments and appointments and not dealing with individuals who do this sort of thing. I suspect it is more prevalant in our P4P world.

I am sitting here with another plumbing problem after a NCNS from Kendra Kayy today. (http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=15353 https://www.preferred411.com/P165544 http://www.misskk.net/ I'd scheduled with her on the 22nd via P411 and had exchanged a couple e-mails when she changed the time to suit her schedule. On the 24th, she re-confirmed the appointment with the usual see you and looking forward boiler plate. She did not respond to an e-mail on the 25th in which I gave her my hotel room number and offered chocolate (one of her likes on 411). I called her 3 hours prior to our appointment and received no call back and not too surprisingly, she "No Called No Showed" for the appointment. Guess I'll have to clear my plumbing blockage by hand. Not the 1st time this has happened to me and probably won't be the last but none of these flakes has ever received a second opportunity.


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[newyorkboy]

Good for you, Riddler. Kendra has been around for the better part of a decade and is infamous for this; thus I won't see her (last time was pre-boob job). She's done this to clients and even put providers she was working with in bad situations. Once or twice occasionally is a real world issue; consistency is well.... We have numerous dependable ladies who will fix your plumbing; Kay2Day, Alexis Madison, SaraXXX, Lady Y and some newer ones I'm not acquainted with yet but have good reviews. Go for it, My Brother!

[Riddler]

...but I'm outta here. The NCNS problem seems to be everywhere, even in my favorite US hobby mecca, Dallas/Ft Worth. Looks like I'll be in S. America for about 6 months after the 1st of the year; from past experience, fishing is better, both price and availability wise.

As a side note, in my unsuccessful search for a plan B substitute for NCNS Kendra Kayy, I contacted Chelsea Jordan (https://www.preferred411.com/P155222 ) who is scheduled to visit Omaha. She was the only provider who responded to my last minute request, although I mis-read her schedule and she is in Houston right now. Good communication may indicate a good session with a off-the-charts beautiful provider.
She has tons of favorable reviews on ECCIE.

Originally Posted by newyorkboy

Good for you, Riddler. Kendra has been around for the better part of a decade and is infamous for this; thus I won't see her (last time was pre-boob job). She's done this to clients and even put providers she was working with in bad situations. Once or twice occasionally is a real world issue; consistency is well.... We have numerous dependable ladies who will fix your plumbing; Kay2Day, Alexis Madison, SaraXXX, Lady Y and some newer ones I'm not acquainted with yet but have good reviews. Go for it, My Brother!

[Riddler]

Originally Posted by Riddler

As a side note, in my unsuccessful search for a plan B substitute for NCNS Kendra Kayy, I contacted Chelsea Jordan (https://www.preferred411.com/P155222 ) who is scheduled to visit Omaha. She was the only provider who responded to my last minute request, although I mis-read her schedule and she is in Houston right now. Good communication may indicate a good session with a off-the-charts beautiful provider.
She has tons of favorable reviews on ECCIE.

She jumped from Houston to Denver where we met for an outcall. Her communications were still good including a call 1/2 hour before our scheduled time, delaying our meeting by one hour. Session was OK in that my plumbing was drained but overall she was less than enthusiastic despite almost constant "Oh baby, give me your big cock" type chatter. Seems to rely on her admittedly gorgeous superstructure (36 DD?) more than her BCD skills. Was stingy with her BBBJ offerings. Looks like I missed with my "Good communication may indicate a good session" assessment. I will not repeat.

[shayla84]

Maybe it's not you boys and maybe the ladies your trying to communicate with are the issue. Who ever they are just playing devil's advocate Lol. I don't really busy not see someone or ncns cause I don't like them out feel comfy. It would help girls feel much better to feel comfy being real with you guys of a select few didn't threaten to ruin her name of she doesn't see you, or get pissed and slander her, or week there's ALOT that could happen... Also maybe write picking girls who don't care about your time and think there the shit and are disrespectful... Don't know these reasons just putting some or there, maybe stop doing both and all will be good.

Lol anyways have a great day boys, getting ready to come that way

[shayla84]

My phone is an asshole and has auto text, but you get the gist of what I'm saying lol

[kendra kayy]

Originally Posted by newyorkboy

Good for you, Riddler. Kendra has been around for the better part of a decade and is infamous for this; thus I won't see her (last time was pre-boob job). She's done this to clients and even put providers she was working with in bad situations. Once or twice occasionally is a real world issue; consistency is well.... We have numerous dependable ladies who will fix your plumbing; Kay2Day, Alexis Madison, SaraXXX, Lady Y and some newer ones I'm not acquainted with yet but have good reviews. Go for it, My Brother!

So clearly you don't like me. And that's fine. But you should get your facts straight first.
If I ncns you 6 years ago I apologize. Sincerely I do.
But never 1 time ncns a co worker as you call it or put them in a bad way, not 1 damn time.

Short of telling you my life story, I've not ncns or cancelled an apt to just be a bitch or a flake. Many times my issue was being in an abusive relationship. But I wasn't going to share that with anyone. Kinda hard to make it to an appt or cancel for that matter when you are all beaten up. I've had a broken elbow, black eyes, choke marks, ruptured ear drums, stitches in my face, just to name a few. Let me add to that I have a daughter who was born with numerous congenital defects like heart disease, hydracephalis, scoliosis, hearing loss along with cognitive delays.
Oh did I mention I do this without any family support around?? Yea, my family who's still alive is 5 hours away. And it's basically only my mom.
I'm a single mom of 3 with a grand baby now and trying to further my education even more.
This hobby is how I pay bills and support my children.
Am I perfect? Fuck no. I make mistakes all the time. But if I'm in a bad way or my kids call-- that's I it!!! I have no crutches. I have no support or assistance. It's all me. And I tend to take on more than I can handle because I think I'm super woman and obviously I'm not. But I'm who everyone turns to in my family. So , yes, I have missed some appts. And when I'm in the wrong I do my best to make up for it!!!
Do you know I get ncns too?? Do you know I set time aside and prepare myself and the separate private location I pay for and get cancelled on or ncns on too??

Do you ever stop to think I'm a fucking human being????
But please, continue bashing me!

[charmingmark]

Well said.
We do have personal lives and I for one would like to see you again just hard to get together with you sometimes.
I have always know you as a classy lady

[Boboss8]

I've been away for awhile and it looks like I've missed a lot of fun. People need to simmer down and treat each other with respect.

"I post this shit because I like to look at these little dudes"

:wavet owel2:

[MsElena]

I'm not being a bitch when saying this, but some of you guys can be selfish as hell. I understand that you take time out of your schedule, you take a lunch or leave work early, have to make up a story to see us ladies.

But, take into consideration that is ladies get NCNS'd ALL THE FREAKIN TIME, but we don't call you out on it here on the board. At least you're not out money when you get stood up. Us ladies are out money in more ways than one. Chew on that one please.

It seems that there are some bitter beer faces posting. Just like some of y'all choose who you wish to see based upon posting, so do we. Not all money is good money.