Showers... whats your take?

[Ezmerelda]

receiving a Golden in the mouth is fabulous. Of course, I had him on a very specific diet for a month and it was a tasty treasure. Is a very personal thing, and would not do with just anybody. The same Male pissed on me as well. I fell madly in love. Omg. He owned me. totally. Calling me his bitch and pissing on me.

As well, I have a few boys I piss on. Never in their mouth. But damn if I do not have a major valve problem. It takes me so long to let go. lol..

Thinking if anyone were to ever poo on me, I would be highly offended though.

[MR KINKY]

Keep the roman showers. But bring on the golden tears and brown smiles...

[maxim_232]

Ezmerelda it is quite refreshing to hear someone actually admit that they enjoy the "darker side" of things. I can't tell you how many ads I've read that seem to indicate someone willing to play hard, only to be met with a list of "don'ts" at the door. I understand limits, don't get me wrong, but if a girl is going to advertise using the term "Daddy" in her ad, then she shouldn't act offended if I want her to use it in a session. What really gets me is the girls who like to use greek as an upcharge, only to find out it's basically something they'll "tolerate" for some amount.

[LAVixian]

Never tried any type of "shower" , always been too chicken shit I guess.

[am-a-pleaser]

Originally Posted by LAVixian

Never tried any type of "shower" , always been too chicken shit I guess.

Hmmmm, never done these showers. Maybe we can try golden showers together. We have to promise never to tell what we did if we don't like it.

[amazingasia]

Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

Well first to each his/her own- I think Golden are more popular then most people think, but I think most people don't admit to them- been on both ends of Golden nhave no issues with them as long as it's the last act that you do. as far as Brown-lol again to each his own it certaintly is a bit more freakier than golden. Now Roman is just something that to me takes a special person to do it- I mean someones vomit just would not sit well with me. Now for people who are in to extreme domination hey whatever floats their boat. However, whether it's a provider who does the service or hobbyist who enjoys those services I don't knock anyones fetish/fantasy if showers whether Goldne/Brown/ or Roman is what the person enjoys then Asia if you are willing to provide and it doesn't bother you and they are willing to pay go for it.
Funny thing, one of my technicians is Pakistani and he said in his country men don't DATY and they find it repulsive how americans and other cultures perform DATY on a female- just goes to show what one man may find repulsive the next man may see as normal. Also, if I am not mistaken I think either Taiwan or Thailand cow feces is eaten on a regular basis- yes I am not joking you can google it.
Asia I am pretty sure you have seen 2 girls and a cup- my only reaction to that video and in Brazil Scat movies are just as popular as porno flicks- the thing that amazed me is that the girls consume it as if it were ice cream- I mean vomit especially I just think your taste buds would reject the taste and you would spit it out- of course there's different levels of showers- you have some who just want to be pissed, dumped, or vomitted on and then you have some who consume. I won't knock anyone & don't think anyone should knock anyone for their fetish.

If one were to sit down and really compare the sexual practices & taboos of different cultures, one would be truly amazed. To some cultures, Americans & our sexual fantasies are truly... well, off; while others such as Brazil & scat movies are a little more "off" to us.
I guess its like the saying goes... Different strokes for different folks

Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

Someone made a good point- if the person is an individual that enjoys the consumption aspect of the showers he/she would be very risky to consume feces- since that has the most potential to carry parasites- someone also mention ruby showers which I will go on record and say that is extremely risky and dangerous on so many levels.

Consumption of feces is extremely high risk... yes that is a known fact. Yet it does not stop some peoples' kinkier desire to consume. Take for instance a recent client of mine. This was our first time meeting & he invited me over to his home one evening for a "forced consumption" session. Taboo for some, stranger for others.... but his desire was definitely one of a kind. He wanted me to completely immobilize him with duct tape & rope. Completely bind him from his toes all the way up to his shoulders with one arm strapped across his body and the other arm free- except the hand of the free arm would be duct tape in the fist position. He then wanted his ball sack and penis to be covered with the clothes pins (as many that would fit). Then I was to carefully position him on the plastic lined mattress and proceed to give him a brown shower then golden shower in the mouth (or do it in a container and shove it in his mouth).... pack up my belongings and leave. Upon my exiting of the premises, he was to eat his way through the brown goodness to eat through the tape on his fist, to untie himself and get rid of the evidence before his SO came home.

Lets just say it was a very interesting night...
With all that being said, he knew the risk of consumption just as I did. Yet that did not stop him nor I from fullfilling his fantasy.

Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

Asia I refuse to believe that Golden Showers are taboo- I have dated too many ladies who have told me that they have given their ex boyfriends a shower or two. I honestly think that most men will not openly admit to Golden showers because they believe it perhaps degrades them- i had an ex girlfriend who loved giveng them and she received a couple from me in the latter days, but she was more so into giving them- I admit when she first told me of it- I thought she was joking, but later found out she wasn't- likke I said I see no b ig deal about Golden Showers if it's the last act you do- after sex you should shower anyway- so if you get a Golden Shower and you shower it off you- what's the big deal. I think every provider she have that fetish as an option- why not get paid for doing something you MUST do naturally daily? LOL!

Golden showers are not taboo. Its all about preference imo. And I enjoy giving them just as much as the kinky boys like getting them.

Its strange though, I deal with people from this side of the world as well as plenty of civilian friends & associates... and I believe I may have heard of more openly shared golden shower occurences with my civilian friends than with other providers. As mentioned before, providers seem to be a little more shy/apprehensive with this... at least the ones not actively involved in the kinkier side of things

[amazingasia]

Originally Posted by Ezmerelda

receiving a Golden in the mouth is fabulous. Of course, I had him on a very specific diet for a month and it was a tasty treasure. Is a very personal thing, and would not do with just anybody. The same Male pissed on me as well. I fell madly in love. Omg. He owned me. totally. Calling me his bitch and pissing on me.

As well, I have a few boys I piss on. Never in their mouth. But damn if I do not have a major valve problem. It takes me so long to let go. lol..

Thinking if anyone were to ever poo on me, I would be highly offended though.

The picture you create (in my mind) is a very intense & intimate one shared only between a master/mistress & their slave. I wonder if this is how all submissives feel when pissed on by their dominant SO...

[amazingasia]

Originally Posted by LAVixian

Never tried any type of "shower" , always been too chicken shit I guess.

Or you just havent found the right person to play with... Who knows, you might like it?

[LAVixian]

Originally Posted by am-a-pleaser

Hmmmm, never done these showers. Maybe we can try golden showers together. We have to promise never to tell what we did if we don't like it.

Yep, if we don't like, we never did it, that's my story and I'm sticking to it!

[LAVixian]

Originally Posted by amazingasia

Or you just havent found the right person to play with... Who knows, you might like it?

your right, i might find someone tomorrow!

[Ezmerelda]

amazingasia,

there is a beautiful freedom in Bondage

[amazingasia]

Originally Posted by Ezmerelda

amazingasia,

there is a beautiful freedom in Bondage

I have heard this time & time again... And truly want to experience this for myself... However, making the leap to truly being subdued/bound/dominated by another still frightens me.

In all honesty I don't know if I could ever comfortably participate in bondage in a P4P situation... but I don't really play like this any where else.... So my question remains, how does one find a partner? Make the leap & truly submit? Seems as though this is a weird "special ed" question coming from someone that's dominant & actively participating in the kinkier alternative realm already. ()Hmmm... ?

[Ezmerelda]

Amazingasia,

i have been in the lifestyle for ten years now. i have had the chance to travel all over the states and europe, as well had several fabulous Mentor's who trained me, and showed me what to expect. i never incorporated sex with my Ds, as i tired quickly of those wanting to try to 'top' me to merely get their dick wet. This is not what i wished, i wished a Man to tend to me, and show me what Ds is really like. One particular Lady took very good care of me in Hawaii, one Male in California, and two here in Dallas.

You should really watch the movie 'The Pet', yes it is low budget, but fcuk if they do not pin the nail on the head. It would take You watching the movie, then us discussing it to explain my points.

i now incorporate a bit of play into my hobby. But take into fact, this is after i have had amazing training, and time in the real Ds sense. and very much know the difference.

Now, as with anytime i talk about my training, i shall have to hear bullshit from lame fcuks with something negative. These are usually the fcuks who offered the material goods for my real time submission. boys, save your time. tis not my first rodeo.

[petiteassman]

some people might look down on me as i p4p but when i reach the point that im with a beautiful naked provider and for my hard earned money what i want most for her to do is piss, puke or shit on me i know ITS TIME TO QUIT the hobby.

[Ezmerelda]

petiteassman,

look down on you?? really??? someone whom is on THIS site, a site which would be or should be void of judgement.. oh wait. this is the bible belt...

darling. if someone looks down on you, why do you give a damn? life is too short..... i mean, if we were meeting, and suddenly you asked me to shit on you, that is your flipping bad when i say hell no fcuking freak out of shock. but this sort of thing should be mentioned way beforehand.