What make a good GFE?

[angelinadream]

She read these and if anyone has any more suggestions that would be great.

My suggestion to her was to hone her instincts very well and find out what the OP wants or needs without really asking. Reading body language, reading what they are like online...As someone once told me what makes us "good" is being instinctive and learning to be a psychologist and figure out what will make the session good to the OP as everyone is different. The secret is finding out what "good " is to the OP. It could be a slap in the face to one or a kiss on the cheek to another. Take the information they decide to give you and QUICKLY decide how they are to be treated during the session. Do they need affection from lack of social interaction? Do they hold a powerful position and need to submit? Did they just go through a rough divorce and need their ego to be built up again from the woman that took their masculinity away? I was taught this by someone and it has benefited me. I read many books on body language, and psychology to try to get better at what I am. Knowing what they are looking for before they even realize they are looking for it, is the real key to this for me. They are here for a reason, it's up to us to find out why....That's my secret to being a good provider and I am still learning as I go. Made a few mistakes along the way but like everything we learn.

For Jasmina she has barely started the GFE thing so she is not to that level yet. She will be but like everything in life, we learn...Thank you all who have given us good advise and I hope you keep it coming for her to read. Happy turkey day.

[Guest030617]

I pride myself on many things... I feel that if you are offering something... you should make sure you KNOW what you are offering. GFE has become a Sales Point to many ladies....but few consider WHAT GFE is... GFE is most commonly described as a Girlfriend Experience. the next thing in my mind is... what do you do with your girlfriend?? How do you respond to her... how does she respond to her Boyfriend?? To me a Girlfriend Experience is all eyes on YOU...

When you come to my door, Im ready and waiting... Im Hungry... not all about the extra-curricular, though thats a NICE bonus... but Im Hungry for YOU... for your company, for your kiss, for your conversation, for your laughter, for your time.. for YOU.... to me, a Girlfriend after a long day is simply hungry to relax with her sweetheart... she knows you, shes comfortable with you... shes been expecting you and wants to please you... just as you do her.

When my arms wrap around your neck... thats it. Your Mine and Im yours... Im not worried about anything else, and shouldnt have to worry about anything other than YOU. thats what envelopes and tables are for. You come in, kisses and pleasantries, you put your keys, phone, envelope, etc. on the table and my arms are around you my lips pressed hungrily to yours as I snuggle close to you and ask you how your day was or what your plans for the day are... we chat, we take our time and we enjoy one another... THATs a GFE to me. All the rest should fall naturally into the Experience...

my favourite type of experience is a GFE with PSE highlights.... there is NOTHING more sexy to me than when two people click so well that GFE just HAPPENS... and PSE comes in for a visit to Adult Mutual Extracurricular fun... Natural Chemistry ROCKs... but mix it with the right BF/GF.... and Life doesnt GET any better.

~Fox

[Eccie Addict]

BDS "gets it" people!! Did you see that post?? If I could I would blow off thanksgiving to go see you Babydoll lol

That is how you make someone forget it's a session Jasmina right there.

[DallasRain]

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It's simple. Just look at the definition of GFE....girl friend experience. Do whatever is necessary to make the client feel like you are his girlfriend. The difficult part is that it means different things to diffferent people. To some it means LFK or DFK. To others it might mean cuddling before or after. And to alot here it means BBBJ.

AMEN!!!


Babydoll is so right!!



My answer is be yourself.......make a connection and let what happens happen naturally...and MOST important...HAVE FUN!

[Eccie Addict]

Really and truly it's up to the men to research a provider to see if she offers the things that he considers a girlfriend experience. Personally I don't know why a provider advertises GFE if she isn't willing to offer a wide and I mean a wide variety of activities to cater to many different clients who no doubt have their own definition of GFE. When a provider post an ad that says she offers GFE with a limited menu then she is looking for s targeted client base and that is what most guys don't like because to the guys GFE means ect. ect... I wouldn't even bother saying GFE and just list what you are comfortable with and be done with it.

That in my opinion would end the whole GFE crap.

[Killersalt]

BDS, what exactly are PSE highlights?? Sounds fun.

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by Killersalt

BDS, what exactly are PSE highlights?? Sounds fun.

Can't wait to read that response lol

[Guest030617]

PSE is a notch above GFE

In my case and my case alone

I only offer PSE to those that i wish were my man but I KNOW THEY COULD NEVER BE!!!

My definition of PSE is for my and my PSE/BF to know.....NO-ONE ELSE

[Rcoop361]

Originally Posted by Killersalt

BDS, what exactly are PSE highlights?? Sounds fun.

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Can't wait to read that response lol

MMMMMMM no comment, but MMMMMMMMMMMM

[Guest030617]

Originally Posted by Rcoop361

MMMMMMM no comment, but MMMMMMMMMMMM

lmao

[AshrDashr]

BDS hit the nail on the head.

[aboveitall]

Jackie S and BDS have very good points. Basically GFE means to me is the second I walk through the door you MUST have me. You CAN'T wait to get your hands on me. YOU make me feel desireable and want to please me. And I do my damnedest to reciprocate. When your laying on the bed and you or he needs a break between rounds, don't lay an arms length away. He wants to caress that softy silky skin of yours. Snuggle up next to him as if its 5 below and you need his body to stay alive. I'm sure I could go on but there's a lot of good suggestions already. Good enough advice?

[proper]

Bravo BDS. I have been pleasantly surprised by you of late and extremely desirable. Does not hurt that you have some very hot current pictures posted as well.

Originally Posted by babydollsnow

I pride myself on many things... I feel that if you are offering something... you should make sure you KNOW what you are offering. GFE has become a Sales Point to many ladies....but few consider WHAT GFE is... GFE is most commonly described as a Girlfriend Experience. the next thing in my mind is... what do you do with your girlfriend?? How do you respond to her... how does she respond to her Boyfriend?? To me a Girlfriend Experience is all eyes on YOU...

When you come to my door, Im ready and waiting... Im Hungry... not all about the extra-curricular, though thats a NICE bonus... but Im Hungry for YOU... for your company, for your kiss, for your conversation, for your laughter, for your time.. for YOU.... to me, a Girlfriend after a long day is simply hungry to relax with her sweetheart... she knows you, shes comfortable with you... shes been expecting you and wants to please you... just as you do her.

When my arms wrap around your neck... thats it. Your Mine and Im yours... Im not worried about anything else, and shouldnt have to worry about anything other than YOU. thats what envelopes and tables are for. You come in, kisses and pleasantries, you put your keys, phone, envelope, etc. on the table and my arms are around you my lips pressed hungrily to yours as I snuggle close to you and ask you how your day was or what your plans for the day are... we chat, we take our time and we enjoy one another... THATs a GFE to me. All the rest should fall naturally into the Experience...

my favourite type of experience is a GFE with PSE highlights.... there is NOTHING more sexy to me than when two people click so well that GFE just HAPPENS... and PSE comes in for a visit to Adult Mutual Extracurricular fun... Natural Chemistry ROCKs... but mix it with the right BF/GF.... and Life doesnt GET any better.

~Fox

[Wayward]

Originally Posted by aboveitall

Jackie S and BDS have very good points. Basically GFE means to me is the second I walk through the door you MUST have me. You CAN'T wait to get your hands on me. YOU make me feel desireable and want to please me. And I do my damnedest to reciprocate. When your laying on the bed and you or he needs a break between rounds, don't lay an arms length away. He wants to caress that softy silky skin of yours. Snuggle up next to him as if its 5 below and you need his body to stay alive. I'm sure I could go on but there's a lot of good suggestions already. Good enough advice?

Now that's an interesting post, gender confused much?

[aboveitall]

? How so wayward? I was just describing how I expect the woman to behave towards me. Maybe reading a little too much into that friend.