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Old 11-22-2013, 06:32 PM   #31
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DD, my post was not directed at you. You would be a huge loss to this board if you ever decided to leave.

On the bickering, im way more guilty than you, and you were helpful getting me square with malwoody when he and I were bickering. An example of the self policing we need.

I agree with your question of what it is that was disrespectful to a moderator, and I think you are owed an explanation in a pm.

I hope you hang with us. I left for awhile, because I wasn't feeling safe. Maybe ignore the board for a week?
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Old 11-22-2013, 06:56 PM   #32
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In my experience most people bitch in place rather than do something about their problems. I cant say that I agree with you guys on this topic, but at least you have put some effort into it. Keep complaining to them if you actually want it to change.

I will also say that while I find Gemma very hot and think she was good for the board, she seemed to throw the message board equivalent of a 3 year olds tantrum with opening a bunch of threads on the same topic that she had to know were not going to help her. To me there are ways to complain that get results and then there is making a spectacle in a place that will not get results. Its not worth becoming a martyr if you are doing it in the wrong place to get results.
Bigryan,

There was alot of that went down in other areas & with other mods that said a lot of shit to Gemma, she held her tongue as long as possible & went to the top with no satisfaction. She said her piece and every time a thread was closed she opened another to try and get the word out.

She did not feel the need to kiss anyones ass especially the 2 mods that caused her the most grief. She is a grown up & not a kid.

I for did not see her posts as 3 yr old tantrums but trying to get the attention of higher upls that were unbiased.

I will say yes Gemma can be opinionated & doesnt always see eye to eye with people but she also does nor put up bs when it comes to her business

Back to dd post so i dont get petty ass points for being off topic.
Welcome to the new era of the board that is ruled by the ghestapo. I miss the days when the old mods overlooked the petty bullshit & only got involved if it got way out of hand.
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Old 11-22-2013, 07:59 PM   #33
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Bigryan,

There was alot of that went down in other areas & with other mods that said a lot of shit to Gemma, she held her tongue as long as possible & went to the top with no satisfaction. She said her piece and every time a thread was closed she opened another to try and get the word out.

She did not feel the need to kiss anyones ass especially the 2 mods that caused her the most grief. She is a grown up & not a kid.

I for did not see her posts as 3 yr old tantrums but trying to get the attention of higher upls that were unbiased.

I will say yes Gemma can be opinionated & doesnt always see eye to eye with people but she also does nor put up bs when it comes to her business

Back to dd post so i dont get petty ass points for being off topic.
Welcome to the new era of the board that is ruled by the ghestapo. I miss the days when the old mods overlooked the petty bullshit & only got involved if it got way out of hand.
Opening a bunch of threads in the KC forum isn't going to get attention of higher ups. Opening multiple threads about getting points and opening new threads on closed threads on Kansas city boards was never going to help her cause if she would have remained rational she would not have done it. There may be a ton of background shit that had hit the fan, but without us knowing it in a coherent way her style of bringing attention brought the wrong type of attention thus looks like a tantrum. You may know a lot more about the behind the scenes so you know her intentions. I only saw the behavior. Sometimes knowing someone's intentions blinds people to the behavior. I am open to the fact that I am blind to the background so the behavior has little actual meaning to me.
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Old 11-23-2013, 12:01 PM   #34
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Guys relax and take it easy. In my honest opinion senior members and active members should lead a way for others on how to make this board (for that matter any board) a better place so that every body can vent, enjoy and share their experiences, emotions, etc. Being a senior member doesn't make you sit above the guidelines, every one is treated same (I'm trying my best).

If any of the hobbyist claims that they know more than a moderator regarding banning a provider recently then they are holding information that is against the board guidelines, i.e., they need to provide an explanation of how they got that 'more extra' info than a moderator. If they have info may be 'they have it', but thats just only one side of the coin listening from one mouth.

Lets not dig this again, past is past and lets all learn from those episodes and move on.
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Guys relax and take it easy. In my honest opinion senior members and active members should lead a way for others on how to make this board (for that matter any board) a better place so that every body can vent, enjoy and share their experiences, emotions, etc. Being a senior member doesn't make you sit above the guidelines, every one is treated same (I'm trying my best).

If any of the hobbyist claims that they know more than a moderator regarding banning a provider recently then they are holding information that is against the board guidelines, i.e., they need to provide an explanation of how they got that 'more extra' info than a moderator. If they have info may be 'they have it', but thats just only one side of the coin listening from one mouth.

Lets not dig this again, past is past and lets all learn from those episodes and move on.
Modda no where did i say i know more than a mod but i know enough plus the shit crypt pulled on me after he was told his services were no longer needed. So i have my personal insight plus what i know.
My final posting on this matter.
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