Lady boys and three somes?

[BigBaldBlk]

Nothing surprises me in this hobby anymore. To the OP, as long as you are with me in our allotted time, I really could care less who you see on (or off) the clock. It wouldn't have any bearing on me if I would see you again or not. Just our previous time together.

Kakes, you continue to amaze me with your intellect and dialogue. I agree, TS's maybe aren't for every one, but I can honestly say the ones I've chatted with and have heard from, leave a great impression on me!

[Trey]

I wonder do or would guys that are headersexual have issues with a provider they see regularly partake in this.


I responded to this question, it has come clear that if not in line with fucking trannys then you should not voice your opinion on the subject.

I got a warning for my opinion even though I violated no rules. I will let y'all have at it.

[jbravo_123]

Originally Posted by trey

I wonder do or would guys that are headersexual have issues with a provider they see regularly partake in this.


I responded to this question, it has come clear that if not in line with fucking trannys then you should not voice your opinion on the subject.

I got a warning for my opinion even though I violated no rules. I will let y'all have at it.

Dude, you got warned for your opinion because what you said could very easily be construed as a violation of the rules. Are you saying you honestly do not believe the terminology you used is derogatory and insulting?

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I have no problems if a provider wants to see TS clients. What they do in their own time is none of my business as long as it doesn't affect me negatively in some way.

[hubby4fun_85]

I don't choose a Provider based on which hobbyists have reviewed her but on the content of the review. In other words, I don't care who she has been with in the past, in fact she has probably been with numerous people I might not like or approve of but that isn't my business.

I grew up in a conservative, religious family but I have to confess that thinking about doing a MMF 3some or a 3some with a TS makes me damned horny. Probably won't ever have the opportunity to do it but definitely is a bucket list item.

[inctown]

Originally Posted by dreamvacationdates

Most trannies aren't attracted to fags, they prefer straight guys.......

I think this statement right here is what brings the anxiety of straight men toward trannies. The bait and switch fear.

No matter what a provider feels is true about themselves the client is the ultimate judge. If a provider feels she is average in size because "there are bigger women out there than me" and advertises herself as such. A guy books based on old outdated pictures and she shows up as a bbw. The guy will be pissed. A Tranny is no different.

A lot of straight men want no part of this action and some do (not going to argue a definition of straight vs "fag" as was done by others). A lot of straight men fell after or during a transformation a tranny is not a real woman. Drugs surgery etc will change what they are from just a regular man sure but every other chromosome in their body is xy (male) and not xx (female).

Some trannies feel they are a woman post op. If a guy agrees great enjoy but if a guy doesn't agree he is right as he is the one paying (keep in mind this is a hobby discussion not a real world discussion).

Providers and hobbyist have all kinds of "rules" about who they will or will not see. NBA, No CBJ, +40 rule, no BBW rules etc. This is no different. Once you go down this path it will close other doors for you. The question is will enough doors stay open or open up for you to make up for the loss.

[Trey]

Originally Posted by jbravo_123

Dude, you got warned for your opinion because what you said could very easily be construed as a violation of the rules. Are you saying you honestly do not believe the terminology you used is derogatory and insulting?

Some of it was I guess, but I do think that I got and am getting punished for bull shit reasons. I got five points for my last post and you tell me what I said in it that deserves five points. Either way I said what I had to say I will leave the rest to yall.

[dreamvacationdates]

Originally Posted by inctown

I think this statement right here is what brings the anxiety of straight men toward trannies. The bait and switch fear.

the guys that go for transexuals know what they are going for, most transexuals will tell you up front what they are. let's be honest some of them are very attractive and straight guys are attracted to them, one thing i was told years ago, if a woman looks absolutley perfect, it most likely not a woman.

Originally Posted by inctown

No matter what a provider feels is true about themselves the client is the ultimate judge. If a provider feels she is average in size because "there are bigger women out there than me" and advertises herself as such. A guy books based on old outdated pictures and she shows up as a bbw. The guy will be pissed. A Tranny is no different.

guys that go for transexual escort are looking for tranny escort, if he wasn't he wouldn't be there in the first place.

Originally Posted by inctown

A lot of straight men want no part of this action and some do (not going to argue a definition of straight vs "fag" as was done by others). A lot of straight men fell after or during a transformation a tranny is not a real woman. Drugs surgery etc will change what they are from just a regular man sure but every other chromosome in their body is xy (male) and not xx (female).

Guys do a whole lot of stuff if they think no one will find out. I seen some TS that would make some of these ladies jealous, and I'm sure a lot of the ladies can attest to that.

Originally Posted by inctown

Some trannies feel they are a woman post op. If a guy agrees great enjoy but if a guy doesn't agree he is right as he is the one paying (keep in mind this is a hobby discussion not a real world discussion).

No one is forcing anything on the guy, like I said before he wouldn't be there in the first place if he wasn't interested, your point is moot.

Originally Posted by inctown

Providers and hobbyist have all kinds of "rules" about who they will or will not see. NBA, No CBJ, +40 rule, no BBW rules etc. This is no different. Once you go down this path it will close other doors for you. The question is will enough doors stay open or open up for you to make up for the loss.

That is true, but you'll be surprised how many of the ladies are ok with it, I mean damn you don't have a problem with a bi-female,and wouldn't turn her down for it, but it's your choice. really I don't think most of the ladies care, it not like you're going to volunteer your sexual history to her, and for most i'm sure she not going to tell you if she partakes with TS people. and after some of the circus acts I seen some ladies do, that maybe the more vanilla choice

[ManInNeed]

Personally I love the idea of a threesome with a woman and a Transexual woman...I have had some amazing experiences with both and would absolutely love to have that opportunity someday here in Western New York....Good luck!! Great topic (Bi) the way....pun intended

[NotWhoUThink]

I think I would totally do it if she looks good...
I've been thinking about taking a strap-on anyway... why not give her a happy ending?

[inctown]

Originally Posted by dreamvacationdates

the guys that go for transexuals know what they are going for, most transexuals will tell you up front what they are......
guys that go for transexual escort are looking for tranny escort, if he wasn't he wouldn't be there in the first place......
No one is forcing anything on the guy, like I said before he wouldn't be there in the first place if he wasn't interested, your point is moot.

Clearly any guy that goes looking for a Tranny wants to be with one. That is common sense. I appreciate your feed back but you missed my point entirely.

To be clear again I was speaking of those straight men that feel negatively about trannies. Those that would black list a girl for seeing trannies (as was the question asked by the OP) would call them "fags" or the other such negativity. The fact that they might meet a tyranny that was not honest about who they are (hence the bait and switch scenario in my second sentence). They don't want to have a Crocodile Dundee moment. Hell even Ton loc rapped about it in Funky Cold Madena "I ain't messen around with no Oscar Meyer wiener". With as attractive as a tranny can turn out it is very hard often impossible to tell the difference. So the fear is legit. A tranny trying to trick a guy likely is rare but the fear is Extremely Common.

The majority of the board will stay silent about this. some are afraid to be called "homosexual" others afraid they will be called "homophobic". so far in this thread we have seen both labels come from both sides of the isle. Enjoy your fetishes. SexxyCassady I am glad you posted this thread. I look forward to hearing more from you.

[SexyCassandra]

I loved reading the comments and enjoy this thread very much. It put a lot in perspective for me.
Ultimately it is my choice. I am going to do what I feel is right and best for me. Having and being open minded is something that I have always believed in. Making others happy is not as important as pleasing yourself.
I judge no one for their personal choices, b/c I would not want someone to judge mine.

[Zhivago52]

One of my hobby mottos: "It's not what's inside of you that matters; its who is on the other end."

[SexyCassandra]

Originally Posted by Zhivago52

One of my hobby mottos: "It's not what's inside of you that matters; its who is on the other end."

Love it!! That's not a motto that's a FACT LMAO.

[SexyCassandra]

Id love to hear anything thing else that anyone has to add. I am still very interested in all comments.

[mm-good]

This is definitely on my list to do . We have even had a few posts about it here in the Realm and interest was pretty high.

For me , TSKK nailed it. I love and I mean love the feminine form in all the ways they exists. I have been with almost every shape, size and color , or whatever you can imagine - OK well maybe not imagine because that is pretty strong but you get the point....

I really think the sexuality of a bi-TS Lady would be amazing to experience in a TS-M-F threesome. It would let me have a shot at the triple oral fantasy! 2-tongue DATY, 2-mouth BBBJ w/ F& TS giving & me receiving AND ...yes I think I'd be willing to go for the 2-mouth BBBJ & F w/ F & me giving, especially with a friend helping me .. I'd think i'd also like to DATY the F participant while the TS Lady takes her... Ive not been into greek so probably would not make it to the top/bottom action .... but never say never! I am certain I'd LOVE 3-way DFK/LFK...so a 3-way snowball could not be far away... ijs..

For the F participant, I think I'd need the experience of the provider to help he along my journey. Same for the TS Lady. (ahem TSKK, when are you in DFW?)....I would trust them to help me cross the boundaries I may not be aware of ....

I must say I do really appreciate the knowledge and willingness to share from this group.

TSKK - you especially help bringing clarity as representing a much misunderstood area of sexuality for many, Thank you !!