Guys Beware

[southeasternvixen]

I ask for deposits from newbies and extended travel
I’ve had requests for 3 hour drives, I’m not about to risk that much time for a “Oh I’m sorry something came up.”
It’s one of those things where ladies run their business, if you don’t like how she runs her company then please take your hard earned money else where. Just like a gentleman can have his account flagged ladies can too. Reputable is Reputable

[Banker1970]

Cheap guys, just pay the deposit - she'll show up

[Jellybeans]

Originally Posted by CowboyDave

Reputable or not, when there's simply so many other other options out there, if the sale is complicated, buyers will just move on to the next one. I'd be interested to hear how often ladies who ask for a "deposit" are successful? That will tell you all you need to know.

**And really, this is the bottom line. Either party .is entitled to move on to the next client, or provider if the sale is not to the liking of the other.
We all know the rules that we should adhere to. Whether it is call if you can't make it (either party) not going dark and letting down the other, or paying the required donation before, during, or after the fun (lady's preference), being punctual, being respectful, and doing the job to the best of either party's ability. That being said, we all fuck up in some way, sometimes. Best to apologize and move on. If you want to require a deposit, that is your right. If you understand a provider's point of view, then paying a deposit should be no problem, even if you have never paid a deposit before. In addition if a man is planning to fuck her over, or won't pay electronically, or doesn't understand where the provider is coming from, then don't pay the deposit.
amen

[sjohnlewis]

Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

Really!!!!??? You cannot tell people to do what you do. I require deposits because of the high volume of ncns or just someone trying to bullshit me. Again, if you don't like the deposit, see someone who doesn't require this. I know I have spoken to at least 5 men on this thread about this. Quit starting shit, posting bullshit posts and just see someone else. Don't tell someone never to do it. Because I have never fucked anyone over, but I have to protect my gas money that I have wasted, hotel room money went to the toilet multiple times. And y'all are pissed cuz a deposit is necessary. How about grow the fuck up, quit bitching & FIND SOMEONE WHO DOESNT REQUIRE THIS! BUT KC dudes should know, if ya don't like the deposit, quit fucking with us & quit setting up appointments that you don't follow through with!!!!!!!

"I’ve been hobbying for a long time. I would never pay a deposit nor wire money to someone for meeting. Cash at the time of the meeting is my only way.

There are way too many frauds, schemers, and rip-off artists to do otherwise.

If that means I can’t see someone, so be it. I’ve got plenty of options. It doesn’t offend me for a lady to ask, just know I’ll politely decline and move on.

Obviously some people need to learn how to read and comprehend a simple paragraph.

just know I’ll politely decline and move on"

We have all heard you loud and clear. Now we will politely decline your services and move on to other women who understand the situation.